Growing up, my dad gave me the impression of being serious, not smiling, and looking at the whole person fiercely. This is the father I remember who silently pays behind his back and never asks his children to reciprocate.
To really understand him in his role, we have to start with my brother marrying my sister-in-law and having a granddaughter, the arrival of the little niece, obviously feeling the difference between my father, always feeling that he is happy.
Three daughters and one son are perfectly normal for rural families. The family has been relying on the father to support the family since childhood, as the children slowly grow up, the worries of parents have not decreased, two years earlier we are in our early twenties, a New Year's Festival matchmaker is always a regular visitor to my family. Now that I am about twenty-four or five years old, coupled with the fact that long-term blind dates have always failed to marry one, people around me have gradually said that our three sisters have too high a vision. Then fewer people ask.
Out of the protection of the beautiful boy, I will cover it up, and it looks really small and fresh meat
In the beginning, my father was always worried about sleep when none of us had a family, and this state of affairs continued until my brother got married.
We didn't interact much with Dad
When my dad is happy, I'm happier
When I was 16 years old, I asked my dad curiously what his biggest wish was, and his answer at that time was that he could eat two bowls of rice at a time. At that time, I thought that this wish was too simple. It wasn't until now that I was 26 years old and that this wish hadn't been fully fulfilled, and I realized that it was really not as simple as it really was.
Recently, the kitchen and bathroom were reinstalled downstairs, and I happened to come home to get vaccinated. Parents are always like this, there are things that they do silently, and they always know how to pay and not ask for returns. If I hadn't suddenly come home, I guess he wouldn't have told us until he had all sorted it out. Seeing this is not to think that my father is particularly great and exceptional. In fact, it's not all oh, he's as ordinary as everyone else. Especially the kind that likes to brag, and it's the kind of thing you look at from the side, and if you don't really love him from the heart, you will feel embarrassed. Of course, I love my father very much, so I just think that my father is as cute as a child.
This is the whole package that I saw when I arrived home that day and saw the situation
How did I find out how my serious father was so cute? In fact, I had to accompany him the next day to buy the items needed for the whole decoration, and in the process I discovered this side of my father's children. The picture above is a master I contacted the night before that can be fully contracted, that is, how much money you give, people install it for you.
Why didn't it work, the reason is still my dad's friends, the water heater installed at home is air energy, and then the range hood and gas stove, etc., he thinks that people are very good, and wants to buy the same brand according to his little partner. That was the discovery the next day. So the next day, at half past five I was called out to get up. To be honest, this vacation was two hours earlier than I had to go to work. Finally, when his 4 friends arrived, we left home at 6 o'clock to go to the city. That's right 6 of us took a ride to go, and I had to admire, went to a bunch of people.
In the car, I heard my dad start blowing with his friends in the back. How to blow, my mother handed my father 7500 cash, he carried it in his pocket, and then began to blow, the ticket was still kicked. Please go to the city for breakfast (10 yuan or more for a bowl of beef powder). I didn't pay much attention to the various big words said on the road, and I didn't interject the whole time anyway, maintaining my awkward and polite smile.
When we got to the city, we went to the shop that bought air energy water heaters for the first time, but at that time, more than seven o'clock people had not opened the door at all, so we went to eat noodles first, which was indeed a bowl of beef noodles for 10 yuan. Of course, to buy drinks for the uncles, to pay the bill this work I still slipped down, my father is responsible for blowing water with the friends to chat.
After the phone call, the owner opened the door, we went to see, I have nine tips for decorating this piece of things, and summed up it is a clue. However, I will check the information on the Internet myself. As soon as he entered the store, the owner was quite enthusiastic, and he was an acquaintance of his father's little friend, and his little friend also bought it here.
The facilities are slightly old and rudimentary. However the price is brilliant. The price of the air energy water heater placed there is basically less than 10,000 to 20,000. I don't remember what brand. I was also surprised by this price, after all, I had the impression that the water heater should be quite cheaper than a thousand or three or two thousand. I paid attention to my father's expression, and obviously he was a little surprised, but after all, it was an old jianghu, and his face did not change color. I have a bit of a drum in my heart, after all, my dad has 7500 in his pocket, I know, this is just the beginning. The main thing is that I really didn't prepare for large financial support at the beginning.
