
Never find yourself in someone else's world, and instead of envying, you should pay attention to yourself
When Fu Seoul was not yet famous, he dedicated his most precious years as a woman to that cold bench, in those years he did not buy himself clothes, did not have time to go shopping for afternoon tea, but immersed himself in learning to write, when he stood in the strange and said that sentence; when a woman with ordinary qualifications and ordinary looks wanted to get wonderful, stop envying others and began to appreciate herself, you will find that you can be so beautiful.
Love is important, but you are more important
Try to love and enjoy the sweetness of love. Love, while important, is not the whole of your life. In the wrong feelings to learn to stop the loss in time, love to seven points of true feelings do not all invest in themselves, you should have your own ideas to live space, your life partner determines the quality of life and security of the second half of your life, so we have to polish our eyes
Learn to invest instead of blindly consuming
In your twenties, don't immerse yourself in buying lipstick recommended by Li Jiaqi today and buying a package recommended by the anchor tomorrow. In fact, when the people around you are showing off these, don't care. When shopping, it is necessary to do what you can and simplify your life. The important thing for you is to invest in yourself to work out to make your posture more symmetrical, to travel to meet different people and different people to talk about life, and to slowly force yourself to have the concept of saving money instead of being a moonlight family. Cultivate your hobbies and interests to make your solitary life more exciting
Fourth, good skin care, good weight loss, and good eating
No matter how busy you are at work, you must eat well, and you must know that a healthy body is the capital of your departure. Pay attention to your external image, adhere to skin care, find your own unique style, and wear light makeup when you go out. Be sure to lose weight and control your posture, when you are thin and beautiful, you will find that the world becomes very gentle
Fifth, be your own backer
When you are 20 years old, youth is very valuable, do not rely too much on others, you have to be your own backer this is not only spiritual but also material, when you prematurely give the right to choose to others, you will feel after the age of 30 that no one is dependent on their own strong, always work hard, always be their own backer
Six clean circles
Those wine and meat friends in order to pass the time will only consume your time without any help, you have to learn to be alone, the circle does not need to be large but must be clean, you must make some positive energy, three views, positive friends
Don't pay too much attention to what other people think
When you decide to do something, you must not ask for other people's opinions, do not be afraid of others denying yourself, you cannot be liked by everyone, you just need to do what you like
If you are a mother, you are more of yourself
If you are a mother, don't forget to improve yourself, the concept that chickens are not as good as chickens themselves is becoming more and more recognized.
IX. Marriage must have its own work
Many married women abandon their careers to return to the family and only focus on being a housewife, forget to learn and forget to communicate with society, and eventually be abandoned by the family, you have to have your own job even if the money is small, it is the embodiment of the value of your life
10. Be kind to people
Be sure to learn to smile, be friendly to those around you, know how to restrain your emotions, don't be stingy with the gentleness and empathy of strangers, every girl is a shining star