As the saying goes, a day is a teacher for life as a father.
All the behaviors of a person in life can be traced back to their family education, from the ideological consciousness of the moral level to the bad behavior of cursing people and smoking. Although it sometimes seems that there is no connection between the behaviors, in fact, the reason can be found in past experiences.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > Li Yundi set up a "rollover", and the three sentences of the teacher made people feel helpless</h1>
After all, in the piano industry, the more well-known pianists in the Chinese industry in addition to Lang Lang, Li Yundi definitely has a name. And in recent years, in addition to his rise in the piano industry, he has also participated in many variety shows, and the person he has been creating is a big boy with both literary qualities and courtesy.
Even though he is 39 years old this year, his fresh and ungreessive appearance is not contrary to this person, and his few scandals are also a plus. As long as he is mentioned, whether it is a circle of friends or fans, or even ordinary people will hold praise for him.
But it is such an artist who has maintained a good image for many years, but recently "overturned". The mistake he made was to directly punch himself in the face and maintain the image of a decent gentleman for many years. When such a thing happens, it will inevitably make those who like him feel cold, is there no good person in the world?
On the second day of the incident, the reporter found his mentor Dan Zhaoyi, a well-respected artist in the industry, who thought that he was a proud protégé and had a sad face, which made the already vicissitudes of the cheeks even more "cloudy", and in the attitude to this case, he expressed his sadness three times in a row.
This makes the teacher, who should have enjoyed his old age in peace, suffer from the disaster of innocence at today's age, after all, the laziness of the teacher is not strict, and even many people will question the character of the old man, but will any teacher with three views and correct views educate such a student who behaves incorrectly?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > analysis:</h1>
Just when everyone was stepping on Li Yundi, his former classmates also broke out of the fierce material, saying that in his study abroad stage, bad behavior had already been revealed, and even caused trouble many times. It's just that at that time, he was an unknown international student and didn't get much attention.
And now, after all, the paper can't hold the fire, and now that everything has been revealed, all his evil deeds have also been revealed. The culprit of all this is his family education.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="29" > Li Yundi's family education and was punched in the face</h1>
Li Yundi's family background is not complicated, his parents are working class, in the local area can only be regarded as the middle and lower class of society, although grandpa is a graduate of Southwest United University, can be regarded as an old cultural cadre, but grandpa in Li Yundi's growth process, did not play a key factor.
Growing up in a family that was not rich, all his desires were limited, whether in life or in learning, his parents always adhered to the attitude of saving and saving. Until his mother discovered his musical talent. Since then, it has been out of control.
In the process of training him to learn piano, in order to better cultivate him, his mother took the initiative to give up his work and became almost 24 hours a day with Li Yundi's side, which seemed to be meticulous care and care, but in fact it was a destruction of Li Yundi's nature. Because in my mother's eyes, except for playing the piano to eat and sleep, everything else is a waste of time.
Fortunately, Li Yundi's love for the piano is true, even if he is so strictly required by his mother, he still does not have hatred and resentment for the piano, but can take the piano as his life's work. In this way, he had the opportunity to study abroad at public expense, and he also had a good ending after returning to China.
However, the damage left by his mother's excessive discipline in Li Yundi's heart is ultimately difficult to heal, and when he has the space for freedom, he will make up for the freedom and satisfaction he once lacked. So it has led to the endless abyss that we have now walked into.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > in the process of growing up, the harm caused by family education to children is irreversible</h1>
Underage students jumping off buildings has become the norm, and 90% of them are related to family education
From time to time, we can hear the behavior of underage students jumping off the building, although we have already seen it, but whenever we see such news, we still can't help but be sad. After digging deeper, we will find that they all have the same characteristics - tiger mother and wolf father.
They will always suppress the personality development of students, no matter what the situation, there is almost no correct and effective communication, only the blind suppression of parents. In this case, parents will say that the child's ability to resist setbacks is weak, so is it not caused by the parents?
Children cannot grow up again, and every injury is fatal
Both the child and the parent are taking on this role for the first time, and neither side has any experience. So it's normal for friction and contradiction to occur. But none of this can be a reason to hurt each other. Also with the growth of children, why can some parents cultivate national leaders, while others can only raise criminals?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > ask question today:</h1>
Do you think Li Yundi's mother should bear all the consequences?