As the old saying goes, "Brothers are one heart, and their profits are broken." Indeed, brotherhood is a guarantee of family prosperity. In general, however, fraternal relations are often unsatisfactory.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > the power of role models</h1>
The relationship between Su Shi and Su Che during the Northern Song Dynasty was a model of brotherhood. Su Shi said in a poem: "Widowed brothers, one son from all over the world." ”
No matter what kind of situation it is, such as obedience, rebellion, prosperity, or withering, there is a lot of friendship and brotherhood between them. They comforted each other when they were sad; helped each other in times of trouble; often dreamed of each other; and wrote poems to express their feelings.
The two often take advantage of the opportunity to live in each other's homes for a long time, get along closely with each other's children (their own nephews and nieces), and cannot bear to be separated, but they have to leave without hesitation.
The two often went to Willow Lake to row a boat, strolling on the outskirts of the city, talking about family affairs, state affairs, and the future. Zi Yu once gave advice to his brother, and he reminded his brother to understand the other person he was talking to when speaking, and some people could open their hearts and some could not.
When his term of office in Hangzhou expired, Su Shi asked to be transferred to Mizhou, because at that time, Zi Youzheng was serving in Jinan, and the two places were not far apart, which showed the affection of the two people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > examples</h1>
There is a family of two brothers in the neighboring village: Wu Da and Wu Er. Wu Da was greedy for money and treacherous; Wu Er was loyal and honest, and said little. The family's cultivated land and homestead are divided into two.
Wu Er is out all year round. Wu Da used the plot to confuse his parents, co-opt the village cadres, and turn all of Wu Er's property into his own private property. As a result, the relationship between the two brothers was not harmonious.
Among the brothers, Wu Da puts interests first and encroaches on property that does not belong to him, can his heart be at ease? Will it last? Does he have the concept of family in his heart? How could the family prosper under his actions!
In short, brothers get along, when learning Su Shi and Su Che two brothers. If that were the case, the family would flourish and the family would be strong. In contrast, those narrow-minded pursuit of profits will surely be self-contained!