A child's eyes are the clearest thing in the world, and in their eyes everyone lives in heaven.
But not every child lives in paradise, and whenever I see children on TV or in the newspapers who have torn their childhood apart because of family changes, my heart hurts inexplicably.
For unspeakable reasons, my childhood was also torn apart, and the sense of continuity of shredding burned until youth, burning youth, burning youth, burning away my normal communication skills, and also burning away my sister's normal life.
This empathy is also a sensitive pain, such as a blunt knife cutting flesh, slowly seeping, and children who are also created by childhood, always make people want to protect them, protect their suffocating life, give them a little warmth, restart life.
Recommend a book that heals childhood wounds, "The Child Who Chased the Stars", which was written by Angali S. Thompson. Q. Lauf, a British social activist, has studied women's studies at the University of Wales, Abel University and Oxford University.
His debut novel, The Boy Sitting in the Last Row of the Classroom, won the overall winner of the 2019 Waterstone Bookstore Children's Book Award, the 2019 Blue Peter Book Award and many other honors, and this book is his second novel. Nominated for the 2020 Carnegie Prize for Literature, shortlisted for the 2021 UKLA Book Award, shortlisted for the Bookseller Magazine's BAMBOO Reader Award, and won the UK's "Diversity Book Award", we are waiting for this excellent good book, it is worth it.
This is a delicate little book, the cover is not smart little stars, flashing and flashing, like the mother's love in the child's heart, sprinkled all over the body, the whole world, the book is also painted with stars, each verse has two constellations, while reading the story, you can also increase astronomical cognition.
There are also maps of children's adventures, a game board where you can play chess. Very well designed.
This is a book written from the perspective of a child, full of childlike fairy tales, written from the first perspective of a 10-year-old girl, looking at the world with the eyes of a child, full of fairy tale fables, shining like a star, and also weakening the tragic nature of the story, but the child's undulating emotions make us want to hold her tight and love her heart without dirt.
This is a book for everyone, but it can also make those who are witnessing or suffering domestic violence sad, and make those who have had to live bravely and strong because of the changes in their lives depressed.
If you are going through such difficulties and are worried that your friend will fall into such a difficult situation, please turn to the end of this book, knowing that in this world, someone is ready to help you and the people you love, no matter how old or young you or the people you love, give you all our love and stars.
It's as if the galaxy of the whole world is with you
The universe is no longer noisy, the Milky Way is falling,
That star is ready for you to anchor and run towards you.
This is the original intention of this book, even if it is full of pain and sorrow, in the child's innocent impression, it is still clear and beautiful, with kindness, careful, do not want to hurt others, but also want to protect themselves
Ania takes her brother Noah to a new family, where there is an 11-year-old boy Tevez, a ten-year-old boy Ben, and a 12-year-old girl Sophie, which is a foster family, all of which are orphans.
Because of the family changes, Ania was temporarily unable to make a sound, and forgot why her mother disappeared, and her five-year-old brother wet the bed every day, because she was afraid, so she slept with her brother in her arms, and she was soaked in urine every day to get up, and her life was dark.
But Aunt Iwuchu, the adoptive mother who adopted them, was not bad, full of love and warmth for every child, never reprimanded her brother, patiently changed new sheets for them every day, prepared hearty food for everyone, and everyone had beautiful rooms where all needs could be met.
However, Ania is still uneasy, she misses her mother all the time, and Sophie, who lives with her, always takes the opportunity to bully her, and one day she sees the news with the boy in the same room, and there is a star coming towards the earth, and she knows that it is his mother's heart that has changed.
She wanted to attend the party that named the star, she didn't want to watch her mother being named by someone else, and the time was only countdown, so in addition to Sophie, several other children conspired together to use the opportunity of Halloween to ask for candy and escape the family to find their mother.
The same intense adventure as "Little Devil Street" begins, four children riding bicycles, they have to pass through Oxford, the journey takes six hours to london, but because of various changes, the road is full of dangers, rain, sprains, no money to take the bus, firm determination to help them overcome one difficulty after another, make full use of the wisdom of the ten-year-old child, arrived at the scene at the last quarter of an hour about to be named a new star, but they encountered the situation again... Did their wisdom play a role? In the end, has the nova been named indiscriminately, and can Ania defeat herself? Leave some suspense for your friends and go to the book to find the answer.
