On October 25, Wang Mou, Daowai District, Harbin, killed his mother and burned the body. According to the residents of the same community, the murderer Wang Mou was twenty-five or six years old, and the person who was killed was his mother! After Wang killed his mother in the middle of the night, he dragged the body from the stairs to the fitness area of the community to burn the body, and hid the body in the walkway grove. The plot in the horror movie, which is really staged in real life, is it the loss of humanity or the evil result of the failure of family education?
The father of the family where the crime occurred has been dead for several years, which means that only mother and child may be left to rely on each other! Both were the closest people to each other, and the poor mother did not expect until her death that she would eventually lose her own son. I don't know what kind of hatred, so that Wang Mou extended his sinful hands to his mother, and also burned the body, thinking about it is creepy! The coldness of the suspect and the evil consequences of the extinction of humanity are rooted in the failure of family education. That is to say, the cause of the tragedy is still the problem of parents' family education at home. The debt owed by the original family education must be repaid by parents and children in the end!
What kind of family education do we need to let our children grow up without taking a crooked or wrong path? A few personal comments!
1. We Chinese often say that people should be educated, which is very well said and very well. The right emphasis is on the importance of teaching, and the cultivation comes first, isn't it? Now most people, children are not around, parents are raised generations apart, there is no education at all, they can not do anything. And the child is around, go home is also to throw the hand in the cabinet, do not pay attention to the child's education! Parents ask themselves, how many people are raised and not taught? Children must educate themselves before they reach adulthood, cannot push the responsibility to their parents, and must carefully support the healthy growth of the child's body and mind, and correct mistakes immediately when problems occur!
2. The ancients often said: The Son does not teach, the Father's fault, the teaching is not strict, the Teacher's laziness! How many parents have seriously and truly strictly educated their children? Is it that most of them have not fulfilled their parental responsibilities, and even the children do not know how many grades they have. Last time there was a news, it was said that the father sent the child to school, and the child who was sent to the first grade was sent to the kindergarten teacher, the child said that the delivery was wrong, and the father also scolded the child for not wanting to go to school, and drove away. It wasn't until the elementary school teacher informed the mother that the child was absent from school. The reason is that the father sent the child to kindergarten once when the child was in the kindergarten class, and the father's memory has always stayed at that moment! People laugh it off as a joke. It was indeed a big joke, a very sad joke. Why is no one condemning the lack of parental responsibility?
3. How many parents can't pass the high school junior college exam themselves, but they require their children to go to Tsinghua Peking University. How many parents are bright and green every day, mahjong is noisy, and the years are wasted. But it requires children to study seriously and improve every day. Isn't the conscience of parents not painful and not red? When children see their parents like this, do they think in their hearts, parents can do this, why can't I? Since you want your child to make up for your regrets, why not spend more time with your child to work hard and grow up together, so that your child does not step on the pit they have stepped on, and do not take the road they have walked!
4. There are also some parents, especially some upstarts, who believe that they have money and power, that their children's education is irrelevant, and that they can keep their children prosperous. I knew a few before, my father was rich and noble, I didn't care about my children, I didn't expect feng shui to take turns! Now the family road is in decline, and there is no food and clothing! Have you ever thought that Qin Shi Huang was still a cup of loess left, where are the rich and noble for thousands of generations?
Parents would rather study cats, dogs, flowers, flowers, plants, how to paste cards in mahjong, and how to put on a pomp and circumstance outside? Why not treat your own children with the same heart. Seriously understand all aspects of their children, correct guidance, the most important thing is to lead by example, reasonably plan the path that children can take, let children know how they should choose, form a correct view of right and wrong, outlook on life, values, and no regrets, and strive for their choices for life. In this way, parents have no worries, children have hope, society has righteousness, and everyone is happy! Isn't that good?