The helplessness of ordinary people

Everything has cracks, and that's where the light comes in.

When people are born in this world, they will more or less have certain regrets and defects. However, we can make certain efforts to make up for the shortcomings of the "rift" and change the original fate.

However, some "cracks" may be made up for decades, or even hundreds of years. If you want to change your destiny, it is not an easy task.

We may wish to think about the question, what is the "fate" of a person related to?

Philosophers will tell you that fate is the embodiment of human wisdom. As long as a person has a certain wisdom, then his fate is bright and bright.

Economists will tell you that human destiny is closely related to wealth. As long as a person has a certain amount of wealth, then he can have a good fate and step onto a higher level.

Sociologists will tell you that the fate of man is inseparable from the development of society. As long as you have a certain social resource and a good social network, then you can have a superior destiny.

Who is right in these three views? Actually, all right. However, when these three concepts are combined, it is the final answer.

Fate is not affected by individual factors, but by many conditions.

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I have encountered such an example.

Two young people came from a certain unit, one young man was a city man, he had a car and a house, and his parents left him a lot of assets. It can be said that even if he does not work, he can be stable for a lifetime.

The second young man, who is from a rural area, although he was admitted to a university in a first-tier city, he was still not eligible to settle in a first-tier city. Moreover, he has nothing but academic qualifications and abilities.

Comparing these two young people, we can find that the latter has the academic qualifications and abilities, and the former has all the skills. The assets and RVs owned by the former are difficult for the former to own.

Some people have calculated that it takes at least twenty years for an ordinary person to buy a house in a first-tier city on his own.

In other words, a college student has to work hard for at least twenty years to be able to afford a down payment on a house on the outskirts of a first-tier city. In these twenty years, we also need the cooperation of "partners".

It is a pity to say that the above-mentioned rural young man returned to his hometown when he was 30 years old and did not stay in the city. This is the helplessness of life's fate.

His leader asked him, you have done a good job here, why do you have to leave and go back to the countryside?

The young man shook his head helplessly, his monthly rent accounted for one-fifth of his salary, and with the daily expenses, he could not save any money at all. After five years of work, I saved 100,000. In this way, he couldn't survive a bit.

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In order to escape from the mountains, young people in the countryside are desperately studying, hoping that one day they can change their fate.

Admittedly, they went to college and had a degree that was enough to compete with the city's young people. However, the resource advantage of the latter is beyond the reach of the former.

In the words of the current trend, some people are born in Rome, and some people, no matter how hard they struggle, cannot reach Rome.

Just one house divides different levels of life. What about other resources?

If you have a house in a second- or third-tier city, you can work hard for at least ten years. And if you have a house in a first-tier city, you can work hard for at least twenty years. This is where the gap lies.

Moreover, the threshold of big cities is particularly high, most people work hard in big cities, they are just working hard, and they simply do not have the ability to get the entrance ticket to settle.

An ordinary young man, if he wants to change his destiny, is nothing more than to do these three things, study in a big city, buy a house in a big city, and get married and have children in a big city.

Perhaps, the first point is particularly simple, and the second point is particularly difficult. When the second point is difficult to complete, the third point is a luxury for young people.

Just think, when you can't even get married, then the family will not fall?

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Studies have shown that in the UK, ordinary people need at least "five to seven generations" to change their destiny. In today's China, if ordinary people want to change their destiny, they need at least "three generations and five generations."

The so-called "three to five generations" is actually closely related to what we often say: "The rich are not more than three generations, and the poor are not more than three generations". In this regard, we can look at it in three aspects.

The first aspect, sixty years of a rotation of nails. In other words, if a family wants to rise, it must encounter a certain economic period and certain industry fluctuations. Generally speaking, three generations of time is enough to encounter a development opportunity that suits you, thus changing your destiny.

The second aspect, ordinary people accumulate resources, which requires a process. A person who has studied hard for more than ten years cannot be better than the accumulation of three generations of others. What's more, there are fewer upward channels today, and the inner volume is serious. The accumulation of those three to five generations is particularly normal.

In the third aspect, the population of society is increasing, and the cake of resources remains unchanged, or even less. At this time, it is particularly difficult for people to get a piece of the pie. In this way, ordinary people without background want to change their destiny, and it is basically impossible to achieve without the struggle of three to five generations.

Fate is always related to "the time and place are favorable to people". As long as these three are completely together, then everything will change qualitatively.

However, there is a reality that we must understand that some people will not meet "the right time and place" in their lifetime. This is the helplessness of ordinary people.

Friends please leave your opinion, ten years of cold window hard reading is useful?