<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01. Born in a patriarchal family</h1>
We often talk about the story of the big and small S, we all think that the Xu family has only two daughters, but in fact, the Xu family has a total of three daughters: the eldest Xu Xixian, the second Xu Xiyuan, and the third Xu Xidi.
The boss Xu Xixian has a simple introvert and obscure personality, so everyone knows very little about her. This big sister can be said to have always loved the two sisters, and in addition to Xu's mother, this big sister is the one who worries the most.

Size s when the family was a child
It is said that this eldest sister had already had a love destination, but she refused to marry for a long time, and she must wait until the two sisters got married before they were willing to marry.
Later, after Xiao S married Xu Yajun and got married, under the persuasion of her family, she married her boyfriend who had been in love for many years, and her boyfriend's family was in the clothing industry, and although her married life was not rich and expensive, her life was still quite comfortable.
Xu Dad is a particularly serious person who prefers sons to daughters, this concept is also influenced by the concept of Xu Dad's parents, Xu Dad has six sisters, he is the youngest one in the family, that is, to have a boy, her mother gave birth to seven children, knowing that Xu Dad is willing to give up.
Three sisters
This concept is deeply rooted in the influence of Xu Dad, when the boss Xu Xixian was born, Xu Dad complained about why not a boy, in order to have a boy, and fought two more children, when the third child Xu Xidi was born, Xu Dad saw that there was no hope of holding his son, and simply gave her a name that was harmonious with "brother".
Xu Dad has a violent personality and often quarrels with Xu Ma, and the person who dares to compete with Xu Dad in this family is the big s, when he sees Xu Dad bullying Xu Ma, she will immediately take out the temperament of a female man to block in front of her mother and protect her mother.
We now see a tough big S in the variety show, in fact, it is also caused by family reasons in that year.
Size S and Xu Ma
Because the three children in succession are daughters, Xu Dad is depressed, continuously drinking and gambling, and as a result, he owes a huge debt of 3 million yuan.
Later, the family's expenses were really difficult, and the big and small s embarked on the road of show business, hoping to pay off the huge debt to his father as soon as possible.
I didn't expect that fate is so tricky, after Xiao S got married, his husband Xu Yajun is also a man who prefers sons to daughters, but Xiao S's stomach is not contentious and also gave birth to three boys, for which Xiao S has bought drunken hair videos many times on social platforms.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 Booming acting career</h1>
Big S has loved beauty since he was a child and wants to be as beautiful as a fairy every day. So he very much wants to develop in the entertainment industry. And because Xu Dad owed a huge debt, she had the idea of going to the entertainment industry to develop.
And in the early 1990s, Taiwan's economy took off and began to imitate Japanese and Korean culture. It is a good time for the entertainment industry to vigorously develop.
Big S proposed to his mother that he wanted to become an artist after going to Huagang Art School. But his mother didn't agree with him and was adamantly opposed to him becoming an entertainer.
Big S's personality is very strong, and he quarrels with his mother for this. Big S, who was sitting in the car at the time, jumped out of the car in a rage. Both knees were broken, but I left without turning my head back.
The result was three days. Xu's mother was stubborn but he couldn't do it. Finally, she was promised to go to the film and television industry to develop.
When Big S decided to go to Huagang Art School to go to school, she advised Little S to go with her: "The two of us can be weird together and be a comedian together." Xiao S thought about it, so that every day is also very happy, and promised his sister. ”
When the two first debuted, they took the singing route, and two pure little girls formed the Sisters of Shu group. I didn't expect it to be quite popular with the public.
In November 2002, it was shortlisted for the Most Popular Group Award in the 9th Channel Chinese Music Chart, and the song "Love Does Not Last" was also shortlisted for the Most Popular Song Award and the Most Popular Music Video Award in Hong Kong and Taiwan.
To say that the success of big and small S today is inseparable from one person, that is, Wang Weizhong, the godfather of variety shows.
At that time, Wang Weizhong especially liked the sisters, changed their combination to SOS combination, and gave the two simple names, one called Big S, one called Small S. Later, their singing careers were hindered, and they became hosts.
At the beginning they hosted the show that told me to guess, and I guessed that I guessed. The main task is to cooperate with Wu Zongxian to play ugly and funny in the show. I didn't expect the show to be very good.
The unique hosting style of the two funny little sisters attracted the attention of the audience.
Taiwanese audiences gradually got to know the two sisters, Big and Small S. Later, they hosted "Entertainment 100%", which made the show a big hit in Taiwan, and the private lives of the two sisters were exposed.
Especially the topic of big S love beauty. It is often used to be discussed by the audience. The big S skin base color is not white.
But she is usually cautious about skin care, when going out, she must bring a parasol long-sleeved shirt, in order to whiten even dare to eat drugs, and rely on her own forced self-discipline to turn herself into "white as snow".
And she has a well-known "four noes": never eat colored food, never allow others to touch her hair, never eat desserts, never walk hunchback.
Relatively speaking, Little S has a big grin and doesn't pay much attention to his appearance.
Until 2000 , "Meteor Garden" was a Taiwanese drama. Big S has really gained fame in the mainland. Subsequently, one of the sisters developed in film and television dramas, and the other continued to develop in the hosting industry.
At that time, the two sisters should be the happiest time of their lives, and all their minds were spent on work.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 The sadistic love affair between the two</h1>
When Big S was in high school, he had a relationship with Chen Jianzhou, who is now Fan Weiqi's husband.
