Episode 003
When the Hong Kong entertainment industry was in its golden age, there were many classic songs circulating in the streets and alleys, and one of them was "The Woman Who Is Prone to Injury" sung by Kwong Mei-yun, which sang: "It is difficult to help myself, but I actually belong to a woman who is extremely vulnerable, don't don't rush around."
This song is a sad mood song sung by Kwong Meiyun. What many people may not know is that it is such a woman, but the love road is as bumpy as reflected in her songs.
Kwong Meiyun has talked about four loves in her life, almost every love has been talked about for more than two years, and even once entered the hall of marriage. Unfortunately, the marriage lasted only a short period of eight months, and Kwong Meiyun was also called "a doomed robbery" by Lu Liangwei.
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Like many artists who entered the entertainment industry to support their livelihood, Kwong Meiyun also entered this circle under a lot of pressure in the early days. Born in 1962 in an ordinary family in Hong Kong, Kwong's family was not in good shape, Kwong's father was an accountant at a mahjong hall at the time, and her mother had to recuperate at home because of blood cancer.
But although life was not so smooth, it was generally good, and the family's loaned house was about to be paid off with the efforts of the parents. But what the family did not expect was that just when the loan for the house was paid off, the father invested the mortgage of the house into the stock market in order to make money, and the result of the stock market was also a failure.
Under such a heavy pressure, Kwong Mei-yun's mother became more and more seriously ill, and at the age of 14, her mother died of illness. And Kwong Mei-yun also had to work outside the home to make a basic living.
In 1982, when the Miss Hong Kong contest was held, Kwong Mei-yun participated in the contest with a try-and-try mentality, and won the title of "runner-up" in this contest, and has officially entered the entertainment industry since then.
In 1983, Kwong Mei-yun became famous for singing for Maggie Cheung, and since then she has entered the singing world and begun a 15-year singing career.
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In 1982, after winning the runner-up in the Miss Hong Kong competition, Kwong Meiyun was pursued by Zheng Jiacheng, the second son of Hong Kong jewelry tycoon Cheng Yu tong, and the two talked about a four-year relationship, and the relationship was once very stable.
At that time, Kwong Meiyun's career was also beginning to improve, and she was also very eager to have a family and devote herself to family life. As a result, the two registered for marriage at that time and were scheduled on the itinerary, and Kwong Meiyun was full of hope to meet the next stage of life.
But did not expect that at this time, Zheng Jiacheng and other actresses in the circle spread a scandal. And Kwong Meiyun also chose to end this relationship because of this scandal.
Later, when mentioning this past, Kwong Meiyun only said: "When you are young, girls' minds will still be more sensitive, and they also have certain cleanliness in their feelings. Maybe now, some things can be understood, but at that time, that stage will be subconsciously over."
Kwong said that regardless of whether the final result of the decision made at that time was good or bad, it was certain that she would never look back.
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After the relationship ended, Kwong Meiyun began to devote herself to her career. At that stage, she released a lot of albums, among which many classic love songs were selected into the golden songs, and at the same time, they became songs that would be played in the streets and alleys, and they were very classic memories in the hearts of a generation.
In 1987, Kwong Met the second relationship in her life and fell in love with Liu Kunming, a well-known businessman outside the circle, and this relationship lasted for three years. I thought that good things were near, but unfortunately, this relationship ended in failure.
And Kwong Meiyun also rubbed shoulders with love again. In 1995, Kwong Meiyun met because he and Lu Liangwei co-starred in the TV series "Shark Hunting Action", although the process of getting along was only a few months, but the two developed a good feeling for each other, so they quickly fell in love and came together.
Kwong Meiyun also once thought that she finally found the destination of love this time, the fate between the two came quickly, but also confirmed quickly, not long after the TV series was filmed, the two announced that they would marry and form a family together.
In 1996, Kwong Meiyun and Lu Liangwei invited many friends in the circle to witness this beautiful love in the hotel, when Kwong Meiyun even invited her friend Zhong Liti as a bridesmaid, thinking that she could start another unknown life.
