In the "Biography of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan changed her name to Niu Hulu Zhen Huan, and was taken back to the palace by the emperor with great fanfare, becoming a hot concubine.
The deposed concubine was restored to favor and returned to the palace with pregnancy, which was unprecedented. The dark tide in the palace was surging for a while, the old rival empress was busy creating insults and spreading rumors for her, and the good sister Meizhuang was busy choosing the palace people for her.
In the newly repaired Longevity Palace, this time is very lively, the emperor has just left, Zhen Huan's newly named own son Fourth Brother came to invite An.
Only to see the fourth brother walk quickly into the house, kneeling neatly toward Zhen Huan, and calling eun Niang kindly. He knelt down and called, and couldn't help but make people feel that this young man had some meaning.
The fourth brother was only fourteen or fifteen years old at this time, and he did not have his birth mother around to teach him carefully, and before that, he had only met Zhen Huan once or twice, and had not seen him for many years.
But in the face of this long-time unseen, sudden birth mother, there was no trace of strangeness and twisting, and the enthusiasm and nature made everyone feel that it should be so.
Moreover, what he said later made Zhen Huan feel praised. He first said that he had not seen eun Niang for many years, and he had been thinking about Eun Niang, and then he made it clear that in the future, Zhen Huan in the palace was his dependence, and he only recognized this one Eun Niang.
How clever Zhen Huan was, she knew that the Fourth Brother was showing her sincerity. She immediately responded, no matter who came before and after her, she was the birth mother of the four brothers, and the two were honored and humiliated, and they advanced and retreated together.
From this moment on, in addition to the holy will that bound them into mother and son, they also identified with each other from the heart, needed each other, relied on each other, and formed allies.
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After they formed an alliance, it became clear that their most important opponents were the Empress and the Three Brothers.
The momentum of the three brothers is strong, the brothers in front of him are all dead, and he is the oldest brother;
His birth mother, Concubine Qi, although stupid and stupid, has a high position and the support of foreign forces;
And he also has a heavyweight adoptive mother, the queen.
If there is no accident, the Emperor Crown of the Three Brothers can be worn steadily.
However, they met the fourth brother and Zhen Huan. Zhen Huan's combat ability, needless to say, is very strong. Although the fourth brother was young, he was not weak at all.
Zhen Huan struck first, cutting off the empress's two wings, Qi Concubine and An Lingrong, and then designed to frame the empress for pushing her, causing her to miscarry and lose her son.
The empress was thus disgusted by the emperor and confined to the Gyeongin Palace.
Zhen Huan was still not at ease, the dead ash could still be revived, not to mention that the empress had only temporarily lost her imperial heart. Therefore, she summoned the fourth brother and confessed to him: as long as the queen is there, the three brothers have the possibility of ascending the throne; as long as the three brothers are there, the queen will not fall for a day.
After the fourth brother listened, his heart understood and only crisply replied: The son knows.
Then it happened, the third brother inexplicably went to help the imprisoned emperor uncle to intercede, so angry that the emperor removed him from the imperial jade disk, and was also driven to become the son of the eighth emperor uncle, completely cutting off the possibility of inheriting the throne.
Seeing this, everyone said that the fourth brother was too powerful, and he killed the third brother in one sentence.
In fact, have you found that the strength of the fourth brother is comparable to Zhen Huan. At the same time, they also know how to cooperate with each other, and they will issue requests to each other for the other party to complete what they are inconvenient to shoot or are not good at.
Moreover, the fourth brother was not so powerful now, when he was young, he was already very clever.
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Remember the scene when the fourth brother and Zhen Huan met for the first time?
That year in the Yuanmingyuan, Zhen Huan was still a nobleman in Guanguan, and came to the garden with the emperor to escape the heat. At that time, the fourth brother was only seven or eight years old, and he was an unpopular prince. Kneeling in front of the emperor's palace, he glanced back at Zhen Huan from a distance.
Later, the fourth brother asked to see Zhen Huan in no man's land. He wanted to whisper to Zhen Huan, and even the closest grandmother around him was separated. It can be seen that when he is young, he is bold and meticulous in his work.
