There is nothing wrong with wanting to change their fate through hard work, but some young people are delusional to ascend to the heavens one step at a time, lack objective cognition of themselves, and always dream of pie in the sky.
I once watched a wonderful video speech, the content of the speech probably means not to let others disrupt your rhythm, life situations are different, your life has its own wonderful. Often it is a very simple truth, but there have always been people who do not understand and make a mess of their lives.
Call yourself a genius
Wu Hai, 40, a rural man full of self-confidence, said he was responsive, able to speak the Tao, and a rare genius.
It's just that the genius didn't meet Bole, who appreciated him, and he didn't have a penny on him, and he said that he hadn't eaten for several days.
To our surprise, Wu Hai, who did not have a penny on his body, was wearing a famous brand. Seeing our surprised eyes, Wu Hai smiled and said that people rely on clothes and horses to saddle, and their value can only be reflected in brand-name clothes.
"This coat is American Apple, pants are PEACEBIRD, shoes Ritai"
"How much does it cost?"
"One top is 1288"
I'm not an ordinary person
Wu Hai uses brand-name clothes to build up his own value, but his behavior is pure evil in the eyes of his parents.
When we arrived at Wu Hai's house, his parents were kneeling in front of a Buddha statue. The old couple can only earn more than 2,000 yuan a year, in order to save their son, they did not hesitate to spend ten thousand yuan from outside to invite a paper paste god statue, hoping that the god statue can make the son change from evil to righteousness and return to normal as soon as possible.
Wu Hai's father told us that his son was obedient and sensible from childhood to adulthood, and since he went out to work, he has become different. Seeing that their peers have made money outside and come home to build a new house, but they have found nothing, their hearts begin to be unbalanced. He felt that he did not succeed because of his low education, so he quit his job and bought various success books to study.
In order to squeeze into high society, he once stole 200 yuan from his parents to start a business, but spent it overnight.
Wu Hai was not discouraged, and used his parents' pension money to buy himself a variety of brand-name clothes and dressed up as a successful person.
"I am not an ordinary person, there is a saying called going with the flow, I am not like this, I bought the French Dipeng because I like its meaning, there is a saying that the French Di Peng is different." 」
Living in your own world can't help yourself
Wu Hai's idea seemed to his parents to be a fool's dream, and for this reason, they have been advising their son to recognize the facts as soon as possible and not to do something whimsical.
The words of his parents infuriated Wu Hai, and the obedient and sensible son in the eyes of his parents became a grumpy man, beating people at every turn and showing no mercy to his parents.
When Wu Hai raised the stool in his hand and smashed it against his father, I wondered what was going on in his heart? The white-haired old mother looked at her son with tears in her eyes and did not know how to persuade her.
The desire to succeed made Wu Hai violent and irritable, and anyone's persuasion was an irony in his heart, he felt that this was a denial of himself, and the more he thought about it, the more angry he became, and kicked the door and window glass to pieces. After venting his anger, Wu Hai's body became sour and weak, and he was pulled by his mother softly, and he couldn't even speak.
For more than a year after resigning, Wu Hai bought books in addition to buying designer clothes for himself, such as what to do with himself who is strong in his heart, the weakness of human nature, and so on.
According to Wu Hai, he likes to read psychology books the most, because in addition to being an orator, becoming a psychologist is his second dream.
Wife and daughter dispersion
Wu Hai, who had calmed down, seemed to realize that the behavior he had just acted was a bit inappropriate, after all, a successful person would not lose his temper at will.
Thinking of this, he immediately returned to the house to pick up a comb to sort out his hair, changed into a suit, and put on glasses, and the polite appearance was difficult to associate with the grumpy man just now.
Looking at the brand-name clothes hanging in Wu Hai's house, the more I look at it, the more I feel that the surrounding environment is very abrupt.
The people in the village scorned Wu Hai's successful philosophy, which made Wu Hai's heart more and more uncomfortable, and the more others looked down on him, the more he wanted to prove it to others.
Wu Hai now has only one idea, that is, to use the knowledge he has learned to help his family get out of trouble, but his actions are simply unrealistic in the eyes of his family, and Wu Hai, who is not understood, often fights with his family. Seeing her husband walk farther and farther down the wrong path, the wife ran away from home with her two children in a fit of rage.
We called Wu Hai's wife to hear what she really thought.
Wu Hai's wife told us that her husband's temper was originally very good, and since he went out to work and watched others earn more than himself, his mentality began to become abnormal. She is currently working outside the home with her two children, and if her husband insists on not changing, she plans to divorce him.
Wu Hai was dismissive of his wife's statement, "For her money is the first, and for me life is the first." ”
The parents looked at Wu Hai with a desperate face, they had lived in the mountains all their lives, they did not understand the so-called dreams in their son's mouth, they only knew one thing, and they had to live a down-to-earth life.
Wu Hai's father said that his son was not filial piety, Wu Hai heard this and immediately rushed to his father, but was stopped by everyone, who knew that he turned around and rushed to the second floor threatening to jump off the building, and his mother and several villagers rushed up and pulled him down.
Wu Hai, who was pulled down, cried bitterly, he did not understand why his parents did not understand him, his wife was gone, the children were gone, even his parents did not support him, then what was the meaning of his efforts?
We took Wu Hai to the hospital, and after the doctor's examination determined that he had mental problems, we recommended that Wu Hai be hospitalized.
Nowadays, the standard of success is to have a house and a car, but this is not a measure of happiness, Wu Hai only sees how much money others make, but he does not know that in the eyes of others, he who has children and daughters is also the envy of others. It is a pity that he only sees what he does not have, ignores what he has, and ends up deviating from the normal track and allowing himself to slide into the abyss.
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