Unexpectedly, the marriage lasted only eight months, and then it was announced that they were divorced because of each other's inappropriate personalities, and what is even more ironic is that the two went from marriage to divorce and even to the point of not going through the registration procedures. Later, when the marriage ended, Kwong Meiyun also thought calmly and felt that all this was providence.
Because originally the two of them wanted to consider the registration after the wedding, but they did not expect that this had not yet been registered, and the marriage had come to an end. Years later, Lu Liangwei wrote in his autobiography "The Road is Infinitely Broad": "I lost a friend who talked about everything, but what I got was a marriage that could not be looked back. ”
At the same time, he also called Kwong Meiyun "a doomed robbery", and when they fall in love, their feelings are always beautiful. But when it comes to really facing the life of chai rice oil and salt, the conflict of ideas between the two eventually leads to the failure of this marriage.
This marriage is probably the closest to Kwong Meiyun's marriage, but even if this marriage ends in failure, Kwong Meiyun also chooses to face it calmly. If the person you are with is ultimately inappropriate, then a person's state is actually very good, and there is no need to feel that love is greater than the sky.
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In 1997, Kwong Mei-yun, who had spent 15 years in the Hong Kong music scene, announced her retirement from the music scene. At that time, the media had a lot of speculation about Kwong Meiyun's fading out on three bumpy relationships.
But for Kwong Meiyun, feelings are only a part of life, and what really makes her determined to fade out of the singing world is the pressure and constraints at work.
Kwong MeiYun has always attached great importance to the watershed of 30 years old. Because when Kwong Mei Yun's mother died, she was only 36 years old.
Because of this, Kwong often feels that after the age of 30, the days will become less and less. And the status of an artist gives her considerably less room for freedom.
Many times, there are not a few cases of hospitalizations due to rushing notices. Over time, Kwong Meiyun thought about changing careers and living a different life.
Prior to this, in addition to her status as an actor, Kwong Meiyun also privately invested in a lot of real estate. In 1996, Kwong MeiYun had more than a dozen houses in Hong Kong, when real estate was in a stage of vigorous development, and many people firmly grasped the house.
But Kwong Meiyun was optimistic about the opportunity, and after a year, when Hong Kong house prices were at a high price, he threw away all the houses in his hands and successfully avoided the year of the financial turmoil.
It can be seen that Kwong Meiyun still has a certain vision in business and investment. After having a certain amount of capital, Kwong MeiYun finally chose the jewelry industry to seek development, and went abroad to study and examine jewelry certification.
When she returned from school, she spent 5,000w to open a jewelry store in Central, Hong Kong, as her career development at this stage.
Admittedly, in the eyes of many people, Kwong Meiyun, who has worked hard in the entertainment industry for so many years, actually does not have to work so hard, just by virtue of the past film remuneration and other commercial remuneration, she can also live well.
But in this regard, Kwong Meiyun has a different understanding, she believes that women always have to be self-reliant. Whether you marry someone or not, you must have your own fulcrum.
The so-called sense of crisis can sometimes become a sense of security, allowing you to have a fulcrum in your future life.
I have to say that Kwong Meiyun is indeed sober in the world, and she has a clear mind about her life and feelings.
As for the two words of love, Kwong Meiyun said that she has always been willing to believe that there will be better people who will appear and then accompany her through the rest of her life.
In fact, in addition to experiencing the first three relationships, in the early years, Kwong Meiyun also had a relationship with lin damin, an outsider, but this relationship lasted for two years and ended in a "peaceful breakup".
Perhaps many people will no longer look for love after experiencing so many emotional failures. But Kwong Meiyun has always been willing to accept the many possibilities of illness.
She said: "I would like to believe that there will be such a person in the future, in fact, I think about it now and I don't know what kind of person I will meet when the time comes, but I think I am still very picky, like choosing jewelry to know and understand." 」 ”
There is always a standard in the mind of a successful lady, and this standard is not how high and how difficult it is, but is presented in line with her current situation.
I believe that in the future, there will be such a person who will appear in her life and give her beauty.
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