Have you ever asked someone to do something? In this society, it is always inevitable to ask people to do things, if you can master these two skills, you will also become a master of the world.
In the TV series "Heavenly Dao", he talked about two skills of asking people to do things, one was That Feng Shijie asked Rui Xiaodan for help, and the other was Xiao Yawen asking Ding Yuanying to point out the way for himself.
01 Lay the groundwork carefully
With Feng Shijie's brain, it is definitely not okay to shake the cleverness with Rui Xiaodan, from the beginning of Feng Shijie's letting Rui Xiaodan go to Wangmiao Village to see the stereo, in fact, Rui Xiaodan had already guessed that Feng Shijie had asked for her.
But if people don't say it, you're embarrassed to refuse. Therefore, Rui Xiaodan and Ouyang Xue could only go hard to see it, and then go along with Feng Shijie's bedding.
Feng Shijie first took Rui Xiaodan and Ouyang Xue to pick apples together, and then went to eat farm meals, and finally did not forget to bring local specialties.
If you look at it according to the thinking of ordinary people, Feng Shijie has obviously done a very good job, and the laying of the mat is long enough and subtle enough. It's just that Rui Xiaodan is too smart, so he didn't succeed.
Although he did not succeed, he left a deep impression on Rui Xiaodan, so when he had the opportunity, Rui Xiaodan easily remembered Wang Miao Village. From this point of view, Feng Shijie's way of doing things still worked.
02 Don't climb the edge with fate
Xiao Yawen is definitely a master of handling things in the whole play, he should not say what he should not say, he should not ask what he should not ask, and he should do what he should do appropriately.
Xiao Yawen's careful arrangement for Ding Yuanying is obviously useful, if it is said in the past, it is actually a request for Ding Yuanying, but it is very subtle.
Xiao Yawen understood very well that with Ding Yuanying's cleverness, it was impossible not to know Xiao Yawen's thoughtful intentions for his own arrangements, and to put it bluntly, Ding Yuanying had received Xiao Yawen's benefits.
As a person who never takes the initiative to reach out to others, he is certainly not willing to owe affection, so he will give a gift at the right opportunity, and Ding Yuanying, a person of this weight, will not be able to return a gift.
But Xiao Yawen did not have much hope for this, just to have an indirect connection, to do things with peace of mind, to have a better chance, no opportunity and no demand.
If you are interested in the Heavenly Dao, you want to delve deeper and initiate the reading of the original book "Distant Savior". Although the play simplifies the novel a lot, it has a lot of abridgements. Reading it a few more times and reading it deeper will make you see more clearly and shrewdly. Self-cultivation is not on the mountain, nor in the temple, but in the state of mind to plant hedges. The "Distant Savior" trilogy, "Betrayal", "Red Dust in the Sky", opens the door to life awakening for you.
After reading "The Distant Savior", you will understand that if there is a savior in the world, it must be yourself, and you can really save you, as long as you yourself, others can help you, can influence you, guide you, but can not decide your honor and disgrace. Seeing "Heavenly Curtain Red Dust", you will feel that your pattern is too small, do not understand too much, and need to continue to learn and improve, otherwise you will not understand what others say, and you will not see the layout of the tall people. Reading "Betrayal" will make you think too much, want a higher reading experience, want to broaden your horizons, read this book quickly, and will definitely not disappoint you.
Disconnected poverty, in the final analysis, depends on ambition. To get rid of poverty is not only material and spiritual, but also ambitious.
Shen Nan in "The Distant Savior" has a wonderful sentence, but the content in the TV series has been deleted.
"The Distant Savior" is an intrinsically rich novel that touches on the treatment of people, philosophy, religion, love, the essence of making money in the stock market, and many other aspects. Shen Nan said: "If I have money, I don't need rich people, I want to have inner people, don't go to rich people but no souls."
"The Distant Savior" is a rich novel that touches on many aspects such as human treatment, philosophy, religion, love, and the essence of making money in the stock market. Reading does not immediately change your life, but it can, as Xiao Yawen said: "Knowing this person is to open a window, see different things, and listen to different sounds, which is enough to make you think and wake up." ”
When you know this, you will see a whole new concept
Source: Fu Wei said culture
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