Today we talk about the nature of sexual attraction found in science:
1. About PEA (Phenylethylamine)
2. Early impression inscription
What is pea (phenylethylamine)
You already know that the excitement and fascination of drug use, smoking, and playing games is because of dopamine, think about the fawn bumping and confused feeling that you are in love with a person, is it also some kind of neurotransmitter at work?
Yes, it's called phenethylamine (pea), and scientists speculate that it makes you have this theme of love that countless poets and movies render!
However, the frenetic feeling sustained by this chemical does not last forever, and usually within one to three years of you falling in love with a person, the secretion of phenylethylamine in the body will be exhausted, but it is enough to make people truly love vigorously, or to willingly say "I do" at the wedding and start reproducing.
Accustomed to the indifference of love, and even empathy, you want to give that damn him a needle of phenylethylamine, but it is estimated that it is difficult to control the object of his love, in case the catalyst is the feeling of others, wouldn't it be worse.
So we honestly learn some tricks to let his brain secrete phenylethylamine to you, so as to produce the feeling of falling in love
Phenylethylamine, like other chemicals, is a physiological response that occurs after the body encounters a specific stimulus.
So, what makes us feel excited about a person?
Researchers have confirmed that what happens in our lives during our childhoods, when we are about 5 to 8 years old, produce a phenomenon called "subconscious inscription" in the brain, which is "early impression inscription", similar to the chick complex in animal behavior.
Sex scientist John Moni coined the concept of the "love map" to describe this inscription, arguing that positive inscriptions in love maps coexist with negative inscriptions.
Positive inscriptions such as when you were a child, your mother liked a certain floral scent, your father laughed mischievously, or your favorite teacher had a wrinkle on his nose when he laughed, and when you grew up, you would suddenly be attracted to people who encountered similar situations.
Negative inscriptions such as when you were a child you were sexually harassed by a certain man, then when you grow up, you may never fall in love with a man with a sly smile, or maybe your grumpy and obedient aunt likes a certain perfume, then when you grow up, you will smell the perfume of a certain lady like an insecticide.
Childhood experiences are easy for you to forget, but they are hidden in your deep and vast subconscious, until the right moment, when someone touches, your veins will gush out a large amount of phenylethylamine, impacting your brain, so you fall in love.