At the end of the trip, Ania learns that her mother was killed by her father, and those who care about him, those who love her, they all believe in that beautiful planet, an Ania's mother, it releases friendship, it cares for Ania, people are willing to believe.
These people, whether they are dignitaries, ordinary civilians, or police salesmen, have extended their loving hands to her one by one, and at the same moment they have paid a star-like love to Ania, and she feels the love, recalls everything, and heals everything.
This is a beautiful book like the stars in the sky, the storyline is ups and downs, making people's hearts clench, paying attention to a few children at the same time, we also unload the pain of our own hearts.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" >, give more love to those children who are traumatized</h1>
Ania temporarily loses her voice due to the excitement of family changes, and Sophie, a girl in the same room, takes the opportunity to bully her.
We will always encounter people like Sophie in life, who for their own purposes, at the cost of hurting everyone around them, pretend to be ugly, win sympathy in front of people, become devils after people, and squeeze others without boundaries.
But in the end, they are also weak in their hearts, because they are afraid of losing, so they do their best to protect their own interests.
If you meet such a person in life, we must be strong, erect a defense line on the body, never back down, protect our own bottom line, and resolutely tell the other party, I am not a good bully, you instigate, the next time the other party's bullying becomes a calvary.
Ania repeatedly backed down, and even sacrificed her most beloved and precious little silver necklace to protect the other boys, which was the only memorial her mother left her.
But she was equally brave, and when she was stimulated to speak, she fiercely turned back to Sophie, tactfully helping others, and using her brain again and again to alleviate the situation in a crisis.
She is also an extraordinary child, in the process of finding the stars, she is unfavorable, sprained her ankle, even if the ankle is swollen like a purple plum, she did not say a word, this also has to take care of the five-year-old ignorant little brother, stronger than an adult, when all the events are over, she will be able to grow into a warrior of life.
A true warrior, dare to face the bleak life, dare to face the dripping blood. --Lu Xun
But please don't force a weak child into an adult, it's too cruel.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > second, a childhood of contemplation and fear</h1>
Every child in this family is a victim of the family of origin.
After Sophie's father died, her mother did not want to adopt her again, she was the first child to be formally adopted by the kind Aunt Iwuchu, so she did her best to protect her love from being violated, she did not want to divide her love equally, even if it was by despicable means, she had to deceive and expel other children, she was a bully, and she also had to worry about her own deprivation every day.
This is enough to prove that narrow-minded people always take pleasure from the misfortunes of others.
At the same time that Aniya was finally happy, she was no longer oppressive, and she was finally able to reconcile with the inner self and defeat the devil.
Tevez was separated from his sister, and in order not to be adopted by the pesky family, he ran away again and again, even if he was afraid at a young age, he was still stubborn, so on the way to the observatory, he was a masterful guide to the route, he was a stutterer, and he had ugly braces, but contrary to his appearance, he was a kind big brother-like child.
Along the way, he took care of his little sister, took care of 5-year-old Noah, and walked forward with an ania who had broken her ankle, just to help her fulfill her wishes, and even risked not being adopted by Aunt Autchu, stealing bicycles, stealing copies of the office, knowing that the 11-year-old boy had no one willing to adopt him anymore.
And Ben was the same, just because they all believed that the star was also their mother, and they never had any doubts, Ania was convinced when she said it.
When Aniya asked them why they were so good to themselves, he said to Aniya, "Because we are orphans, no matter what happens, orphans have to unite together, this is the rule."
Because of this sentence, Aniya's heart was opened, and she originally wanted to leave them to find their mother, because of love, the four children were united together and finally won.
Even Aunt Awuchu was a child that no one wanted to adopt when she was a child, and when she grew up, she wanted to have children of her own, but her husband died unexpectedly, and she decided to use her care for the orphans to provide them with a home, and also to find a home for her soul.
And what makes me think about it is extremely frightening is that behind every child there is a fragmented family, the adults who can be relied on by the original children are so fragile, a light change, can destroy a happy family, can affect the child's life, the original brocade, love in one of the baby, in the blink of an eye became an orphan.
Star-chasing kids are purchased at ¥35
Every adult, please take care of yourself, for the sake of the child, for the stars in the child's heart!
Those children understand, what is the concern? The sun and the moon, the stars, the wilderness rain falling. Can you be specific? Mountains, rivers, smokey lakes, you know I'm good.
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