Barbie dolls are almost every little girl's beloved thing, everyone dreams of becoming a Barbie doll, wearing a beautiful dress, but if you really raise children as Barbie dolls, what will it look like?
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In Russia there was a little girl named Angelica Konova. Since the age of 6, her parents have bought her a lot of Barbie dolls and dressed her up like a Barbie doll, pink and tender, cute and loving.
She is now 33 years old and still dressed like a Barbie doll, with blonde hair and pink clothes.
Her eyes are as innocent as Barbie dolls, because of her innate advantages, at the age of 16, she debuted by imitating Barbie dolls and began to model.
Now that more than ten years have passed, her fame is getting bigger and bigger, and all kinds of endorsements and advertisements have also been received.
Angelica has a very "unrealistic" body proportion, but this "unrealistic" fits barbie proportions exactly. She has a waistline of just 20 inches (50.8 cm), but has 32e cups and weighs just over 40 kilograms.
If she wears a beautiful princess dress, deliberately poses a stiff movement, and pretends to have innocent eyes, she really can't tell whether it is a toy or a real person.
She was known as "the most Barbie-like person", and her life was filled with pink, and her whole family called her "Little Princess".
People can't help but envy her beauty and figure, and they all think that she must come from a beautiful, happy family.
However, the story behind the Russian live-action Barbie is very sad.
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Everything from birth to her parents is controlled, whether it is food, drink, dress, accessories, need to strictly follow the requirements of her parents.
It can be said that Angelica was completely raised by her mother as a doll, giving her the best education, but also lost her freedom. Mom asked her to wear whatever clothes she liked, and she had no right to decide.
Since she was a child, her mother told her that Barbie dolls are the dream of all girls, making her think how wonderful it is to be a Barbie doll.
When she was in school, she couldn't run and fight with other classmates, and if she accidentally hurt her parents, she would be very angry.
Usually girls take some dance and singing lessons, but what Angelica has to do is practice Barbie's movements in front of the mirror and perform them when relatives come to the house. The guests felt very similar and gave her the nickname "Russian Barbie".
In addition, Angelica began to manage her body from an early age, and she could not eat many foods, including sweets and ice cream, which were children's favorites.
She also found a special personal trainer to develop an extremely strict exercise plan for her, requiring 5 days a week to exercise for 2-3 hours at a time. Do all kinds of strength training and cardio exercises, and run in the morning.
Under such strict management, Angelica naturally has a perfect body.
A good body has been, and the shape cannot be sloppy.
The clothes that Angelica is suitable for each occasion are arranged by her mother. Buy any clothes, you must get your mother's consent.
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Angelica has been protected from a "glass castle" since childhood, but this protection is not necessarily good...
Angelica, who is 33 years old, has never dated a boy alone, and if she wants to go out and date a boy, she must set 3 seats, and her mother will go with her and monitor her every move.
So she was also upset, feeling that it was difficult for her to adapt to real life and that she had no way to make friends, let alone boyfriends.
She still lives with her parents, and whenever she offers to move out, they will be furious and won't let her move.
Although her parents disciplined her strictly in life, she was particularly supportive of her modeling career, even if she took some semi-nude photos and uploaded some large-scale photos on social networks.
It can be said that parents have a strong desire to control Angelica, parents allow can do, parents oppose, can not do a single thing.
This method of education has domesticated her, and she has even brainwashed herself into thinking that becoming a Barbie doll is what she should do.
As she got older, although Angelica had some ideas of her own, it was difficult for her to become an independent person apart from her parents.
But she knows she's a spoiled princess: I know it's bad to have my mom date me, I should be independent, but I can't do it.
After so many years of habits can not be changed, dependence on parents has penetrated deep into the marrow.
On the other hand, she is also afraid of not listening to her parents, who will be very sad and do not want to be an unfilial person.
The life of not being able to make its own decisions, even with the beauty and figure of the gods, does not seem to be a very enviable thing.
Despite this, Angelica is very positive, often encouraging fans to keep smiling and loving themselves.
She also strives to do something that makes her happy in her limited free life, hoping to remain happy and beautiful forever.
For love, she is always full of fantasies, she hopes that she can meet her true love, and she also hopes that this relationship can be supported by her parents.
"I'm waiting for a great true love, I don't like those sweet talking cute boys, what suits me is the machismo full of strength and pride!" 」
Angelica also has a final expectation for her future life: "Now that I live entirely in my parents' crystal palace, I hope to one day break it." If you can start your own life independently, it is not too late! ”
I sincerely hope that one day she can really get rid of this bondage in the name of love...
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In fact, many parents in the process of education, in the name of good for their children to control their children.
From dressing, eating and traveling, to interpersonal communication, school choice, work, and even to the later choice of mate, childbirth, and lifestyle, parents all have to take care of it.
Even if the child is 30 years old and 40 years old, he still can't let go of his hand, afraid that if he is not well taken care of, the child will go the wrong way and fall into various "traps".
But parents have not really thought about it, is this really good for the child? Will children be truly happy? When you leave ta, can he still adapt to this society?
Like Angelica, she had no way to be independent on her own.
Flowers in greenhouses are most likely to wither. Is control in the name of "love" really good for children?
Imposing one's own thoughts or unfulfilled wishes on a child is unfair to the child.
Every child is an independent individual, and they need love, but also understanding and respect. They should have a life of their own choosing.
Try to let go, and you may find that your child is braver than you think.