Some time ago, Huawei recruited two "genius teenagers" and just graduated with an annual salary of 2 million.
Some news, the whole network is boiling again, especially many parents are envious.
Some people say that every genius is not accidental, and there must be a parent who will "manage" behind it.
Indeed, parents do not "manage" their children in place, and whether they "manage" them is reasonable is the key to their children's growth.
1. Parents who can "manage" "manage" the direction
In addition to not having children, Huawei's "genius teenager" Zhi Huijun, who was jokingly said by netizens, was a child who loved to "do it" since he was a child.
In the face of this situation, his parents did not interfere too much with him, but instead deliberately found some old household appliances to dismantle him.
His parents had only one principle for him: to guarantee grades, and other than that, not to interfere with any hobbies.
Including choosing a major later, parents are more like their sons.
In 2020, Meng Linghao, a science student in the Shandong College Entrance Examination, liked to play the cello since he was a child, and his goal was to be admitted to the art troupe of Tsinghua University. In this regard, his parents also said that as long as he likes, we support it.
The mother of Ding Yaqi, a winner of the Anhui college entrance examination, said: "As long as the child is friendly and the direction of progress is not wrong, no matter what path she chooses, we will unconditionally support!" ”
Seeing the "management" of these genius parents, it is not difficult for us to see that parents who can "manage" have one thing in common: do not control and do not force their children to do what they think.
2. Parents who can "manage" are "managing" habits
Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said: "The goal of education is to cultivate good study habits. ”
Tang Chuyue's father, the winner of the 2020 Hubei college entrance examination, said in an interview that we did not accompany her to write homework since she was a child, but we cultivated her good study habits.
Coincidentally, the mother of Li Yunwei, the head of heilongjiang science in 2020, talked about his learning methods, and Li's mother also said that from an early age, we paid attention to the cultivation of his learning habits.
Xie Xinying's parents began to cultivate her reading habits from the age of one, which also laid a solid foundation for her later good study habits.
The English philosopher Emmons once said that habit is either the best servant or the worst master. As long as we develop good habits, we will benefit for a lifetime.
3. Parents who can "manage" "manage" themselves
Dong Qing said: "If you want your child to become what kind of person, you yourself should first become such a person." ”
In 2014, the parents of Dong Jiyang, a science graduate in Anhui Province, said on the education of their children that they did not spend too much effort on his learning, but nothing more than leading by example, they like to learn, and the children followed the ears.
Dong Jiyang also said: "Occasionally I will be greedy and do not want to learn. Mom and Dad saw it, didn't say anything, just sat down to read and study. Seeing them studying, I'm embarrassed not to learn. ”
Zhang Heng, a guangdong science champion, said that dad is a very learning person, and in the case of illness, he does not give up the intermediate draftsman qualification examination.
He said that his father was his best role model, and seeing his father work so hard, he was deeply affected and embarrassed not to study well.
The child is a copy of the parents, and only by ensuring that the original is not a problem, the copy will not go wrong. Parents "manage" themselves, and children naturally "manage" well.
Genius teenagers have never been born out of nowhere, and the cultivation of the day after tomorrow is the key.
As young parents, we grasp the right direction from now on, cultivate children's good learning habits, lead by example, establish a relaxed and pleasant family atmosphere, and give children enough love.