A friend asked:
"Why are girls getting harder and harder to chase now?"
Is it hard to chase? I think it's you boys who are chasing more and more carelessly!
I once had a 10-day relationship. The first time we met, we left WeChat, chatted for three days and confessed, our love came too quickly like a tornado, came violently, and finally dissipated quickly.
Now I will not easily try to fall in love, and if I want to fall in love, I only want to fall in love with a boy with a high degree of persistence.
A line in the movie "Little Love Song of Paris" "Can you love me less, but love me longer" This is also the voice of many so-called "difficult to chase" girls.
I have always believed that love is an ability to keep like, to learn to control your feelings, not to explode in an instant, nor to suddenly disappear, but to like for a long time. If one person has a fixed amount of love for another, I hope not to stuff it into me at once, because I don't want to suffer a huge loss after the warm temperature cools.
Some people think that girls are difficult to chase, that is because they have evacuated before waiting for girls to say "thank you" or "willing", and finally complain that girls are becoming more and more picky and more difficult to chase.
In fact, girls want boys with high durability, whether it is the persistence of chasing or the persistence of love. Because being able to insist on liking a person without forgetting the original intention is not easy and can test the heart.
Life will always meet some people who have just met and are anxious to establish a relationship with you one day, which is not called love at first sight, this is the beginning of the year; some people will invest new feelings as soon as they break up with you, complete seamless docking, which is not called being able to afford to put it down, but he does not love you so much.
Everyone who really wants to fall in love deserves to be respected and protected; every relationship is also worth being taken seriously, and don't easily say you like it in the face of feelings, and don't give up easily.
May you who are [watching] decide to start, then talk about a lasting love!