Whether men and women can enter into love is not premised on being able to contact each other.
It is whether there is emotional communication between the two parties, and whether they can feel the current generated by the existence of the other party.
For many men and women who know each other on a blind date, having the willingness to communicate after knowing each other is two different things.
Male friends must know that when you are close to a woman, if she has the following three reactions, it means that the other party is emotional about you.
1. Will take the initiative to respond to you
In fact, in life, a pair of men and women who have the idea of communicating can reasonably get closer when facing some special situations.
For example: the other party is sitting in your driving position, and when you wear a seat belt for the other party, the physical aspect will be closer;
When entering a restaurant, if you pull a seat for the other party, or pour tea or drinks for the other party, the body may also be closer;
Then there is the rain outside, men and women walk together, when you hold an umbrella for each other, the two people's bodies will be closer...
These behaviors themselves do not actually exist in particular, but if they are done with emotional colors, the feelings of both parties will change.
On the man's side, he will also make reasonable use of this situation to test women's reactions to themselves; and women, if they also have feelings for men, may not subconsciously avoid, but will take the initiative to respond to you.
That is: instead of dodging, they will deliberately approach you, so that the distance between you is closer.
In fact, through this reaction, you can most directly understand the other party's attitude towards you. As long as men master this method, they will certainly not be wrong in the general direction.
2. Become shy
Of course, for some more extroverted and generous women, it may not be because men make some reasonable situations and physically close to their own actions, but will be treated with a calm attitude.
Therefore, it is not entirely because the other party has not evaded or dodged to determine that the other party has developed love for the man in front of him.
However, people have basic observation ability, and at any time they can determine how the other party feels about themselves through their own demeanor, behavior, and reaction to the other party.
Therefore, when you are close to a woman, the other party will not appear that kind of reflexive dodge at the same time, but also show a shy expression, then the other party is very good for you.
Because if the other person has no special ideas about you and is more introverted, she will dodge; if she is more generous and cheerful by nature, and thinks that under the current circumstances, the closeness of two people's bodies is normal, then she will not be shy.
So it's clear that not dodging but being shy, that's for emotional reasons.
3. Don't object to your ridicule
Ordinary friends of the opposite sex, even men and women who have just consciously established a kind of contact with the premise of communication, are actually more restrained and cautious in getting along, and will not rush to cross the thunder pool.
Because the relationship between them has not yet reached the level where they can joke and joke at will.
If you don't grasp the right balance in this regard, perhaps your self-righteous humor will become a kind of rude offense in the eyes of the other party!
No one is so rash and does not know how to behave, and no one will casually risk the possibility of losing a relationship that they value more and do such a common sense thing.
Therefore, for the vast majority of men and women, if one of them thinks that he or she can start teasing the other party, it means that he or she believes that the relationship between the two people has become clear and that the relationship has made breakthrough progress.
So when a man starts teasing a woman, he already thinks that the two are actually lovers.
And the other party does not mind the man's ridicule, but also has a cute response or response, rather than showing a sullen face, with a skeptical and unhappy attitude of silence, it means that this woman has also developed love for you and agreed that you are a couple.
A woman's promise to accept a man's pursuit is really not the same thing as whether she has really fallen in love with the other person.
Men can not act rashly before determining that the other party is moved by themselves, words and deeds are slightly worse, and if they are too hasty and overheated, they may mess up the relationship and let their image in the other party's mind be irreversibly damaged.
Therefore, it is still necessary to take it step by step, use their sincerity and enthusiasm to move and strive for the other party to open their hearts as soon as possible.
So what situation can show that her pursuit has borne fruit and that the woman has become emotional about herself? In fact, it is very simple, that is, when the two people are closer together, she will not dodge, and she will shyly accept this approach.
Another point that is more obvious is that you can casually joke and joke between you, without the sense of restraint at the beginning, which is quite critical.
After all, for many women, before they have a special affection for a man, she must let the man maintain such a minimum social rule of respecting herself and treating herself well, which is a very common female psychology.
Only when she is in love with a man, this kind of guard and mind is dispelled, can she accept your intimacy and casualness.
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