My wife is a phoenix woman, and she woke up after she fell ill

My wife is a phoenix woman, from the countryside to study at the university, the major is not good (silk engineering), graduation is unemployed. Her sister recruited at home and gave birth to a son, so her parents and her sister's whole family used her as a pump, and all the responsibilities had to be borne by her, in fact, I had to bear it, which led to constant conflicts between husband and wife, and affected the children. A year ago, the wife's uterine fibroids were swollen, worried that it would become cancerous, and she had not told her sister, and as a result, her sister found an excuse to desperately ask for money, so I took the reason that my wife would become cancerous to find her sister to borrow money, and the result was that she never called again at once, so the wife began to wake up, but it is estimated that it is still only a quantitative change, and it is impossible to change qualitatively.