A woman in Chongqing, although she is wearing a mask in the video, is still handsome from the eyebrows.
The speech is also very smooth, the brain is also very clear, how can people not understand, she can send herself into such a pit - I really hope that the media can interview this reason in depth: "Why on the wedding night, I learned that the man owed more than 300,000 yuan, and you did not stop the loss in time?" ”
A quick review of the whole thing.
Chongqing sister, Xiao Huang, and her husband knew each other for 4 months, and Fengzi got married.
On the day of the wedding night, the mother-in-law showed off with her, saying that the man owed more than 200,000 debts.
She was shocked, but after the shock, she chose: "Share the happiness and suffering, help the man pay off the debt, and then live a good life." ”
More than 200,000 debts, with interest, she out of more than 300,000, these years of private savings are not enough to repay, she herself also borrowed a lot of money from the platform, to her husband to repay the debt, she is in debt.
In fact, I know that many readers have wanted to curse people when I write this.
The more evil one was in the back, and immediately, the daughter was born.
3 months after the birth of her daughter, her husband split his legs.
After the split leg was discovered, her husband evaporated.
What remains is a baby waiting to be fed, and more than 300,000 debts.
The little yellow girl died urgently.
What's this called?
The comments of netizens at the bottom of the news are also: this man and this woman are very strange.
Indeed, you Lan especially want to say that no matter how many identification codes I write about scumbags, there will be people who will be blind.
The scumbag has always been there, just like the sidewalk, the zebra crossing, the signs are all clearly rectified for you, why is it that someone is still lost and someone is violating the rules?
Because of her, she was selectively blind, running a dead end, riding a dead end.
The first time I was blind, I knew each other for only 4 months, and I became pregnant.
If this had been shelved 20 years ago, I could understand, after all, there was a lack of sex education at that time, and the discipline for women was still "you are his person when you have a relationship", and now it is 2021, 2021!
Knowing that you can get pregnant within 4 months, that is, you just met and had a relationship not long ago, and then without any contraception, you quickly won the bid.
To tell the truth, if the man is a beautiful man like a demon, can make a woman lose her brain and sit on the ground to ovulate, can't wait to get pregnant, to give birth to a monkey for him, it can also be understood, but from the current video revealed photos - although only half of the face, you can also see that it is a fat mound of its unattractive general man.
That's the thing I can't figure out the most.
This incident, why so many girls, for a fairly ordinary man, studded the most important opportunity and capital of their lives, and plunged themselves into the quagmire.
I'm not talking about a girl who slept with whom.
But it is easy to get pregnant, just 3-4 months of acquaintance with pregnancy, you can also judge with your toes, this man has no sense of responsibility at all!
4 months, the foreplay of the relationship is not enough, you are not sure that he is a ghost, ready to have children?
I have a friend named Chu Tiankuo, she has a boyfriend, the first thing is to do a physical examination, both men and women do, to make sure that the other party does not have infectious diseases, the two sides open an intimate relationship.
A few days ago, she also posted the physical examination reports of herself and her new boyfriend on Weibo.
Many netizens feel that she is particularly rigid, such a crisp and neat, really good for everyone.
Otherwise, you grind and chirp in love for 3 months, go through the whole process, start to untie your ears and wear wide clothes, take off your pants, and find each other... Isn't it miserable that intimate parts have indescribable features?
This is not the most tragic, the most tragic is that the characteristics are not seen, but after you and ta contact, after 2 weeks, the fever began to be unknown, began to appear rash, began...
Or it is as tragic as Chongqing's little yellow girl: they have not yet figured out each other's family background, so they first conceived the baby.
In general, pregnancy is a watershed in a woman's life.
Everything else can be repented, and the child cannot be remorseful.
Other baggage can be unloaded, and the child you are pregnant with will be responsible.
On the wedding night, the man's mother-in-law came out to her and said, "My son owes more than 200,000 yuan (in fact, more than 300,000)." "That's extreme malice.
What's the difference between a liar and a liar?
If you really feel that you are too much debt and have internal pressure, why not make it clear before you get a license? Why not explain it before the relationship happens?
When it was time to get married, the baby had been in her stomach for several months, which was equivalent to the hostages being tied up in her hands and began to negotiate money.
At this time, the woman has been forced to the end of the road, morality (traditional education), feelings and the child in the belly, all of which make her have no way to escape.
In fact, at this time, a few questions can wake her up: Can a man who makes you pregnant before marriage be a good partner?
Can a man who gives you a showdown debt on a wedding night be a good thing?
If you are not a good person, you will even be pit to death if you have a spicy hot with him, and you dare to have a child with him?
Such an unkind, unrighteous, untrustworthy, spineless, and irresponsible person, are you sure you want to continue with him?
I've said more than once that being pitted is hard to avoid. There are very few ordinary people who can do a trickster who is deliberate, but stopping the loss in time is the self-help ability that a normal person should have.
Apparently, the wedding night did not stop the loss in time.
After she gave birth to a child for 3 months, the man cheated, and then, the world evaporated.
Ms. Huang is no longer the slim style before the marriage, the corners of the eyes have wrinkles, and in the video, the figure is staggering.
Child, she left her mother-in-law to take care of.
Committed to the search for the missing husband, and even to find the media, hoping that the husband will come forward to solve the problem.
The voice on the phone was full of irritability and indifference.
How well can the child be taken care of?
I want to say that the child is doing something wrong, to live in such a family.
Father is not father, mother is not mother, and the grandmother who takes care of her is not like a kind grandmother. Can't see the head, a lifetime of ups and downs, and long.
Of course, Xiao huangmeizi can sue, her transfer records are kept in WeChat, as long as it can be proved that these money are her premarital property, it is more likely to get legal support and let her "husband" pay back the money.
But the question is, can someone with such a lifestyle have the money to pay her back?
Before getting married, you can owe 300,000 yuan, get married and have children, and the debts are not understood, do you dare to split your legs, can you have savings to repay the money?
I have already squeezed out all the resources that can be consumed and even the ones that can be deceived.
What is the so-called most feared about money?
I'm afraid I really don't have it.
What's even more frightening is that divorce is not easy today.
If the man does not show up, divorce by agreement is impossible.
Then go to the court to sue, at least wait for 6 months to have a result, but the probability may not be to judge the divorce, if the man is determined not to leave, her act of lending money to him may be proved by the man as "the relationship between husband and wife has not broken".
Love is a deep relationship, before opening, in addition to checking whether it is healthy, it is common sense to check the credit.
Before I mentioned a similar point of view in the public account, I was messaged diss, which means that love is still so defensive of each other, then don't fall in love.
Then I don't understand, love is still so unconscionable, then don't fall in love.
Love is the combination of one person and another person's body and mind, in the words of Charlie Munger, your partner is the most important investment in your life, you actually don't even want to do a physical examination and credit report, that is really buying a car without brakes and no annual inspection.
Huang surname sister, there are these 300,000, whether it was a small business at that time, or said that they paid rent, can live quietly for several years, now, not only in debt, but also to bear the responsibility of raising a baby - even if it is divorced, the child she did not have to leave to the man, is not also to pay maintenance?
2 years, overdraft of several years in the future life, I hope you can learn from it - love is love,
You can cheat people, don't be cheated of money!
It's okay to cheat money, don't cheat people out of life!
People who are reading this article, regardless of gender, have this mentality and concentration, carefully investigate, carefully choose their partners, and will not be far from happiness.