First, learn to be silent
The more unpleasant life is, the less noisy it is. No one really understands you, instead of expecting others to feel empathy, it is better to calm down, quietly produce wisdom, find the reason, precipitate yourself, and accumulate strength. The more low, the more low-key and humble, to look at excellent people, to recuperate.
The most powerful realm of life is "silence", silence is gold, control your mouth, do not export hurt people, do not cause trouble. A lot of things to say, in fact, the meaning is not great, but consume energy. When you are in a low valley and lack of ability, you will delve into research and self-motivation, do not speak, and cultivate your spirit.
Second, society patience
The process of patience, although uncomfortable, is the most testing. The road to success is not crowded, but too many people choose to give up and choose to take shortcuts. There are many things in life, if you want to have a good result, the most important thing is to persist. Don't ask for it overnight, but ask for "melon ripeness and fall", everything goes with nature.
Third, learn to endure hardships
Life can not avoid suffering, each stage has to bear the tiredness and difficulties. Sometimes physical exhaustion, sometimes mental exhaustion. Fall into the trough, don't cry and cry, don't escape, be discouraged, life will not take extra care of you because you are wronged, rather than being weak to others, it is better to rely on yourself strongly. Man must not be proud, but he must not be proud.
If you don't come out on your own, no one can help you. Life is your own, the road is your own, good or bad must be carried by yourself. Be strong, there is no obstacle in life that cannot be passed. Some things, gritting their teeth, pass. There is bitterness and sweetness in life, there is sweetness in bitterness, and there is sweetness in bitterness.
Fourth, learn to look down
In this life, ups and downs are the norm, look down, no matter the good times and adversities, they are not chaotic in the heart, this is the state of mind that the strong should have. Above man, do not take others as impersonal; below men, do not take oneself against others. Respect others and be kind to yourself. Maintain an optimistic and open-minded attitude, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, even if it is difficult to survive the time and ordinary life, it is necessary to emit the light of self-confidence.
People will not always be smooth, nor will they always live in the whirlpool, gains and losses are always normal, in the ups and downs of life, we must maintain the calm and frankness of the heart, in order not to be disturbed by sudden troubles, live at ease and steadily. Thank you for reading and sharing [prayer] [prayer] [prayer]
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