Her story is like this, a girl trapped by love said, he is my college teacher, I am exactly 30 years old, I am smart and well-behaved, when I was in class, he left a good impression on him, he would unconsciously look at me a few times, almost when I graduated I wanted his contact information, began to take the initiative to contact him, and he did not refuse to chat with me, he was talented, full of manhood, the kind of male image I longed for from childhood.
My dad was a grumpy farmer who rarely communicated with me, which probably led to a deep attachment to my father.
I wasted no time in asking him out to climb the mountain, he was very warm and kind, took my hand and took me step by step to the top of the mountain, helped me wipe my sweat, told me the story of life, we were very happy, lost in this beautiful forest, at the top of the mountain he gave me a deep kiss.
After coming down the mountain, he invited me to his house to take a shower, and I wanted to refuse, but my mind did not listen to the call and followed his footsteps to his house, so I became his student lover. His wife rarely returns several times a year to teach in a foreign country, so we spend a lot of time meeting.
I studied very hard, and after graduation I found a good job in his city, and we got together every other way, but one thing that always made me a little uncomfortable was his color or saving. He left all his fortune to his son, who was studying abroad, and cared for me only spiritually, never bought me a single gift, not even a penny.
Although I was very upset in my heart, I still fell in love with her, and every day I looked forward to seeing her gentle eyes and hearing her meticulous greetings. In my heart it was a long-lost fatherly love that could lie on his back without restraint, let him coax me to sleep on his back, and endlessly coddle in his arms.
We had been living like this for a year, and in the eyes of his colleagues and friends I was his distant niece, and he had always introduced me to me, so the relationship between the two of us did not arouse suspicion, after all, many of his colleagues around him had been teachers who had taught me.
Later I was admitted to a famous educational institution, when I arrived at a new post, I suddenly found myself pregnant, I was so scared, although it was quite a difference of 30 years old underground teacher-student love, how to end, listen to the girl's self-statement is not willing to let us love crystallization, but he insisted on letting me beat it, I came to his hometown with regret and heartache, a person silently rode to his hometown for a few hours, begging him to leave our love crystals, but he still did not agree to my request, and even scolded me for being a fool.
He couldn't lose his image and status in the eyes of the university and his old family, so he forced me to go to the hospital alone for surgery, and after the operation I changed jobs, went to another city, and did foreign trade in a foreign company, coincidentally, my new company was only a few stops away from his wife's school, and every time he came to visit me or his wife, he could kill two birds with one stone, the best of both worlds. But I don't want him to be like this, I long for him to be able to accompany me wholeheartedly and be able to be better warm in a limited time.
He promised me that if I wasn't married at 30, he would marry me, 30 years old for me and 6 years, thinking about the distant 30, my heart cooled a little. I don't know if he is testing my sincerity when he says this, my youth, my talent, will disappear in this slow waiting.
This year's Dragon Boat Festival, he said he would like to see me, I waited in the long dark night for the moment when I was about to reunite with him, put on the most beautiful dress prepared for him and painted a light makeup, but he lost his word, she finally stayed at her wife's place, he said busy, it was inconvenient to come over, let me not make a fuss. But this is not the first time he has ignored me as an obsessive girl, thinking of this makes me feel helpless, I don't know if I am a bad girl, I don't know if I should continue to wait, or should I leave quietly, no one tells me what the answer is in the future?
Conclusion:
After listening to her story can feel her pain, in fact, there are many girls who like old men, there are two reasons, there is a type of girl who lacks fatherly love from childhood, and wants to find it from other old men when she grows up, and there is also a type of girl who is loved by her father since childhood, and when she grows up, she still wants to continue to find other old men, and this unsightly love has always been his initiative to launch an offensive.
In fact, the girl you have to think about, is that you take the initiative to come to his contact information, do not lose the opportunity to arrange a date, so at the beginning you should understand, the active pursuit of a man with a family will be what the consequences will be, he is not willing to spend money for you to buy gifts, he left all the property to his son who is far away, this is his life trajectory that he has already planned, that with you He is resolutely unwilling to spend a penny for you, it can be seen that your appearance is only an episode in his life, you can not care about him for not spending money for you, But a woman can't take a penny from a man, so don't expect to get an important seat from him.
He asked you to kill you when you were pregnant, not only to save your reputation and face, but also to break your thoughts. In your opinion, the child is the crystallization of your love with him, but in his opinion, with a child you will be greedy and expect marriage, this is not a child, this is a bomb that will detonate at any time. Although he said that if you are 30 years old and not married, he will marry you, this is a lie, this is definitely a man's delay in the first time to stabilize you, let you not make trouble.
At the same time, I think he is also trying to drag you down and let you not worry, because this old gentleman confirms in his mind that you can't wait for 30 years old, step back 10,000 steps to say that he really has to marry you when you are 30 years old, at that time he was a retired old man in your 60s, and when it was time to raise the age of the day, your 30-year-old girl was really willing to marry him? What's the next day?
So as a man who once used to faint you with the romantic feud of the wind and snow, he came to your city but did not see you, definitely not because he was too busy, but he felt that it was almost over with you, and the old man in his 50s knew when to start and when to end.
So don't ask the stupid words you should wait for, delete his contact information, give yourself a few months to empty his feelings, talk about a bright and just love, and one day you will be glad for your separation.
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