At that time, Chen Jianzhou was tall, mighty, and handsome. The big S of the first opening of the love sinus, when he saw the handsome man, he straightened his eyes. But the two did not have a long relationship and broke up.
Later, Chen Jianzhou entered the development of the show business circle under the introduction of Big S. No one expected that later he became a good friend of Big S, Fan Weiqi's husband.
The little S who has just opened his love sinus here also has his own love affair. In 1996, when Xiao S was hosting the show, he met the talent Huang Ziling.
Little S is grinning and has a bold personality in hosting the show, but in fact, he is a girl who is particularly insecure in his heart. So when he first met Huang Ziling, Huang Ziling moved him with a small matter.
It was a very cold day, and Little S wore a thin dress and shivered with cold. Huang Zitao saw such a situation, so he took off his suit jacket and draped it on Xiao S's shoulder.
Little S was instantly moved. I think this man is so sweet and warm-hearted. From then on, when you see him, you will have a feeling of heartbeat.
Back and forth, the two people developed feelings and talked about love. Love in the period of hot love is always beautiful.
Huang Zitao once knelt down in public to propose marriage. He also ate the tattoo of love on the show. However, after a period of getting along, Huang Zitao was dissatisfied with Xiao S's personality being too bold.
In 2001. Huang Zitao split his leg Zeng Baoyi. Their relationship officially ended. In his braces diary issued, Xiao S described in detail the situation when the two broke up that year.
In this relationship, Xiao S is very serious, but in the end, the damage to him is also very deep.
Big S is a handsome guy fan. Very infatuated with Korean singer Koo Joon-ye. At a promotional event. They got to know each other.
Big s by itself. Pure appearance and cheerful character. Captured Gu Junye's heart. Transnational love often has no good results. The relationship between the two was not recognized by fans.
Brokerage firms on both sides are also strongly opposed to the two men's interaction. The two eventually broke up, but the relationship was very affectionate, and he once tattooed his boyfriend's Korean name on his feet.
Until Big S became popular in Meteor Garden. He also met two handsome men, Lan Zhenglong and Zhou Yumin.
Big S was fascinated by the handsome lan Zhenglong again. The two dated for a while. But Lan Zhenglong's playability is relatively large. He didn't want to get married at all, and he hated Big S too much, and eventually the two parted ways.
After breaking up with Lan Zhenglong, Big S was very depressed. At this time, he and Zhou Yumin cooperated in "God of War" for the second time.
Big S found that Zhou Yumin was also quite handsome, and he had a little feeling for him. Until a car accident in July 2005. Big S heard the news and immediately rushed to the scene. Only then did the two find that they had a heart for each other.
At that time, the audience also recognized the feelings of the two of them, thinking that they were a talented woman, the feelings between the two were very sweet, Xiao S once broke the news in the show that the love between the sister and the boy was very fleshy, and the two talked on the phone every day.
But at that time, Zhou Yumin and Big S were still young. The two suddenly exploded. The pressure is very high. There were many work ideas, and at this time, Zhou Yumin could not adapt and suffered from depression. He will often lose control of his emotions, injure himself, and cut his own hands with a knife.
When friends called her, she would always be careful to say that I was with the boy.
Lenovo's relationship with Wang Xiaofei now, at that time, big S was really good enough for Zhou Yumin. But in the end, due to the inability of personalities to be put together, the two eventually broke up.
In fact, looking at the personalities of the two of them is really not suitable, Zhou Yumin is too stuffy, he is the kind of man who needs girls to take care of him at all times and always consider his feelings.
And the temperament of big S, we can see it in variety shows. Her "shrimp peeling theory" made Chen Jianbin and other artists participating in the show roll their eyes sarcastically.
There are also those pretentious details with Wang Xiaofei, Zhou Yumin can't eat every minute!
Xiao S got pregnant before marriage after knowing the rich second generation Xu Yajun, and quickly entered the marriage of Xiao S, and at first life was still very happy. But then the Xu family's business fell, and the development was not smooth.
After marriage, Xu Yajun also likes to spend days and drinks outside. Photos of kissing women in nightclubs have been taken several times, but Little S has repeatedly been patient. Little S has posted videos after drinking many times. Eyes red and swollen from crying.
Even when his business encountered problems, It was Xiao S who came forward to apologize and solve it for him. But Little S still did not give up on this relationship. Having given birth to three daughters in a row, she was also disliked by Xu Yajun.
Because Xu Yajun wants a son. When Little S's 3rd daughter was born. Little S cried bitterly and said that she did not want to be born again.
Now all three daughters are grown. The eldest daughter is tall, very star-like, and also received advertising endorsements. But what is more tragic is that because of the recent inappropriate remarks of Little S in the Olympic Games, it has aroused the anger of the people on the mainland.
All endorsements were terminated. For this reason, the couple had a big fight, and Xu Mama also came forward to apologize. But the people simply don't buy it. Little S's current life is really miserable.
Big S also had a lot of heartache after marriage, and he divorced his husband some time ago.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
Looking at the history of the sisters' struggle, it is really not easy to support the family at the age of flowers. But who can escape this hurdle of life?
There is no money once and for all, and there is no eternal love. People who see through life and still love life are truly strong! The sisters still recognize their current situation, grasp the adjustment of mentality, change the strategy, and save the public's goodwill is the key!
Text: Miss Sea
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