Accidentally brushed a video of Via with hundreds of thousands of likes, not surprisingly, I was also poked -
"For women, having children is not terrible, the terrible thing is that the figure cannot be restored, and the husband should throw his hands in the cabinet;
When you are busy at work, let you have children, and when you have children, you tell you that women must be financially independent;
Anxiety began from pregnancy, worried that the child was born and no one would help bring it, afraid of losing her job;
The pressures of living are increasing, but incomes are decreasing.
Choosing to be a working mom is more tiring. Go to work 996, take the baby 007, work will not relax the standard because you are a mother, and life will not become a little easier because you have to work.
For others, leaving work is equivalent to resting; for working mothers, leaving work is equivalent to working night shifts.
Wanting to be independent and wanting to juggle the family, slowly forcing himself into a superman..."
The message area is basically women, and only after experiencing one scene after another can you feel empathy.
It is rumored that Via earns nearly 3 billion a year, but even if she stands on the tip of the pyramid of successful women, she faces vulnerability and helplessness like ordinary girls.
For example, the debt to the daughter.
Via, who lives as a perpetual motion machine, spends time with her 9-year-old daughter Nini to the extreme. Once Via was on a business trip, and when she said goodbye, Nini pretended to be relaxed, "You go, I'll go to the bathroom." The assistant whispered that she wouldn't cry, right? Via didn't think so, but when she looked over, Nini was really hiding in the bathroom and crying secretly, and stubbornly said that she only had her eyes in the sand.
Another time was live broadcasting, Nini sent wx to her: other classmates have mother pick-up, I am grandma pick-up. Wei Ya could not control her emotions for an instant, and she burst into tears on the spot.
The difficulty of adults is that family and work are all complicated, and your 24 hours, like a precision machine with its own parts and components, rumble every day to maintain the stability of life and inner balance. Those responsibilities in all directions, there is no way to cut it down, as the chicken soup text says, to make a clear break.
According to the data of the "2019 Working Mothers Survival Survey Report", 90% of working mothers believe that if there are no children, the current career development will be better, but only 7% of working mothers regret having children. 85% of working mothers feel guilty about their children, but despite this, only 10% of working mothers will consider transitioning and retiring to the family full-time.
My girlfriend who did HRD said that the company she worked for was very different, preferring to recruit sister-type employees who had experienced marriage and childbearing, not for anything else, because they had experienced the real knife and gun of life, could bear hardships, were not pretentious, and had stronger comprehensive coordination skills, especially time management capabilities.
This is true. Working mothers who break into eight petals a day are the real time management masters.
My girlfriend is a master of time management. The same 24 hours a day, to her hands is like a delicate high-level Rubik's Cube, orderly and beautiful.
She knows her biological clock inside out, spending energetic chunks of time doing important tasks, batching daily tasks in bits and pieces, and leaving important things to be done when they are not disturbed.
She uses fragmented time to write a handwritten account, make a to do list for the day in the morning, finish a check mark, write down anything at any time, and check and fill in the gaps during the lunch break. It looks tiring, but in fact, it is only a few minutes, but it is much more time-saving and worry-free than temporarily remembering something and worrying about it.
When she doesn't work overtime, she must be fit. At least 4 times a week, when there is enough time to change a full set of lines to go to the gym, not enough time to change into a pair of running shoes, quickly go to the kindergarten to pick up the baby can replace jogging, play with the baby to play and jump the same fat burning, weekend with the baby to climb the mountain is not perfect aerobic ...
When washing and putting on makeup, she listened to the knowledge paid column and the open class of the famous school, and when she picked herself up and went out, she just finished listening to a class. Before bedtime parent-child time, she played carefully screened children's bedtime encyclopedia, save energy by herself, the baby with energy, two years down the little guy has become a small net red in the kindergarten.
She does not have the prejudice of traditional housewives, is good at using tools, intelligent blenders, dishwashers, sweeping robots have tried over and over again, and it can really save a lot of time with easy hands.
