"Grandpa, Grandpa." The grandson called out to me in a faint and not very clear voice, and I slowly opened my eyes in his call, watching him look at me with his eyes, I was both happy and sad, happy that he would call my grandfather, sad that the day came too slowly. Before I could enjoy the day, I fell ill and didn't know when I would leave. The child's life is bitter, because the sick mother is gone, and I am left with an old man who does not know how long I can last. The picture shows Grandpa Lü Dingxi and grandson Yangyang.
My name is Lü Dingxiang, my family lives in Huize County, Qujing City, Yunnan Province, and I am 60 years old. Because of kidney failure, I was lying in the hospital, full of tubes, doing dialysis. My life is not important, but I am more worried about my grandson Lu Qiuyang, who is 8 years old this year and still can't take care of himself. The grandson suffered from cerebral palsy because of premature birth, and then the child's mother was forced by financial pressure and left him, the child's father had to work to earn money, my wife was frail and sick, only I could take care of him. If I'm not here, what will he do? When I think of this, my heart is like a knife. The picture shows Lu Dingxiang.
Originally, I thought that our family would be like all ordinary families, full of children and grandchildren, and spend every day happily, happily, happily, happily, but this idea was shattered shortly after the birth of the grandson.
When I learned in 2012 that my daughter-in-law was pregnant, my whole family was overjoyed, and I wanted to hold my grandson for a long time. In August 2013, when her daughter-in-law was 34 weeks pregnant, the amniotic fluid suddenly broke and was rushed to the local people's hospital for treatment. When my son and I heard the news, we also rushed to the hospital. Our father and son waited outside the delivery room for news, anxious not to know what happened to the daughter-in-law and the child. The picture shows Yang Yang.
Suddenly, the door of the delivery room opened, and we immediately went forward to inquire about the situation, and the doctor said: "The child has some lack of oxygen, we can't treat it here, and we need to be transferred to the hospital as soon as possible." "In the case of all kinds of emergencies, we didn't have time to think about it, we just knew to transfer to the hospital quickly, otherwise the child would be in danger." After that, we transferred the child to Kunming Children's Hospital for treatment.
After the grandson was transferred to the children's hospital, he was admitted to the neonatology intensive care unit. We couldn't visit our grandson every day, we couldn't spend every day with him, we could only visit him once a week. After 40 days in the hospital, the grandson was finally able to be discharged.
After the discharge from the hospital, the child was no different, and our family revolved around the child every day, and the joy was overflowing. But when the child is half a year old, he can't make a sound, can't turn over on his own, and can't lift his head, and we are a little panicked. We took Yang Yang to the children's hospital for examination and was told that the child was hypoxic in the skull and may form cerebral palsy. When I heard the two words cerebral palsy, I was completely confused and stood there in a daze. In my mind, cerebral palsy is that the brain is not good, and if the brain is not good, then it is necessary? You can't let yangyang continue to deteriorate, and you must give yangyang treatment. The picture shows Lü Dingxiang and Sun Zi Yangyang.
We began to take the yang and yang treatment, first contacted the experts who came back from the field, did the tendon blocking operation, after the operation the child had some changes, the head can stand up, and the legs are gradually soft. Although this series of treatments cost more than 100,000 yuan, as long as there is an effect, it is worth it. The picture shows Yang Yang receiving acupuncture treatment.
But I didn't expect that bad luck still came, Yang Yang couldn't speak until he was more than 2 years old, and he couldn't stand. I took him to Kunming Children's Hospital for examination, but the result was cerebral palsy that we had been worried about.
In the end, the child still developed into cerebral palsy, but the child is innocent, and he has not taken a good look at this world, but he cannot feel, cannot speak, and cannot move, which is really pitiful. As a family member, how can we bear to let him continue like this, if so, what can he do for the rest of his life? The picture shows Yang Yang looking out through the window.
In order to treat Yangyang for cerebral palsy, we raised money everywhere, borrowed money from relatives and friends, sold everything that the family could sell, pieced together, and finally got the treatment fee, and my daughter-in-law and I took our grandson to start rehabilitation treatment.
Rehabilitation treatment took a long time, and the results could not be seen in a short period of time, and the daughter-in-law was forced by heavy financial pressure and could not see hope, so she gave up her child and left the family. I can't blame her, my daughter-in-law has suffered a lot since she gave birth to a child, and she has done a lot for this family, and I just can't figure out how she can be willing to leave her child behind.
My wife is frail and sick, my son has to work to earn treatment for the child, after the daughter-in-law left, the grandson only I can rely on, no matter what, I have to save him and cure him. The picture shows Yang Yang playing with a toy car.
After that, I took my grandson to do rehabilitation training alone, and after a year and a half of treatment, the child looked more flexible than before, but the treatment fee was expensive, and our family, which was not rich, could not bear major financial pressure, and I had no choice but to take my grandson home.
After returning home, I worked during the day to earn money, and at night I learned the doctor's massage techniques to massage the child, but this massage had little effect compared with the rehabilitation training in the hospital, and it may aggravate the child's condition. Just when our family was struggling, we learned that there was a hospital in Kunming that had a support policy, and I thought that my grandson might have been saved. The picture shows Lü Dingxiang taking his grandson for rehabilitation.
But the bad luck is not to let us go. Because I have been suffering from diabetes for many years, in January 2018, I was diagnosed with a blockage of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, so I had to undergo heart surgery. Then in March 2020, I was diagnosed with kidney failure. My first instinct was to save money for my grandson's rehabilitation, so I went home in pain and gave up the opportunity to go to the hospital for treatment. The picture shows Lü Dingqing feeding fruit to Yangyang.
Because the body reaction is too large, my whole body is puffy, accompanied by dizziness, nausea symptoms, I have to undergo a weekly dialysis, each dialysis at least 500 yuan, 4 times a month to do at least 2000 yuan, but if you do not do dialysis, I can not survive the grandson's recovery.
In addition, every week to take insulin, treatment of diabetes, insulin is also their own fight, can not go to the hospital do not go, can spend a penny less to spend a penny less. My grandson and I've been treated, which adds up to tens of thousands of dollars a month, is a huge expense for an already debt-laden family, and it's difficult to come up with every penny. The picture shows Lü Dingxiang worried about his grandson's illness.
The continuous bad news hit me again and again, and the deterioration of the condition not only made me and my grandson "seize" the treatment fee, but also delayed the child's treatment process, and I was helpless and sad. Over the years, I was relieved to see my grandson change, but I got sick at the critical time of my child's treatment.
Now, I have not seen the child fully recover, how can I be willing to leave him alone? But these years of treatment costs have made this family debt-ridden, there is no sufficient financial resources, I can do anything, but can not give up the child, what to do next to let this family "see the light again"? The picture shows the yang on the hospital bed. Unfortunate families come in all kinds, please give this grandpa a thumbs up. Welcome to comment on the message. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Photography Headlines ##图片故事 #