Women are afraid of being disappointed and hurt in their feelings, so it is inevitable to learn to distinguish whether a man is sincere about himself in love.
Many women are used to asking each other in love, "Do you really love me?" "How much do you love me?" Something like that. As everyone knows, if a man loves you, he will naturally tell you all his heart sincerely. But if he doesn't love you, he may lie to you in turn.
So love and no love there is no need to grab the other party and ask the exit, he said no love, you will not die.
In fact, from daily life, you can roughly feel how he is. The instinctive reaction of a man to love a person cannot be hidden, but these qualities.
The "instinctive reaction" of a man who loves a person cannot be concealed
Eyes see each other with light
If a man loves someone in his heart, then when he sees the other party, he is often in a state of joy, feeling very happy to stay with her, and his eyes will burst with different brilliance.
For example, just like you have a cute puppy at home, you stay with it every day and give it bones to eat, so it will subconsciously be more willing to approach you. Every time I see you, I will be happy to jump and wag my tail, and my eyes will be full of vivid light.
But when it sees a stranger, the puppy is barking and may even bite others, and it is completely different when it follows you.
In other words, this is the difference between loving and not loving.
When you like someone, you will long to see each other, and when you see them, your eyes will be reluctant to leave her. When you see something you like, the light that bursts out of your eyes is commonly known as "love".
Willing to make efforts that do not ask for anything in return
Xu Zhimo, a talented son of the Republic of China, fell in love with Lin Huiyin when he studied abroad, and at that time, in order to be with Lin Huiyin, he resolutely divorced his wife Zhang Youyi.
At that time, Zhang Youyi was still pregnant, and her parents also opposed Xu Zhimo's willfulness. But he was still bent on going his own way.
Lin Hui was unwilling to entangle with him who had a family afterwards, so he broke off contact with Xu Zhimo and returned to China to "hide".
Later, Xu Zhimo did not stay with Lin Huiyin as he wished, and he also carried the ancient infamy of "scumbag".
However, Xu Zhimo did not resent Lin Huiyin, and even to his death, he was killed in a plane crash because he wanted to see Lin Huiyin's lecture to change flights.
If a man is willing to pay for a woman regardless of the return, no matter what he does, the actual starting point is to please the other party. This also shows that his love for the woman is deep in his bones.
I miss each other constantly
If a man often tells you that he misses you, then you don't have to pay attention to it. But if he takes the initiative to meet you and make an appointment with you because he misses you, then you should approve of what he says in your heart at this time.
The best thing to do when missing someone is to let the other person know and take action.
So in the relationship, you don't listen to what he says, but see how he does it. Only when the words spoken are put into practice can they prove a person's sincerity.
The instinctive reaction of a man to love a woman cannot escape the above. He will be full of joy when he sees the person he likes, and he will not ask for anything in return for her efforts, and he will not help but miss the other party all the time.
Love or not love is in the details, after reading this, the one in your heart, is it worth being beaten?