Are older, more educated, high-income women easy to find a marriage partner?
Have they been unmarried and unwilling to make it up?
Or is it better to find that soul mate than to be indiscriminate?
Ning Fei is 37 years old this year, after 80, and has not yet married. She is a returnee ph.D. from a prestigious university. Time is really merciless, especially women, in the face of time, are often vulnerable. It is said that life is only a few decades, but the flowering period of women is shorter, thirty years old, in the blind date is a hurdle, before the age of thirty, more popular, everyone feels that the age is OK, willing to get along, after the age of thirty, in addition to remarrying to the child to find a mother, many men are not willing to find thirty years old.
Ning Fei's mother is a traditional woman, who has been talking about Ning Fei's marriage, and the blind date corner has not gone less. On this day, she took Ning Fei to the famous blind date corner in Shanghai.
At this time, an aunt happened to meet them and probably understood the basic situation of Ning Fei. Born in August 1984, Shanghai native, local house and car, doctor of finance, annual income of 1 million +, not much to deal with the object. The requirements for the other half are: the income cannot be lower than their own, they must be responsible, if they know the people who can make them look up. The aunt asked her if the conditions would be relaxed, and Ning Fei said firmly that it would not be relaxed.
The enthusiastic aunt is also an old man in the blind date corner, and she also feels that Ning Fei has good conditions in all aspects, so she introduced a man who meets the conditions to her. Men 81 years, economically higher than Ning Fei, local four suites, annual income of 2 million +, in addition to the car is also a million, it can be said that all aspects are good. Ning Fei also felt very good and was willing to talk and meet.
At that time, the aunt contacted the boy by phone and mentioned the situation of Ning Fei, and thought that it would be a good start. Unexpectedly, the boy's reply was extremely harsh. Ning Fei and his mother both heard the boy's reply, he said, she is almost forty years old, what do I want her to do, I can't find anyone, she is old, can't give birth, no, no need to waste time.
The aunt's phone was not opened and released, but the boy's emotions were very excited, and his voice improved a lot, which also made Ning Fei and his mother hear clearly.
I have to say that the boy's words are very difficult to listen to, and he may not have thought that the person in question is on the other end of the phone. The boy's words made Ning Fei feel like he had been slapped in broad daylight, and Ning Fei was aggrieved and angry. Her mother was even more angry and crying on the spot, and told Ning Fei with a crying voice, lower her own requirements, and find someone to live a stable life. Ning Fei insisted on sticking to his ideas.
Some uncles and aunts in the blind date corner are accustomed to such scenes and have not said anything, after all, everyone has their own choices.
Ning Fei's mother was very remorseful and did not settle Ning Fei's marriage early, and as a result, it was delayed until now, and she had to be ridiculed.
Men with excellent conditions, in blind dates, are more willing to find young, good-looking women. Women who can take care of themselves and their families and raise children are their first choice. And older women with high education and high income are often unwilling to spend too much time at home.
Ning Fei suffered a humiliation, her face was very poor, arrogant and extremely unwilling, her mother repeatedly let her lower her requirements, but Ning Fei still felt that she was good enough and was not willing to lower her requirements. 37-year-old Ning Fei, is age really hindering her from finding love?