In the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, even if you are 75 years old. Parents will always worry endlessly for their children, worry about your healthy growth when you are a child, grow up, worry about your love, work, and life. My parents are here, and I don't dare to grow old. Parents are there, people still have a place to come, parents are not there, and life is only a way back. This is the thinking and reflection brought to us by "Dad 102 Years Old", China is in an aging period, this movie came just right, can let us start from the depths of our hearts to pay attention to the elderly, pay attention to the elderly.
Dad 102 years old, son 75 years old, such a father and son, frolicking life daily, straight to our hearts, how should we treat children and parents in their old age? The father in the movie, Dartley, 102 years old but still full of vitality, he is not afraid of getting old, he is always trying new things, and the body of an old man lives in the soul of a young man. So, in the face of the 75-year-old conservative and stereotypical son Babu, dad is very angry, such a "tired of living, dying and afraid" person does not deserve to live under the same roof as me, he wants to send his son to a nursing home. You'll be blown away by the words of this hundred-year-old dad, "When your son becomes an asshole, you have to forget him, just remember his childhood." Hating iron is not steel, which may be the most vivid expression of many parents to their children.
This Indian lao tzu did not give up on his 75-year-old son, he was full of courage, pulling his son who was desperate to do what his son was afraid to try, and listed a series of tasks to transform his son, as the son of Lao Tzu, you must have the wisdom and courage worthy of Lao Tzu. He said that physical old age is not terrible, terrible is mental oldness, terrible is that you compromise with age and lose your curiosity about the world, lose your expectation of the unknown. Man, to maintain the heart of a child, in order to be young forever. The body can be old, but the mentality must remain young, when the son is completely infected by this attachment of the father, he can really grow up, although it is 75 years old, but it is not too late.
Father's love is like a mountain, deep and thick, so in the ordinary life to show the father's love of the film is actually rare, "Dad 102 years old" is a new attempt, in life, the role of the father is actually difficult, the responsibility is heavy, in fact, the father does not have to blindly play the black face to let the son get the teaching of life in fear. No matter when, the father will always be the example of the son, for both the father and the son, it seems to be a kind of decompression and release of the nature of the endorsement, do not dare to act arbitrarily because you are the father, and do not obey everything because you are the son, understanding and care, is the most essential interpretation of the father-son model.
Filial piety is not an obligation, but a reflection of love. The hundred-year-old Lao Tzu did not expect his son to be able to express himself in this regard, he just hoped that his son could face life squarely and correct his attitude, in the eyes of his parents, the so-called filial piety obligation of children does not exist at all, they do not want to put shackles on their children, all parents in the world are the same. Father and son on the screen, compared with a pair of fathers and sons in today's society, I believe that it will bring shock and thinking to you and me in reality, which is the meaning of the movie.
Speaking of the meaning of the film, perhaps Indian films are more realistic and representative, in their films to show the ability to portray good stories, good characters, good emotions, such a work with two white-haired fathers and sons as the protagonists who are completely unobtrusive, there is no cast, no thrilling plot, no playing high concepts, lonely empty nest old people and floating youth who are forced to make a living have difficulties, in the realistic theme of the film, Indian filmmakers are better than we have to do, they closely follow the hot topics in society, Truly and warmly writing about the family conflicts that we know but do not explicitly say, and giving gentle solutions, this is the root of the long-term prosperity of Indian films in the Chinese market.