I haven't lost sleep for a long time, get up at 3 a.m., what to do?
Watch a romantic romance movie and move yourself. However, I think the most romantic romance film is not the handsome and beautiful sea oath mountain alliance, but the way love looks when it is old. Needless to say, I really found a romantic city italian director directed the film "Love Before memory fades".
The most romantic thing I can think of
The two protagonists, aged more than 160 combined, have alzheimer's amnesia and the old woman has terminal cancer. According to the arrangement of the children, one should go to the nursing home and the other should spend the last days of the rest of his life in the hospital. But the two old men, who could not be separated for a minute, made a crazy decision, driving the old caravan "seeker" whose parents sent them a wedding anniversary, with many memories, and began a "fugitive" trip that said he would go.
Two people, a car, walking with memories
The destination of the old couple is the idol of the male protagonist John, the former home of Hemingway. Usually, both of them eat and live in the caravan. The daily fixture was to loop old photographs on a simple curtain with their old-fashioned projector, which John certainly didn't remember, and Ella carefully explained to him as he helped him recall their bits and pieces.
Throughout the trip, the problems they encountered were almost abbreviated in the lives of couples, including the home life of taking care of each other; the daily chores of quarrelling and fighting; there were happy and romantic hotel trips; there were dangerous links in the road encounter with robbers; there were the heroine's first love being jealous; the male protagonist's affair was said to be leaked; and even the description of the details of the couple's life of the 80-year-old man, sex is love, is the stroke of God, arranged to be the finale at the end of the film.
The old couple stayed in the hotel romantically
Stop for a scenic look when you encounter a scenic spot
The whole film asks me where I am most moved? There are many scenes to the grandfather because of illness, often urinary incontinence on the road, wearing a wig to apply lipstick, love beauty and exquisite grandmother but every time tireless to change his pants to wipe, the action is skilled and loving, as if to help another self clean. And when the grandmother fainted at the party and was sent to the hospital ward, the amnesiac grandfather woke up instantly, found the hospital, broke into the ward, saved the old woman from escaping from the hospital, returned to the two caravans, the two carried out the last piston exercise, the grandmother calmly helped the sleeping grandfather with glasses, swallowed the sleeping potion, burned charcoal in the car to commit suicide, the two lay quietly together, warm and decently left this world.
I let you rely on
After reading it has been tearful, this may be the love that middle-aged people yearn for the most, there is not much passion, there is the warmth of life that cannot be abandoned, the dependence that cannot be separated by every minute and the small romance that is occasionally embellished.
The song "When You Are Old" softly rings in your ears How many people have loved your youthful and cheerful hours, admired your beautiful falsehood or sincerity, only one person still loves your pious soul, loves the wrinkles on your old face.......
So, what is the essence of marriage?
The film tells us that it is companionship. It is the companionship of two hearts that are inseparable.