Loving someone is physiologically responsive, not loving someone, too.
In a relationship between the sexes, when you don't love someone, you can't hide it.
Whether it is a husband and wife, or a lover, there are four instinctive "reactions" when they get along, that is, they dislike you.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="63" > first, and there are eyes that do not want to see</h1>
Love cannot be hidden, and even if you close your mouth, it will overflow from your eyes.
A friend is getting married, and the marriage partner is a friend who has known each other for a long time.
They have known each other for 7 years, but the relationship only started last year.
Once in small talk, I asked her, "Didn't you notice that he liked you a long time ago?" ”
My friend was surprised, said he didn't find it, and asked me how I knew.
I replied, "The eyes are the windows of the soul, and whatever you think in your heart can be revealed from the eyes, and there is an unconcealed love in his eyes for you." ”
Indeed, when a person loves you, he has you in his eyes.
He can tolerate your every bad habit and can take care of your every bad temper.
Cuteness is the detail, not love, too.
When a person does not love, the eyes cannot be hidden.
Private messages from readers:
She now feels confused because she can't be sure if her boyfriend wants to marry her or not.
They've been together for 5 years and she's 27 years old.
But every time she mentioned the issue of marriage, her boyfriend was always vague and his eyes were evasive.
In fact, if a man is sincere with you, his eyes cannot deceive people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="62" > second, there are ears that do not want to listen</h1>
I once read a sentence:
"In this world, there are three things that cannot be covered, cough, poverty and love."
Love, manage very widely, talk more and ask more, willing to participate in each other's things.
The other party does not say, will not ask, the other party said, pretend not to hear, the other party said again, will be angry, you should understand that he does not love you.
In the movie "No Questions Asked", what lingers in the heart for a long time is the moment when Liu Shufen jumped into the well, without any nostalgia and hesitation.
Xu Bochang's marriage to Liu Shufen was a mistake from the beginning.
Liu Shufen took a knife and forced Xu Bochang to marry her.
After marriage, this man is endlessly indifferent.
She beat or scolded, and Xu Bo often never returned the mouth or fought back.
During an argument, Liu Shufen said: "Outsiders only see me beating you and scolding you, but they don't know how you beat me." ”
It is true that although Xu Bochang did not move, his indifferent attitude was more hurtful than his hands.
In the world of feelings, you have seen a person who really likes you, and you will perceive the other party's dislike for you in the details.
When a person is not in love, from the heart you feel that your existence is superfluous, and everything has nothing to do with yourself.
Your words are in his ears and will only become the wind in his ears.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="61" > third, there is a mouth that does not want to say</h1>
One does not ask, one does not say, no matter how good love, it will slowly disappear.
If a love is ignored, a love is not said, and love becomes a chicken rib.
I once saw a question: Husband and wife can not exceed 10 sentences a day, how can such a day be lived?
She described that she went to work during the day, never called when she had nothing to do, and went home at night from the entrance to the door is an hour of bathroom, came out to eat dinner, and then chatted with different netizens at the computer until one or two in the morning.
Obviously, two people eat and sleep under the same roof, but never share their inner feelings;
On the surface, it is harmonious and full of calm wind and waves, but it can be like a great enemy with a little wind and grass;
Marriage has also become a backwater, and everything has become a routine.
Life is full of impermanence, and what I want to say is that if you don't want to make a sound, you don't love.
Between husband and wife, talking is the most basic thing.
If one day you don't even want to do the most basic things, you don't have the most basic human touch, and your feelings are just an empty shell with a vain name.
Some people say that people only have a special heart for what they like.
Indeed, in the tone, there is a man's love, and in the way of responding to you, there is a man's intention.
If once there is reluctance, the inner thought is disgust, do not want to love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="49" > fourth, and some hands are reluctant to move</h1>
Love is like this, I thought that this love would always bloom, but it withered away in a short time.
Love or not love, it's all at the thought.
Judging whether a person loves you or not is not to see what he says, but to see what he does.
Truly loving a person will not always exist only in words, but in real action.
Once in a video like this:
An elderly couple went up the stairs, the grandmother walked in front, and the grandfather carefully followed in the back.
After walking up, the grandfather naturally changed the right-hand side to the left-hand side to hold it, and the right hand took the grandmother's hand in a smooth manner.
You will think that he loves her wife very much, but in fact, her wife loves him equally, because after her wife went up, she watched her husband slowly walk up, waiting for him to take her hand.
On the contrary, when a relationship is left with only one party trying and the other party is full of perfunctory, it is no longer cared.
Although it is said that falling in love with a person requires wholeheartedness, if you realize that a person's heart has no longer you, no matter how much you love him, you must stop the loss in time.