Phoenix women are generally women, especially after marriage. There are also before marriage, but there are few, but it is more pampered peacock women who do more before marriage. The phoenix woman is mostly abandoned before marriage, so the premarital work is pure stupidity, less. After marriage, before having children, there is a husband and wife life as the basis, as long as the needs of men living as husband and wife are better met, it does not matter at all. After having children, children are the biggest reliance. Unless you do it in heaven and break the bottom line, your mother is still good to your mother, for the sake of your children, men can only endure the work of the phoenix woman. When the children are grown up and both sides are old, the phoenix woman depends on her own children. Therefore, it is possible not to love your own men, but you must love your children, because they are the real dependence of the phoenix woman.