What is the difference between the way men and women think?
Why do you always feel that sometimes you are talking to chickens and ducks and playing the piano to cows?
It turns out that there are these differences in the way everyone thinks about problems, and I have seen it for a long time.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > all say that girls are made of water, delicate in thought, sensitive and warm, too emotional and valued with the current thoughts. </h1>
When everyone describes girls crying, they always use the term "crying and crying" to describe it. When girls express dissatisfaction, they are better at combining body and mind.
When women encounter troubles and grievances, crying and talking is their usual way, because most men do not understand the situation and always use "unreasonable trouble" to fight back.
Women are more adept at the spring wind and rain in the expression of affection for their lovers, and the melting is silent.
Years and years and consistency are synonymous with them, and men do not understand the truth of this, always feel that a vigorous expression is the most memorable.
Women in the realization of self-worth, always hope for their children, which is why many hope that women become phoenixes, most of the parents who hope for Jackie Chan are mothers.
Similarly, women feel more happy moments than men. Women will remember the feeling given by men and return it with more effort.
Women generally have a better memory than men, and this deliberate memory is given by their own way of thinking.
I can't remember exactly which time I came home and listened to the neighbors chatting together.
Nine out of ten sentences out of ten are about their children.
There is a lot of praise, but most of them are women speaking, and they are eager for their own value to be realized in the education of their children.
Therefore, it can be seen that women are more willing to pin their hopes on their children in self-achievement.
Women's emotional expression needs are more exuberant, and they always deliberately lead the topic in some aspects that are superior to others, and eventually obtain psychological satisfaction.
The ultimate factor in women's comparison is the competition for a sense of emotional world acquisition, and perhaps the care and respect of partners and children for themselves is an important reason for their victory in the female group compared to other peers.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="53" > while men show different forms of expression in the way of thinking. </h1>
Hindered by the special requirements of Chinese education methods for men.
From childhood to adulthood, teachers and parents teach boys to have tears and not to flick, and boys to have gold under their knees, encouraging men to learn to hide their emotions.
To make progress in competition with others, such guidance has created that men always have the courage to find problems and solve problems in time.
Similarly, men are more mobile than women. The traditional thinking of the male outside and the female protagonist makes them uneasy about such a small world as the family. They insist that the eldest husband should go far away, have the ambitions and ideas of the world, and firmly grasp the responsibilities and obligations in their hands.
Men like to cut through the mess quickly, like to analyze problems with straight-line thinking, and find the fastest and most direct way to solve problems.
They tend not to pay much attention to the whole process of problem generation and the details of solving the problem, they are concerned with the final result.
As a result, you will find that men are always reluctant to stalemate when big quarrels occur because their way of thinking tells them that such a protracted battle is not good for them.
Most men choose to be patient, hoping that the other side can calm the war and solve the problem. But in the end there will be their own bottom line, once the warning line is crossed, men will feel that the other party is provoking themselves, provoking themselves, men's natural competitive thinking prompts them to immediately fight back and explode emotions.
Men are good at planning and positioning their own development, and at different stages choose a direction closer to their goals. Of course, most men have an inviolable sense of protection against their plans.
They only want their plans to be approved and not questioned.
As soon as there is a disagreement, they will immediately and rationally take the side of their own planning.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" > of course, this situation can be improved by chicken and duck. </h1>
Women can moderately reverse thinking, while men can run their rational thinking through divergent thinking.
When you encounter a problem, get it through. While analyzing the problem itself, we should think in a different position, compare horizontally and vertically, and choose the most reasonable solution, so that it is easy to aggregate the opinions of both sides to achieve peaceful coexistence.
After understanding the key points of the problem, men can innovate their thinking and innovate ways to solve problems within the scope of application, at the same time, women can fully combine their advantages in details in this process, analyze the various results and possible adverse consequences brought about by this process, so that under the combination and cooperation, adverse reactions can be effectively avoided afterwards.
Men, on the other hand, can use their own strengths in action, use the results of analysis to quickly line up, and apply all their ideas to the practical process in the fastest way, and put them into action.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="55" > such a combination can make efficient use of social resources and minimize unnecessary social labor. </h1>
I have always felt that it is not terrible to have contradictions, but the terrible thing is that in the process of resolving contradictions, when differences arise, they cannot understand each other.
In fact, the difference in thinking style is the ultimate cause of this disagreement.
Understanding the difference between male and female ways of thinking seems to give us great inspiration, and the combination of rationality and sensibility is another thinking test for the unity and cooperation of both sides.
After too many quarrels and disagreements, it is interesting to find that in fact, the collision of male and female minds is a very interesting thing.
Women should express their ideas more directly in their fast-paced lives. When men solve problems, give women more time to think, respect their views on the process of things, and may get unexpected gains.