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Be yourself
May you have hills in your chest and mountains and rivers in your eyes.
May you refine the diamond heart and still have hibiscus noodles.
May you have flowers in your heart and swords in your hands.
There is compassion, there is Vajrayogini.
——Li Ailing, "You are your own person"
Episode 22 of The Strange Story Season 5 discusses a controversial topic – is "The Capable Do More" a pit for me?"
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What plunged me into contemplation was Huang Zhizhong's speech.
Pit is a feeling, it is not a concrete reality. Whether I have been pitted or not is mainly to see if I feel aggrieved, feel unfair, and feel unconvinced. If I don't feel that way, then no one can actually say that this is a pit. So, what we're dealing with today is the problem of feeling.
feel? What a familiar word.
Once, we fell in love with someone and chose a job because we felt;
Later, we felt like we were leaving someone and quitting a job.
Feelings allow us to live a life of uncertainty, and gradually we feel that the feeling is not so reliable.
But if we don't believe in feelings, what should we believe?
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Choice determines feeling
We often hear or complain that "those who can work more, but those who work more do not get more", as if giving and returning are naturally one-to-one.
Make sacrifices for love, do not have the same sacrifice, feel that the other party does not love you;
Accepting extra tasks, not getting a promotion and a raise, and feeling unfair in the workplace.
There is no reward for paying, and it feels that the world is not worth it.
As everyone knows, feeling is just an emotion.
Emotional containment
Everything follows the emotions: if the lover is not satisfied, he will make trouble; if the work is not smooth, he will leave.
This is the "glass heart" at work, because there is no self, and the wind and grass of the outside world immediately set off a "terrifying wave" in the heart. Every day, he is entangled and wrapped up in various emotions and becomes a "slave" to emotions.
In the long run, there is no accumulation and precipitation, let alone development, and the end can only be empty of people and money.
The "glass heart" eyes are full of problems, so we talk about feelings.
Instead, treat everything as an opportunity to hone your abilities, build connections, and broaden your horizons, all for the sake of achieving goals better, higher, and faster.
Achieve your goals
This is the power of the Diamond Heart: an independent self, a clear goal, an inward view, and six wings in hand.
Ren'er's east-west, south-north and south winds insisted that Qingshan would not relax. Everything in the world serves the goal and focuses on achieving a better self.
The "diamond heart" is full of opportunities in its eyes, so it is only yourself.
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Ground-digging bees
Why do we have to work hard and not feel more?
Charlie Munger's reference to the story of the "ground-digging bee" in the Poor Charlie's Book may give the answer:
The ground-digging bee has a very magical ability: it drags the prey to the mouth of the hole, stops, checks the hole itself, confirms that there is no problem, and then comes out and drags the prey into the hole.
The wave of operations was so intelligent that it piqued the interest of biologists.
So he took advantage of the digging bee to check the gap in the hole and dragged the food back a step. The digging bees came out, found food, dragged them to the mouth of the cave to put it down, and went into the hole to check.
Did it forget to check it?
Biologists tossed and turned more than 40 times, and the ground-digging bees all moved the same way. Only to find out: the ground-digging bee is not intelligent, nor does it have thinking, it is the behavior of its genes.
So the philosopher Dennett asked a question that hit the human soul— on what basis are you sure you're not a ground-digging bee?
Inefficient efforts
The "glass heart" gets the opportunity to do things, does not think about it, only knows to repeat the behavior over and over again, and then laments that the laborers do not have much.
"Diamond Heart" thinks, judges, innovates, and then reflects, summarizes, and improves, forming a unique way of doing things and style, and the ability is constantly improved and improved.
So, the same ten years of work, "Diamond Heart" has ten years of experience, "Glass Heart" an experience of ten years.
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Get out of the way
In the popular court drama "Yanxi Raiders", the palace maid Wei Yongluo counterattacked the upper position to see the audience directly addicted.
But how many people have thought: Why can Wei Yongluo stand out?
Because those who work more get more.
Wei Yongluo was given the opportunity to make clothes for the empress with her outstanding performance skills, so that she could serve the empress.
Before the heavy rain came, take the initiative to protect the queen's beloved flowers and win trust in one fell swoop.
Because of the empress's favor, it attracted the attention of the emperor.
Throughout the ages, the essence of success has never changed: it is to compete for the top attention.
Win attention
Attention means an investment of time and resources, those in high positions, many affairs, many chasers, however, limited attention.
Working more is the fastest way to gain attention.
Imagine in the company: doing business has you, writing plans has you, literary and artistic activities have you, innovation has you, writing articles has you, even serving tea and pouring water has you...
High-level people who can't be seen on weekdays, as long as the crowd looks at you more.
If you choose, you win
Didn't you silently win the attention of others who were racking their brains?
The ability to do more work is itself a strong sense of existence.
Attention is a prerequisite for networking.
Once you're remembered by the top at some point, you win.
The "glass heart" only sweeps the snow in front of the door, and the "diamond heart" generally casts a net, focusing on fishing.
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Those who become big things, have a pattern in mind
During the COVID-19 epidemic this year, Alibaba's performance has made netizens marvel at Ma Yun's pattern.
But how many people know that Alibaba's "first bucket of gold" is the result of more laborers?
Teacher Wu Jun talked about the success of Alibaba in "Pattern", not how good the technology is, how beautiful the product is, Ma Yun's excellence lies in the initiative of doing things.
Without the means of payment, Ma Yun will do one; without a credit system, Ma Yun will build one; without good logistics, Ma Yun will talk about one.
When other e-commerce companies are lamenting that the conditions are not enough and there are too many obstacles, Alibaba encounters problems along the way to solve problems, so that the "soil" of Chinese e-commerce has been built from scratch.
Execution opens up the gap
Alibaba is not the first e-commerce company in China, but it has become the founder of Chinese e-commerce, changing the way China and the world consume.
It is precisely because the "diamond heart" is full of opportunities in its eyes that everything is done into the savings and preparation of the next thing.
The accumulation, iteration and success of one thing after another have formed their own "territory".
The "glass heart" has no pattern but wants power, and the "diamond heart" gets power by continuously solving problems.
People can't appreciate the scenery beyond their own vision.
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Success Keys
The "glass heart" focuses on the temporary salary, and the "diamond heart" makes itself a "golden rice bowl".
The "Glass Heart" works for others, and the "Diamond Heart" works for oneself.
"Glass heart" waits to be relied on, "diamond heart" takes the initiative to give.
Therefore, the more the laborers, the stronger the stronger.
What traps you is always your own thoughts.
Step by step
A person's strength is to rely on continuous ability to accomplish things, provide a steady stream of self-confidence, and finally create a weightlifting that is extinguished between hands and feet.
All scenery needs to be repaid by loneliness, and those who work more are more, and they are the "sword" of the strong.
Buffett's "golden partner" Charlie Munger said, "My sword is passed only to anyone who can wield it."
Author: Li, a career planner with temperature, always young, always full of tears.
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