After glancing at the boss, he began to quote the real price. (It's just a few acquaintances, the purchase price is for you). Who I am, I am a salesman, it is impossible to really make money, but it is also appropriate to make some money from you. The boss gave an offer of about 2,000-3,000 less than the original list price, which was either more than nine thousand or more than ten thousand. I did not make a sound next to it, I looked down to check the mobile phone, there is a price of about 12,000 quotation is more than nine thousand, I really found it on the Internet, to the hand price of about 5600 bar. I didn't say anything, it was suggested that I buy other things, and after reading the number in my heart, I first went to buy something else, and then I could go back and get it. After that, a few words of greeting, first go to another place to see.
To the second home, also acquaintances, the same more than 10,000 or so, my dad this time low-key, joked that the family is not open a bank dare not enter the store. After a little look, I left. At this time, my father spoke, asked the little partner where to buy the gas stove and hood, first go to buy this and then say, the time passed quickly, to start buying things.
In this way, our group arrived at this small shop, which was also the store that the original little friend bought. In the spirit of a quick decision, I bought it before, and now I have come to get one. The boss is also very real, anyway, the price has risen, the price has risen sharply in the past two years, and the price has been rising. The previous price was definitely not available. Finally one of our little friends in a hat got their hands on it. Bargaining, a price of 2888 yuan to win, the boss shook his head repeatedly. Uncle Hat continued to work hard, "Take a step back and say that the price has risen to give you a few hundred 3280, and there can be no more." When I got here, I saw that the boss had obviously loosened up, and it was no accident that he could indeed take it down. Then the boss began to say two scene words Ha. "This price is really no money to earn." As soon as this sentence fell, my father immediately answered the call. Sure enough, it was my father, and I had a hunch that it was correct, and I knew that he would not disappoint me, so I immediately pulled out a handful of cash in his pocket. 3380 yuan, directly count the cash to you. A little atmospheric. I also renovated the old house at home, and I don't have to buy too good. So I watched him give the boss 100 more yuan. Finally, the boss continued to hold back, saying that he wanted 3580, at this time my father's small partner collectively moved, and finally 3380 was taken. The owner gave a small chopstick as a gift. Then my dad was pleasant and the owner happy.
Witnessing the whole process, I recalled the original intention of our three sisters, well, my father was happy and happy.
The next one is to buy a shower shower in the bathroom, which is also a place where a small partner has bought. The owner was also one of our people, three or two acquaintances, and eventually 1,000 yuan bought a shower and a basin with a sink, and a faucet installed in the middle of that basin. Due to the foreign decoration of this shop and the large venue. I think 1000 is decent.
When I came here, I didn't continue to accompany me because I had to rush back to work, and I didn't play a role in the whole time. I pinched my finger to calculate the 7500 spent more than half, but as long as I bought a water heater and a few water pipes, on WeChat with my sister and my sister to discuss a person to give my dad a transfer of 2000, and then I asked my dad to take the mobile phone to collect the money, I withdrew. I thought to myself that he still had more than three thousand, plus what we had transferred to him, it should be about the same. My dad's budget was to buy a water heater with about three thousand like his friends.
Finally, my mother told me that just when our three sisters gave 6,000, they bought a water heater. It's all spent before you go home.
Time and experience are only foils, and what supports you to become better and better is your strong will, cultivation, character, and constant self-reflection and correction.
To sum up, the ordinary and great old father in my eyes loves face, loves to brag, has a very stubborn personality, and at the same time has many shortcomings in life. But it is this father who silently pays behind his back and never asks his children to reciprocate. We grew up. On Father's Day, I want to say to my old father, "I love you and thank you for your selfless dedication to us." The children are grown up, allow us to reciprocate your love for us in different ways.
Finally, I wish all the fathers in the world good health and smiles for a lifetime.