The Qin King's birthday feast took away Mi Yue in public but left all the concubines, especially Mi Shu, for the Qin King's birthday feast, it was carefully prepared early in the morning, but the King of Qin temporarily informed that he was going to see the deceased on his birthday, and when he saw the deceased, he also had to cross Mi Shu and take mi Yue alone, was this not a deliberate attempt to give Mi Yue hatred?
Some people said that the King of Qin's move showed that although his political ability was outstanding, his emotional intelligence was too low.
But is this really the case?
In fact, with the Qin King's scheming and strategy, the harem woman's intrigue and intention were a blank piece of paper in front of the Qin King.
In the original novel, it is described that the King of Qin is well aware of the conspiracy and calculation between the concubines of the harem, but he is too lazy to pay attention: "The widow sees the strategists of the world every day, and everyone has a stomach full of scheming, making something out of nothing, threatening and boasting, and setting up traps, that is called calculation." If it is only to use strategy to gain wealth and wealth, if it is sent by the enemy country to set up an ambush, if it is not carefully allowed, it may lose the lives of hundreds of thousands of soldiers, and even cut off the land and lose the land, lose power and humiliate the country, and destroy the century-old foundation... Is the careful calculation of you harem women also called calculation? ”
It can be seen that the King of Qin is not unaware of the harem's jealousy, but he is disdainful of meddling.
Since the King of Qin knew in his heart that taking mi yue alone would cause the harem concubines to resent and be dissatisfied, especially if he publicly refuted the queen's face, then why did he still do this?
Yes, of course, the King of Qin knew that doing so would cause Mi Yue to face trouble, the queen's anger and the embarrassment of being in the harem.
However, as far as the King of Qin was concerned, since he had given Mi Yue a position and given her favor, this was the trouble she had to solve on her own.
Everyone has to learn to grow on their own and stand on their own. The king is facing the country and the mountains, and is fighting for the world, not solving the women's small troubles.
To put it bluntly, as the ruler of the King of Qin, his favored concubines are bound to need to experience the survival rules of "survival of the fittest" in nature, and only women who can catch the favor of the emperor and deal with the jealous and resentful relationship brought about by the favor will match his favor.
Therefore, the King of Qin did not know that his exclusive favor for Mi Yue would give Mi Yue hatred, but as an emperor, he had absolute authority, including the willful loss of his own feelings is also a kind of absolute authority, as for the result of willfulness, how much acid and vinegar rain will be set off in the harem has nothing to do with him.
Remembering that when Mi Yue was just blessed, the King of Qin had been pampering her for more than two months in succession, which had caused a boil in the harem.
Lady Win specifically asked Meng Ying to call Mi Yue to her palace, on the one hand, to calm the anger and resentment of the harem concubines, on the other hand, to teach Meng Ying's face how to survive in the mi yue harem.
Lady Win: "You have to beware of pampering and forgetting your form, making too many enemies, although the matter of the harem should also be decided by the king, but the king's mind is mostly in the former dynasty, not always able to take care of the harem, if you want to be safe and blessed, you must converge on your heart and know how to advance and retreat." ”
Lady Win's words were actually pointing out Mi Yue, teaching her how to handle her relationship with other concubines under the favor of the King of Qin.
Conversely, if a concubine who does not know how to control the king's favor and deal with the troubles brought about by the king's favor will gradually lose the heart of the king.
For example, Mi Shu, she did not have the ability to deal with the crisis derived from the king's favor, so she later lost the grace of the king step by step.
As we all know, although the original King of Qin did not have the same pampering as Mi Yue, there was still affection for the good villains.
Since the chu kingdom met on the streets, the King of Qin had a good feeling for Mi Shu, but unfortunately, after entering the Qin Palace, Mi Shu's growth ability was too poor to control the crisis derived from the king's favor, so this was gradually eliminated in the heart of the King of Qin.
As the new favorite of the King of Qin and the new leader of the harem, the King of Qin handed over the queen's jade seal to Mi Shu on the wedding night and instructed her to manage the harem for herself.
It can be said that at the beginning, the King of Qin entrusted mi shu with heavy responsibilities and great trust, but since he gave the respect and love of mi shu's wife, he needed mi shu to bring enough experience from her mother country to help him manage the harem and even establish the order of the harem. Only this point is precisely Mi Shu's fatal flaw.
Not only did she not know how to be a queen, she didn't even know how to deal with the contradictions between her mother country and her husband, and even... She wasn't even ready to be a mother.
Therefore, after Mi Shu made one mistake after another, the King of Qin had to divide all his energy from the previous dynasty and personally re-manage the harem.
Logically, the King of Qin gave Mi Shu the position and honor, and Mi Shu should have the ability to accept the grace accordingly, but Mi Shu repeatedly made the harem miasma, resulting in the Qin King not being able to fully handle the major affairs of the previous dynasty, and in the long run, she would naturally be disliked by the King of Qin.
For example, the Royal Garden palmed the mouth of The Beauty of The Beauty, which eventually led to the humiliation of the Beauty of the People, fan Chang made the frightened rolling steps premature, the King of Qin did not know that The King of Qin did not know that The Lady of Qin was framed by Lady Wei, but since he had already given her the position of queen and the favor of power, the Lady of Qin should have the ability to command the harem and suppress the concubines, if the Queen of Qin could not solve these troubles, then the King of Qin would naturally despise and snubb her from the bottom of her heart.
In the same way, the Qin King's birthday feast to take away Mi Yue in public, is the exclusive favor of Mi Yue, from the perspective of the King of Qin, since he gave Mi Yue a favor, then Mi Yue must have the ability to solve the trouble derived from pampering, if she does not have it, then she is not worthy of her own favor.
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Liu Liu once said a sentence: "Men are always fighting the world, and women are always fighting and killing women." ”
This sentence is exactly adapted to the attitude of ancient kings towards concubines.
As a king, his main job was to deal with the affairs of the dynasty and the land of the city, rather than to help women deal with all kinds of small things that were jealous.
Therefore, after the concubines are favored by the emperor, they should learn to handle the relationship with other concubines on their own, only in this way can they be pampered and stand out in the competition of the harem women.
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