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Simon, a blogger from Italy, is in the headlines of the day with a happy transnational marriage

author:The life of a retired aunt

Simon, a blogger with 400,000 followers on today's headlines, told his love story with an Italian girl in his video. Before falling in love with the Italian girl, he also talked about a girl who was worth tens of millions of dollars in Beijing, China. Because the girl was arrogant and arrogant and did not take him seriously, she broke up. Then there was the current Italian wife. For Simon, who has an exotic marriage, this transnational marriage is his most beautiful and comfortable marital state of mutual achievement.

Refuse to propose to his girlfriend, who is worth a million dollars

Simon said he talked about a girlfriend in Beijing when he was young at college. This girlfriend made him feel the scarcity and suffocation of freedom. That is to say, he must seek the consent of his girlfriend for everything he does, and he must ask for instructions in advance to go wherever he goes. Otherwise, it is the outbreak of contradictions. Simon felt like a son and a mother in front of his girlfriend. Everything is restricted. Everything should be reported three times, and three requests for instructions should be asked. This repressed feeling really suffocated him. There is no dignity and freedom that a man should have. Love should make each other better, not more uncomfortable.

When the two talked for a year, the girlfriend's mother told him that the two were not young, and they had been in a state of affairs for a year. It's time to talk about marriage. Then the mother-in-law announced to him: "Don't think about the house where you are married, we will provide you with a set of houses with the best position in Beijing, and the cars are arranged." Just tell your parents about when to get married. The cost of one piece will probably be more than ten million. ”

This treatment may be a surprise for the average male family. But for this Simon, there was no feeling of happiness but a kind of involuntariness. In the year of falling in love, there is a feeling of being bound, losing the freedom that should have been single. Not only does love not allow him to experience the beauty of love, but on the contrary, it is not as constrained and regulated as a single life. If it continues to develop, it will be a lifelong cage-like bondage after marriage. This greatly hurt his self-esteem.

So he did not wait for him to discuss the marriage with his parents and decided to quit this dignified and wealthy marriage.

Another reason why he made up his mind to break up came from the experience of his classmates.

One of his classmates also talked about a well-off girlfriend. All matters of marriage are decided by the woman. After getting married, this classmate wanted to buy a car to show off in front of his classmates and colleagues, but he had to ask his wife for a car and did not get it, and then he got it on his knees. Afterwards, the classmate said that the first thing he did when he had money was to divorce his wife.

The shock of this incident was enormous. So when the mother-in-law provided all the large expenses for marriage, she directly refused and broke up.

Happy marriage with an Italian girl

There is still a story about Simon's marriage to an Italian girl. The two of them were not love at first sight. It should be the Italian girl who fell in love with Simon at first sight. Simon belongs to the kind of hindsight.

At that time, Simon's wife was still studying in Beijing. The encounter between the two was also unexpected. A friend of Simon's invited him out for a late night snack and brought the Italian girl with him. Simon's friend later learned that the Italian girl brought by the friend had just met and invited her to a supper. His friend also had an idea for the Italian girl.

Careful Simon considered that the Italian girl who was not familiar with the place of life had been in China for a year, eating Chinese food, and it should be a long time away from the hometown-style Western food.

Homesickness is for everyone, and Italian girls are no exception. So with this in mind, Simon invited them to a famous Western restaurant in Beijing to relieve the Italian girl's pain of lovesickness.

After arriving at the Western restaurant, the chef of the Western restaurant is a Chinese boy. These young men were sent abroad by the restaurant owner to study abroad. It is attractive to the average girl.

At this time, the chefs also launched a love offensive against the Italian girl. Constantly tickling this beautiful Italian girl.

Simon didn't care much at this time, his thoughtfulness for an Italian girl was only out of his own empathy. Due to working relationships Simon often goes abroad. Nature also has a special love for the taste of hometown and cannot forget it. Especially in a foreign country, I miss my hometown dishes.

When they had finished their meal, Simon proposed to sing karaoke to help him. Considering the atmosphere, Simon called a few friends from different countries to help him entertain.

Singing is one of Simon's best hobbies. That night, in front of several friends who knew each other at about the same time, he showed his singing voice and sang three songs in a row. For a time, he became a singer present and made everyone's eyes light up. That night Simon seemed to have become a star in everyone's mind and was in the limelight.

So, the next day Simon went abroad to run things for a month. While abroad, Simon received a text message from the Italian girl asking him when he would come back, saying that if he came back, he would be invited to dinner.

At this time, Italian girls already had a crush on Simon.

So the two of them got better. Later, the Italian girl said that Simon's performance that night made her feel very faceless, capable and confident, and was an ideal object worth entrusting for life.

Simon, who originally wanted to go to the United States to develop, chose to follow his girlfriend back to her country of Italy to settle down.

This is in response to the sentence that gold will shine wherever it is!

Simon felt very happy after marrying an Italian girl. Because his wife never interfered with his life and financial income. Both of them were busy with their own businesses. Even Simon said that sending some valuable gifts to his wife would be rejected by his wife for various reasons. Both live independently and do not interfere with each other. This is perhaps the most comfortable and relaxed state of love. They not only love each other but also respect each other and care for each other, there is no restriction or restriction, and both parties can exert their respective life talents without restraint and realize their own life ambitions and ideals. Marriages that achieve mutual success are the most beautiful state of love.

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