The first time he met Zhen Huan, he dared to boldly say that the person who could be the emperor's favorite concubine must not be simple. This sentence is obviously flattering, but if it is not good, it will offend people.
After all, in the deep palace, there are several people who are willing to be seen through by others, let alone by a small hairy child.
But at that time, Zhen Huan was young and had a high heart, and when she heard the flattering words of "spoiled concubines, even Concubine Hua is not afraid", she actually smacked her lips and smiled triumphantly.
As soon as Zhen Huan was happy, she taught the fourth brother a few words, instead of envying a powerful person, it is better to be a powerful person herself. These few words are not light or heavy, and how much the fourth brother can benefit from it does not matter.
Importantly, their first meeting was kind and pleasant. At the same time, they also figured out their own weight in each other's hearts.
The fourth brother would take the initiative to find Zhen Huan because the emperor did not want to see him, and he wanted to get close to the emperor and had to slowly try to do so.
Zhen Huan was a good candidate, she was the emperor's favorite concubine, she knew the emperor's preferences, and she could hand over the words in front of the emperor. Hooking up with her will only do you good.
And Zhen Huan is willing to meet a prince who has been snubbed by everyone, and teach him a few words of love, there is a good side of her nature, but more importantly, because of the identity of the fourth brother.
The status of the fourth brother's birth mother was no longer low, he could no longer be the emperor's blue eyes, and he was also a noble prince, which Zhen Huan knew very well.
She understands better that everyone who is willing to do the icing on the cake is not inferior to her, but the feelings of sending charcoal in the snow are more touching.
Regarding the relationship between Zhen Huan and the four brothers, from the very beginning, there is no doubt about the relationship of mutual use.
Because after many years, the fourth brother said it very clearly.
Zhen Huan was suspicious of the king of the county, and the fourth brother comforted her: Although Eun Niang was not as important as before in Emperor Ama's heart, no matter what happened, her son would not abandon Eun Niang.
This sentence has to be heard backwards, which means: Although you are not as useful as before, I will not abandon you.
"Learn to become a literary martial art, goods and the imperial family", whether in the former dynasty or the harem, smart people are not afraid of being used, they are afraid that they have no value of "being used".
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There are too many smart people in the palace, but those who are too smart have no good end, such as the queen.
How clever the empress was, killing her own sister, and being able to share favors with the emperor in her name;
Forced to kill Concubine Qi, but also wanted the three brothers to work with her to fight for the throne;
There are also An Lingrong and Qi Concubine, who are lifeless chess pieces in her hands.
Someone like her will fail, not in intelligence, but in treating others as fools.
There is a saying that if you are not afraid of opponents like gods, you are afraid of teammates like pigs.
She did not meet all pig teammates, but she only cared about her own interests and gains and losses, did not consider others, and casually insulted, bullied, and killed teammates.
Not a pig friend, but also persecuted by her as a pig teammate.
Zhen Huan and the four brothers can win to the end precisely because they regard each other as smart people, respect each other, use each other, advance and retreat, advance and retreat, give each other what they need, and ultimately maximize the common interests of both sides.
Everyone has played the game of seesaw, want to play easily and smoothly, people sitting at both ends, must have the same weight, and at the same time use their hearts to exert their strength, one up and one up, one up, and so on.
Zhen Huan and the four brothers, this equally matched and common way of getting along, just in line with the "seesaw law" in interpersonal communication.
The "seesaw law" allows both parties in the relationship to be harmonious and balanced, and people can make the most of them to maximize their interests.
If you want to use the "seesaw law" in your work and emotional life, you can start from the following aspects:
1, sitting on the two sides of the seesaw, if the ability, weight of the same person, the disparity can not be too large;
2, respect for each other, only respect appears equal, equality will be balanced;
3, increase their own "use" value, the embodiment of value is in the degree of "being used";
4, when the other party sends a signal to go up, do not always occupy the high position, to make the next action, and at the same time in the center point of the force, to complete an up and down exchange.
May we win in life with our teammates, and don't win as a loner.
Author: Butterfly, a student of Tang Xiaoxiao's writing class, I have been paviliond, not worried and not afraid.
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