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I have done the most daring thing, looking for my grandmother who remarried, and continuing my mother's relationship with my grandmother

#你做过最大胆的事是什么, can you share it # The boldest thing is to find a remarried grandmother, so that the grandmother and the mother can renew the mother-daughter relationship. At that time, I was in the third year of junior high school, and I went to climb the mountain with my classmates, and we went to the famous zodiac mountain where we were, and when we were ready to graduate, I wanted to climb the mountain and draw lots. When we decided to go climbing, at that time everyone was arguing about where to go, and finally I suggested that everyone go to the Zodiac Mountain, and they could climb the mountain and draw lots to solve the puzzle, and finally said that my grandmother was near there, I had never seen it since I was a child, and I hoped that everyone would visit my relatives together to give me courage. I remarried my mother when I was a child, and the mother and daughter have not seen each other for more than ten years, and my three uncles and four uncles have not seen each other for more than ten years, and I have not seen my grandmother and uncle since I was a child. Then everyone agreed to come with me. In fact, the Zodiac Mountain is not far away, in another town around our county, take a bus for about an hour, but my mother's uncle and uncle could not understand and accept the matter of my grandmother's remarriage when she was young, and my mother's uncle and uncle and three siblings chose to stay and rely on each other. At that time, my mother was 16 years old and pulled her two younger brothers to grow up alone. After Grandpa fell ill and died, the blow to Grandma was too big, 5 children and 5 mouths waiting for her, and she was not my mother's type of strong woman, she hoped that someone could help her support her children, just so someone appeared, so she remarried. My mother's uncle and second uncle all understood things and did not want to leave the homeland of their ancestors, and the third uncle and the fourth uncle were still young, so they remarried with their grandmother. And in my place, I have nothing to say about my grandmother's remarriage, only that she is my grandmother, my mother's mother, and I want to meet this relative who has never met! Anyway, she gave birth to my mother, and after raising her, my dear mother could give birth to me and raise me! That day, as soon as we arrived at the foot of the Zodiac Mountain, we asked the people who opened the commissary under the mountain and asked me where my uncle's home was. I know the name of my uncle, if you ask your grandmother's name, few people may know, this is a common phenomenon in our rural land, once a woman is married, she will be called who is a mother-in-law, and if she has a baby, she will be called who is his mother. Then there was the enthusiastic big sister who led us over, I bought some candy and followed, I was very curious a little nervous, why say a little bit, because compared to my grandmother when she saw me, it was called a panic, I saw for the first time a person who did not know where to put his hands and feet, the eyes dodged and did not dare to look at me, but could not not look at me, looked at two or three eyes and avoided as if looking for something. Finally, Grandma led us into the house and sat down for lunch, and we said we had eaten and wanted to climb the mountain. She said she would take us there later and then come back for dinner later. We all had a great time that day. Later, when I was ready to go back, my grandmother still left me to stay overnight, and I told my grandmother that I would pull my mother to spend the New Year with you, and my grandmother was moved to tears. That Spring Festival, our whole family went to my grandmother's house for the New Year and stayed overnight. After that, my mother and several of their siblings often forgot about their grandmother's house and went to the county to stop by to see. In fact, they all want to reunite, but the lack of initiative, a few big children can not pass the hurdle, by my little pot friend to step on the level. I hope that you and I, who also have a hurdle in your heart, bravely step out, and don't let this hurdle become a regret in life. Finally, you can also help others to cross the hurdles, of course, depending on the specific situation, some situations can only untie the bell and must also tie the ringer.

Mom

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