"In fact, I really want my mother to accompany me.
Even if it's to take care of me,
Mom
Please take care of me! "
Not long ago, Li Haihong of the Nursing Department of the First People's Hospital of Lianyungang City received a QQ message from her daughter's teacher, and only then did she know that one of her daughter's essays had complained about her "unqualified" mother, and the teacher was directly moved to cry when she was corrected.
Because of the particularity of the work, Li Haihong has a particularly small time to accompany her children, and the sensible daughter chooses to endure grievances alone and silently supports her mother's work.
I felt extremely guilty about receiving qq messages from my daughter's teacher
"When I saw the title of the essay, my heart was a little sour, after reading the whole essay, my heart was very unhappy, I felt very sorry for my daughter, I didn't expect that my usual work would bring her such a big impact." Li Haihong said that because he often works overtime and travels, he usually comes home late, and many meetings of the medical system will be arranged on weekends, so the time to accompany his daughter is really very small, after reading her daughter's composition, her heart will be broken.
△ Li Haihong
Because of the special nature of the hospital's work, Li Haihong has been very busy, her lover has been working in the field for a long time, and her daughter has basically been taken care of by her grandparents from childhood to adulthood. Li Haihong said that every time she travels, the child never calls or videos to her, and does not answer the call to the child, after watching her composition" "heard the closing sound, three steps and made two steps to run back to the room", only to know the child's inner blame and anger towards himself.
Li Haihong said that when her daughter was a child, she would hold her leg before each business trip and say: "Mom, don't go to work, mom you resign, mom you stay at home with me!" "When I grew up, I was very indifferent to the door. I thought that the child had passively adapted to the time when her mother was not at home, and never thought that the daughter after closing the door was actually behaving like this. Li Haihong talked about her child's composition, and her heart was full of guilt.
The full text of "Please Take Care of Me"
" Mom ..."
Hello? Okay, wait a minute, I'll come right away. "
I choked up a little, and finally I didn't make a sound again, but the fluctuations in my heart were too big to go, where are you going? Stay with me? ...... Mom had just returned from a business trip, and before she could open her suitcase, she was putting on her shoes and coat again.
Where she was going, of course, was to return to her "home", the place where the white expanse of disease and medicine was emitted; the place where the sirens sounded every now and then and broke into an ambulance; the place where the gods of death were often visited day and night. When she got there, she was like a fish in the water, and naturally she wouldn't think of taking me to play... I closed my mouth, took three steps back and made two steps back to the room and threw myself on the bed, buried my face in the quilt, and pursed my lips completely bloodied, and the heavy sound of closing the door came, and the grievances and anger drowned me.
Mom is always like this, since I can remember, she will come out early and return late, and her free time is either to make up for sleep or to prepare for work. In fact, I envy the children who are managed by their mothers every day, those who can see their mothers as soon as they look up, and there is always one more person's warm breath in the air around them. And I... I looked around, the cold wind blew on me, and before I could ask the absent man if he was tired or hungry! Anyway, since I was a child, this kind of thing has been countless, such as going abroad for three months when I was nine years old, such as a week ago in Wuxi, and now I am going back to "home" with her precious report (no), right! I gritted my teeth and suppressed the tears that were about to overflow.
In fact, I really want my mother to accompany me, no, even if it is a tube, it is good to manage me. Mom, please take care of me.
However, the hot water of the water cup at the table in front of the door was dangling, and the white mist that drifted out of my face was exhaled to my face, Mom, I don't know if this heat can last until you come back to take care of me. I tiptoed to my feet and took another breath toward Riha.
In addition to the blame, the composition is full of love for the mother, and the teacher directly looks at the crying
10-year-old Sun Fanshu is a student of the eighth class of the fifth grade in the west campus of Cangwu Primary School in Lianyungang City, in the eyes of the language teacher Shang Xiuqian, she is a very well-behaved and self-disciplined child, usually writing very well, not only literary, but also full of feelings, but when grading this "Please Take Care of Me", she was still shocked.
"I didn't expect that her child was so delicate in her heart, writing out not only a child's complaints and grievances about her mother's inability to accompany her, but also wrote about the child's love and understanding for her mother." Shang Xiuqian said, especially at the end of the essay, "Through the description of a cup of hot water, the psychological portrayal of the child and the mother looking forward to returning home is very well-placed, and it is really endless. "
Shang Xiuqian said that after she finished changing her composition, her eyes couldn't help but flow, but at the same time she felt that it was necessary to communicate this psychology of her children with parents, and she could not let parents affect the growth of their children because of their work.
Therefore, in addition to the entanglement, Shang Xiuqian finally couldn't help but send a message to Li Haihong, "Her mother has a very positive attitude, after reading the child's composition, she has been very guilty, and recently she has often contacted me to pay more attention to the child's situation." "
It's not that I blame my mom for just wanting more company
In his mother's eyes, Sun Fanshu has been very obedient since he was a child, and he especially likes to read books. It may be because he does not spend much time with his daughter, and some of her daughter's careful thoughts generally do not tell herself. Li Haihong said that in fact, before her daughter told her that she had written an article about her mother, she wanted to see it, but her daughter had not agreed, and she did not expect that her daughter hid so many words that she wanted to express to herself.
Sun Fanshu said in an interview that since she was a child, she was very envious of other children to have their mothers to accompany, but her mother was always busy, so she always felt very wronged, and gradually grew up, and she understood her mother's work, "I wrote this essay, not to blame her, I want her to see, so that she can accompany me more in the future, no matter what, I will always love my mother." ”
After Li Haihong returned home, she jokingly said to her daughter: "You write me like this, everyone knows that I am a bad mother." Sun Fanshu quickly comforted her, in fact, you are an excellent mother, you are great, I am proud of your profession. Seeing that her daughter understands herself in this way, Li Haihong said that she will try to balance work and life as much as possible in the future, and she must be a "qualified" mother.
After sharing the composition in the department, many of Li Haihong's colleagues could not help but sigh "This is not me." Li Haihong said that as a medical worker, engaging in this profession means dedication, and her daughter's self is also a true portrayal of many medical workers, fortunately, many people can get the understanding of their families, so that home and society are full of love and harmony.
In addition, after many colleagues in the hospital learned of this matter, they could not help but sigh: "Isn't this just me!" "
Engaging in this profession as a medical worker means dedication, in the eyes of patients, they are conscientious doctors and nurses; in the eyes of colleagues, they are colleagues and comrades-in-arms who work hard; in the eyes of parents and children, they are "irresponsible" children and parents.
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