In the intersex relationship between men and women, when women and men get along, it is likely to encounter such a situation.
It is that men are reluctant to spend money on themselves, or even if they spend money, they are not so willing.
Some people feel that such a man should not love anymore, because he does not love you at all.
At the very least, the amount of love for you is not enough.
Once the feelings fade one day, they can't pick it up.
In fact, this is only one aspect of consideration.
If you think about it from a man's point of view, you will find that a man is not willing to spend money on you.
In addition to not loving this factor, it will also expose 3 extreme problems.
Therefore, as a woman, we must learn to see clearly one of the qualities of men themselves through specific situations.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > first: the problem of consumption</h1>
In a male-female relationship, if a man is not willing to spend money on you.
In fact, sometimes it is not because I don't love you, it is likely to be caused by the extreme discord of the consumption concept of two people.
When there is a huge difference in the consumption concept of two people, men cannot agree with women's consumption concepts.
Sometimes it's not because you don't want to spend money, but because you feel that it's not worth it.
For example, women never consider the actual situation of their economic income, as long as they like it.
And if you buy it, you will wear it only once and throw it away, or you won't wear it once, and you will throw it directly in the closet.
When two people cannot form a consensus in the concept of consumption, men will become twisted and unwilling to spend money on women.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > second: the problem of love concept</h1>
In the relationship between men and women, some men are reluctant to give money to your woman. It is a different understanding of the cognition of the concept of love.
Men will feel that the love between men and women is a principle of equality, and why should a man spend money alone. I hope that two people are in love, and both sides will bear the problem of spending money together.
This is not about love or non-love, it is about the principle of two people getting along. You can't always coddle women, let women feel that they should spend men's money as they deserve, and lose their ability to be autonomous.
In addition, sometimes two people are in love, and men spend more money than women, which will also make men feel uncomfortable.
I even feel that with such a woman, I am particularly tired, pay more, and be wronged.
This is more caused by a man's temperament. Some men grin a lot and don't count more or less. Some men are different and will pursue a balance of money expenditure.
If two people are unbalanced in their spending of money, it will make men feel that women are a drag.
In fact, such a situation will also manifest itself in the lives of many couples. For example, when men make money, they feel that they are superior, and women seem to be shorter in everything.
As everyone knows, such a relationship will seriously damage the feelings of two people.
Even the best relationship can be torn apart by the idea of money domination.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" > third: personality issues</h1>
In real life, some men are reluctant to spend money on women. Not because I don't love, but because of my own consumption concept.
For example, men themselves belong to the type of tight clothing and food in personality. Such a man cannot make a woman consume unbridled.
Similarly, men may limit women's consumption and feel that women should spend less money and should not spend money.
Such a man says nicely some call will live a life.
To put it mildly, it's a bit of a knock.
Not just to others, but also to yourself.
Falling in love with such a man, living together, may be very depressed.
Sometimes if you want to eat a delicious meal, you have to secretly eat it yourself, afraid that men will see it and say that they spend money and waste, why don't they cook their own food.