Many people think that life is a length, but in the end they find that life is actually a dimension, not caring about how long we can live, but caring about how many awakenings we can have in this short life process. A person who lives a thorough life should have three kinds of determination. What is the first one? We must be able to understand that money is never more important than health, and when life is rare and easy to lose, it is easy to go and difficult to chase.
Therefore, a person who has the greatest wealth is a healthy body, but human beings make the biggest mistake and will exchange their health for money. In fact, there is no end to the money in the world, and it is as rich as it gets and is happy. There is such a small story, saying that in a family, one day at the door, there were three old people, the parents had to be white hair, white beard, and then the wife opened the door, she saw these three elders, uh, so the wife said to the three elders, although I don't know the three old people, but you came to my door. Now that it's noon, I should be hungry, so I invite the three of you to the room, and then I'll make something for you. At this time, the first old man said that the three of us could not go in at the same time, only one of us. The second old man said, you see this smell is called wealth, this elder is called success, and my name is called health. The third old man went on to say, you hurry into the house and ask your husband which of the three of us will be involved, and the wife will go into the room and tell her husband about this, and the husband will say, Let's let the wealth come in, so that we can fill the house with gold, how good it is. The wife did not think so, he said, let's let success come in, so that our lives can be dashing enough. Her daughter listened very carefully, but her daughter made different suggestions, she said, let's let the health come in, so that our family of three can live happily and carefree together. The husband said, well, or our daughter makes sense. Or listen to my daughter.
The wife opened the door and asked the three old people, please ask which one is called health, follow me into the house, the result is that the health front foot and then go in, and then wealth and success follow. The wife is a little suspicious, just ask wealth and success does not mean that only one can come in? Why did the two of you follow up? Well, wealth and success explain, ah, we can't leave health, and once we do, soon our lives will disappear. So, once health goes anywhere, we both have to follow. You look at this family, how wise he is, this is the difference between the wise and the foolish, the one who likes to exchange health for money, but what about the wise? You can let go of everything for the sake of health. We should understand that we are in the process of this person, no matter how much money you make, in the end you can't exchange your health, you must know how to take care of your body, this is one. Also, Bi Shumin once said that parents still have a way in life. When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. When each of us comes to the world, our first identity is to be a child. When we were young, our parents loved us and raised us, and we were senseless and vented our bad tempers to our parents. When we grow up, we run far away, towards our dreams, and may leave our families.
We always think that time passes very slowly, and when we go home to visit our parents, we find that they have accidentally and inadvertently turned white, their backs are no longer straight, and their steps are becoming more and more faltering. We have grown up, but our parents are old, so the second awakening of life, accompanying parents in time. Someone once made such a calculation, saying that if the average age of each of us is 75 years old, then we live less than 30,000 days, if our parents can live for 30 years. If we go home once a year, then the time we can accompany our parents is only less than a month, so filial piety must be in time, because tomorrow and accidents will never know which one will come first.
In the unknown world, what we can do is to take time out as much as possible to spend with our parents. Just as the so-called parents are the debt market blessing, why do you have to go to the lark mountain, there is a car in front of the door is not rich, there is a mother in the family is rich, finally, we should understand that people must have the wisdom of not competing, many people, ah, will lose the reason because of the face, always think that I want to live in the face, often a lot of troubles are caused by face, so the third awakening of life, do not lose the reason for face, what is face? It is an external thing, the reason is their own inside, many people, are living in the eyes of others, living in the mouth of others, so there is a saying that is very good, death to face, live to suffer. You see between a few of us is like this, every day than whose beads are better than whose fans are more advanced, ah, always in these comparisons, in fact, we are very poor, very pitiful.
There is a writer called Qian Zhongshu, do you know? I heard that the only thing he could think of in his home was the medicine jar, there was no mobile phone in his home, no telephone, no TV, I heard that when I entered their home, I could smell the fragrance of books, I could feel the tranquility, I could see that when he lived at that time, he was very comfortable and real, so in terms of academics, in terms of culture, we compared with them, it must be very poor, and it was still very pitiful, because we were actually very uninspired, so what did we pay more attention to in our hearts? We must be able to know how to enrich ourselves, which is one of the aspects that we focus on, and we must also be able to understand that we should never live in the mouths and eyes of others.
Because only within us can make us go further. The face you have built up by fame and wealth will never last long, and it will be digested after a loss. One day you will understand that when you can put down your face and make money, it means that you have matured. When you can earn face with money, it means that you have succeeded. These are the three awakenings of life, thank you for reading I am Wang Yu.