She also doesn't think that the dishwasher is not as clean as her own washing, the blender is not as good as the incense that is fried and fried by herself, and the sweeping robot is not as spotless as the sweeping robot herself.
Work is the same thinking. She travels a lot and is most annoyed by large bags and small bags. So I taught myself a set of storage skills, folding clothes and miscellaneous items into magical compressed biscuits, and the box only needed to be half the size of others.
She carries a smart office book with her, which is equivalent to carrying paper, pen, e-reader and a small computer with her, completely lightening up.
This smart office book is really like a "ben", not an LCD screen, but a comfortable ink screen, the font is like ink written, clear and clear and not dazzling.
After the screen is bright, it is similar to reading a book, and I don't feel tired after reading it for a long time. Every day, people whose eyes are overdrawn by blue light and whose eyesight is getting worse understand how precious this is.
Under this ink screen, IFLYTEK's unique ingenuity is hidden - the 0.1 mm hanging screen. Because of this 0.1 mm hollow, the electromagnetic pen writing on the screen produces a toughness similar to writing on a pile of paper, which is really a return to basics for people who like to write. For those who like to use drawings to record and express ideas, it is an efficient productivity tool.
The built-in stylus supports writing, smooth and not stuck, the hand is slightly elastic texture, back to basics, with the steadfastness of paper and pencil.
iFLYTEK intelligent office X2 screen size of 10.3 inches, the screen is just right, loose and not too wide, easy to carry.
The voice function of iFLYTEK's signature is also used in this book, using this product to hold meetings while synchronously transcribing text, the accuracy rate can reach 98%, and the dialect can also be recognized. If there are multiple people speaking, with iFLYTEK's "voiceprint recognition technology", the system can discriminately record relevant content for different speakers according to the voiceprint characteristics of different people, like a smart little secretary. When traveling, meeting, brainstorms, there is no need to worry about incomplete records and missing important information.
At the same time, this smart office book also supports mail sending and receiving, office software, etc., to meet the needs of multi-scenario office in an all-round way.
Women buy electronic products are face control, this protective shell can withstand scrutiny: leather cover with textured effect, walking is business style, the inside is similar to fur, but the look and feel are tighter. When it comes out, it is full of tone, very eye-catching, and no matter how big the scene is, it will not show any timidity.
Thickness 5.8mm, weight 380g, aerospace grade materials, magnesium aluminum alloy frame, lightness and high appearance can be said to be very friendly to girls.
Women must have several good things that are both practical and blessed for temperament, not "jewelry", but "supplies". Reliable and capable, these advantages can greatly buffer the wear and tear of femininity and tackiness of life chores.
The difficulty of working mothers is also that it takes endless effort and tongue to educate and tutor their children.
Double subtraction is definitely good news for children, and there can be more time and space for comprehensive development. However, for working mothers, tutoring their children's homework is really devastating (here are the fathers who tutor their children a thousand times).
On the hot search, the human tragedy of Dr. 985's mother being forced to cry by her daughter's homework can no longer be true. Light tears, heavy heart stent ~~
Tutor yourself, collapse; subject personal tutoring, too expensive.
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It is equivalent to hiring a home teacher, from primary school tutoring to high school junior. How many wrinkles and gray hair can you save, how many times to avoid burning your liver.
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iFLYTEK Office & Learning Machine is your right-hand man in terms of workplace efficiency and parent-child education, helping working mothers who are tired of skills to share the pressure.
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What can get rid of the chicken feathers of life is the understanding and help of lovers and family members, and it is also their own perseverance.
A weakness that is very common among us women is the natural lack of understanding and utilization of new technological things, artificially, to close a door for ourselves.
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There is no one who is an elite mother who is born with ease, only a smart girl who uses the right method to grope and improve.
Time is expensive and life is tiring. Don't be emotionally indistinguishable, don't regret your choices. Smart cultivation is nothing more than "skillfully borrowing external forces to enrich internal strength."
Believe in yourself and go further.