Guangming Network Commentator: Bullied children, why are you silent?

The survey said that the incidence of bullying in schools is 32.4% Vulnerable groups are more vulnerable to bullying

Guangming Network Commentator: Threats, insults, group beatings... At present, bullying incidents in schools are becoming more and more frequent, and they have transformed from simple campus accidents into a common social problem. Recently, the Education Governance Modernization Research Group of Central China Normal University released a survey report, and the sample survey of six provinces such as Shandong, Guangdong, Hunan, Hubei, Guangxi and Sichuan showed that the incidence of bullying in schools was 32.4%, while the probability of students who chose to "hide in their hearts" after being bullied was 45.2%.

Nearly one-third of school bullying occurs, which means that one in three children is likely to experience school bullying. If underage students do not understand things, their minds are immature, and they can occasionally bully their classmates to understand and correct them, but why doesn't the teacher care? Why don't parents ask for justice for their children? Surprising. The research team found that many bullied children did not tell their teachers and parents about bullying at all, and the consequence of doing so was that nearly half of the bullied students were often bullied. "See you once hit you once", this joke in Zhou Xingchi's movie seems to really tell some of the "campus bully" in the real world.

There is no doubt that school bullying is a kind of social injustice, and how to deal with social injustice is itself a compulsory lesson for children to go to society. It is necessary to let the students understand from the bottom of their hearts that they must not swallow their anger and accept illegal infringements, otherwise the infringers will only intensify their efforts. The timely stopping of bullies and giving certain punishments is also to educate them to identify the harm of their own behavior and the rigidity of social rules, and to prevent them from eventually falling into the abyss of irreparable crime.

Why are bullied children silent? On the one hand, this is due to the bully's bullying and the weakness of the bullied, the bully often threatens the bullied person not to tell the parents and teachers; on the other hand, the parents, teachers, schools, society guardianship and education are lacking, resulting in the more taciturn children, the more vulnerable to bullying, which is the common "bullying trap" in the school bullying mentioned in the project report.

Parents are the legal guardians of minor children, children are bullied, first of all, they should ask for a statement for their children, but the reality is that many parents and children lack communication, these children are often introverted and autistic, not good at communicating with others, this situation is particularly common in the left-behind children group. Parents are not around, the elderly are old and weak, and children become a natural vulnerable group in school, and they are also the main targets of bullying. Teachers and students get along day and night, but due to the lack of educational discipline, they either out of the consideration of maintaining class unity and school reputation, or because of the gap in relevant laws and regulations, in many cases they take the means of "peace and mud" to calm people. In this way, the bully will be more fearless, and the bullied person will be more silent.

To prevent and manage bullying in schools, schools, teachers, parents and society should assume corresponding responsibilities, and it is the most critical focus to let bullied students dare to say no to bullies, and let this "brave no" have the direct effect of effectively stopping bullying. A few years ago, there was a widely publicized case of school bullying, three international students violently beat a classmate in the United States, the victim was stripped naked, burned with cigarette butts, and lit with a lighter to ignite his hair, the whole torture process lasted for 5 hours. The victim resolutely called the police afterwards, and finally the US prosecutor sentenced the two main offenders to life imprisonment with a bail of more than 36 million yuan. This kind of "sky-high penalty" has a popular publicity nature that encourages resistance to bullying in schools.

From the increasingly frequent cases, it can be seen that school bullying is showing a trend of young age and networking. In the work of prevention and governance, how to mobilize teachers, schools, parents, and society to form a joint force of governance, how to arrange the identification and punishment of bullying behavior, especially how to punish minor students, all need to speed up the completion of relevant legal shortcomings. Only by bringing the prevention and management of bullying in schools into the track of the rule of law can every child grow up healthily under the sun.

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