Ren Zheng said very much: What I want is success, face is virtual, can not be eaten as a meal, face is the least valuable.
As the saying goes: to die is to suffer with face. Living for face, dying for face, ruining their lives for face, this is a true portrayal of many people.
When you put down your face, concentrate on doing one thing, and achieve good results, face will naturally return to you, and you can't shake it off.
1, face is dignity, not the protective cover of the glass heart
There are many people in life, because of a few words of criticism from teachers, parents, and leaders, they make some gambling things, run away from home, resign, and so on.
However, is such a face really a person's inner self-esteem? Maybe it's just the protective cover of your own glass heart.
Guo Degang said: I have lost more people than you have ever seen!
When Guo Degang was not popular, he participated in variety shows and was arranged to live for 48 hours in the window of the downtown area.
It was summer, the window was very hot with the sun, and passers-by were always watching him.
Guo Degang felt that compared to the hot sun, passers-by looked at him more viciously.
Do you think Guo Degang doesn't want face? He didn't know that his "monkey" behavior in the window would embarrass him?
However, Guo Degang understands better than anyone: face is earned with his own efforts and achievements, little by little!
Instead of using your own sense of superiority to protect your glass heart.
2, face is obtained with the increase of value
Whether in life or in the workplace, a worthless person, even if he loves face, others will not give you face.
For example, in the workplace, you have no value, the leader will not give you important work because you love face, and the work given to you must be the least technical.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with leadership, you have no value, no ability, there is no way to be competent for difficult work.
How ridiculous it is to do some work that has no technical content, has no value at all, and emphasizes face.
A person with no value, even if you love face, others will not respect you.
On the contrary, he is a valuable person, even if he does not move where he is, there will be people who will take the initiative to find him and respect him.
3, a person's ability to bear, just represent their ability to explode
Mencius once said: Heaven will send down a great task to the Si people, and they will first suffer their hearts, strain their bones, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and confuse their deeds.
Therefore, a person's ability to withstand often represents his explosive power, the more blows and pressures he bears, the greater the potential energy when rebounding!
Just like Ma Yun, in the early days of entrepreneurship, he went to send out a single page by himself, and how many people looked down on him.
However, Ma Yun said: In a few years, Beijing will not do this to me, and in a few years you will know what I do!
Indeed, now we all know what Jack Ma does, Taobao is also the most powerful e-commerce platform in China, and Alibaba is unstoppable.
Therefore, those who have strong ability to resist pressure will usually achieve good results.
And those who run away with a little pressure are difficult to fill in good positions.
The adult world is very realistic, and no one will respect you for that little bit of self-esteem in your heart.
Whether it is face or dignity, they are all earned by themselves.
There is a good saying: when you put down your face to make money, it means that you have understood things.
When you use money to earn back face, it shows that you have succeeded.
When you can make money with face, it means that you are already a character.
Your face, your value, is the most valuable when it is spoken out in other people's populations and seen in other people's actions!