Imagine what your life was like when you were seven or eighty years old. What do you eat regularly? Who are the common people? What do you do?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > heart is old, it is really old</h1>
In the Indian movie "Daddy 102", the 75-year-old Bab is an old man who visits a doctor every week to make sure his blood pressure is normal, his refrigerator is always kept with monotonous healthy food, he bathes for no more than fifteen minutes at a time, he posts prompts in many parts of the house...
Babu's life is uneventful, probably after each of us gets old.
Fear of getting sick, so be cautious and stop dealing with high-calorie foods; afraid of forgetting things, so put prompts in sight.
"Old man, both afraid of living and afraid of death."
But Babu's 102-year-old father, Dartry, is a 26-year-old boy with a variety of delicacies in the refrigerator, a love of movement, a love of tossing, full of vitality, a young mentality, and living like a young lad.
Admittedly, Babu's life was orderly, but it lacked a vitality, in his words, "I am already an old man." ”
In fact, many people now are the same, although they are young, but their hearts are old, full of vicissitudes, every day muddy, counting the days.
It's just that such a life, such a life that can be seen at a glance, is what we want?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > are you willing to give up excess? </h1>
In the movie, in order to surpass the longevity record, the father decides to stay away from his old-fashioned, idle, and lifeless son Babu and send him to a nursing home.
At the same time, he also gave his son the opportunity to choose, hoping that his son would change himself and become a new look, full of innocence and vitality.
In life, we are generally not forced to that point and forced to change.
It's just that if the lifeless life is not what we want, we have to learn to change and give up the excess.
The extra thing could be an old blanket, it could be your own heavy emotions, or even your own white-eyed wolf child.
In the movie, Babu loses his innocent son and gets a son of a cold-blooded force, but as a father, he still has such a son in his heart. He was trapped in his son's indifference, but he was reluctant to let go.
Until the father started with a love letter and a blanket, little by little, he opened the heart of The Babu, so that the Babu could give up and bind himself, give up what made him unhappy, and give up what was not worth it.
Many times, in fact, the most unhappy and most feeling old is their anxious attitude.
When I was twenty years old, I was particularly anxious, thinking that I had achieved nothing, but in a few years I would become old, the corners of my eyes would have wrinkles, my back would be hunched, and my eyes would be unclear.
Every day is particularly anxious, unsteady, and even can't understand where the meaning of life is.
Until one day, I went to participate in the teacher group exercise training for the teacher, and the training ground was full of female teachers, all ages, all majors.
Maybe it's because of the atmosphere of the training, everyone is beating, and I feel the motivation of life.
Maybe it was the conversation between each other during the break that gave me some epiphany.
After a whole afternoon of training, I was already a little overwhelmed, but the teachers who were much older than me, each of them was still so energetic, there was no fatigue on their faces, no kind of grief, no anxiety, they just trained very peacefully, just practiced the movements naturally.
I think maybe it was because I wanted to prove myself too much at that time, too anxious to make achievements, but my own ability was insufficient, so I would be so anxious.
If I can give up the anxiety in my heart and my own eager attitude, life may change color.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > No matter how old you are, you will always be a child in the eyes of your father</h1>
I thought this was just a movie about the attitude of life, but I didn't expect to see such a deep father's love hidden behind it.
It turned out that the 102-year-old father suffered from brain cancer, and his only regret was that his 75-year-old son was unhappy and not strong enough, always thinking about his white-eyed wolf son.
So the nursing home thing was planned.
Even though his son is 75 years old, he is no longer a child.
Babu, as a father, is the same, when he learned that his son Amo was going to return to China, he prepared various things, never bought snacks, he bought a lot of snacks, carefully prepared various medicines, and bought a lot of mineral water.
If it weren't for his son being too chilling, Grandpa Dartry wouldn't have decided to let Babu cut off his son.
No matter how old you are, in the eyes of your parents, you are still a child, and your parents are most concerned about you.
But "If your son grows up to be an asshole, forget about him." Just remember his childhood, childhood. ”