Unique charm is the inner temperament that can really exude light. For example, if you really can't be gentle, and gentleness isn't for you, then don't change. Of course, the premise is that your "not gentle" must be bold, not rude. Because the former is charm, the latter is bad habits.
——(Excerpt from preface)
"The Most Elegant Woman with a Strong Heart"
Title: "The Most Elegant Woman with a Strong Heart"
Author: [American] Dale Carnegie [Translation] Duff
Publisher: China Overseas Chinese Publishing House
Category: Inspirational
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" >01 About this book</h1>
This book takes a "spiritual journey" from all aspects such as age, mentality, marriage, and the workplace, so as to make the heart strong and make life more elegant and excellent. Turn it over, taste it, then every woman can quietly cultivate into an elegant woman in daily life and enlighten a beautiful life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" >02 Author Profile</h1>
Dale Carnegie, the "father of adult education" in the United States, is a well-known psychologist and interpersonal relationship expert. At the same time, he is also a well-known American entrepreneur, oratory artist, known as "the greatest spiritual teacher of the 20th century". His spirit and thoughts have inspired countless women to have infinite love and confidence in life. With a wise and warm brushstroke, his works guide women how to create maturity, shape temperament, ignite charm, find a gentle and tenacious, calm and calm self, and cultivate a strong heart.
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Catalogue of "The Most Elegant Woman with a Strong Heart"
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" > classic statement</h1>
● "If you judge others, they will not judge you." ”
Appreciation and encouragement are the best ways to push people to the limits of their abilities.
Only people who are not smart enough criticize, blame, and complain about others. Indeed, a lot of stupid people do.
● Treating the world with one step is high, and retreat is the capital of progress; treating others with leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest.
Human life is only once, and anything good that can be contributed and good deeds should be done now, because life is only once.
● "Instead of being bitten by a dog for the right of way, it is better to give way to the dog beforehand." Otherwise, even if you kill the dog, it will not be possible to heal the wound. ”
• The consequences of arguing endlessly will not lead to anything; • Only to make the other party more firm in their own opinions; • You will always be a loser, because you will not get anything.
I think Sophie is a good example of how you can silence yourself first; you should learn to tolerate the mistakes made by others; when others accuse you of mistakes, you should gladly accept them; • You can consider using the method of changing the topic to avoid arguments.
I don't know why ladies argue and what you can get out of it. There are two outcomes in front of you, a temporary, verbal victory; and another a lasting liking for you. Don't know which one the ladies will choose? Anyway, it was me, and I would definitely choose the latter, because you can rarely have both.
Ladies, you have to learn to like yourself, the first thing to do is to make yourself patient enough to face your shortcomings. Of course, I must clarify that this approach is not to make ladies abandon their principles and lower their demands on themselves. Instead, I hope the ladies understand that no one is perfect.