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Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

author:Tokyo Lao Xiao

Seeing the cover come in, do you want to see any tiger and wolf words, or you already have your own answer to this question.

The country is known worldwide for its online action movies and offline genre stores. The special cuisine of Hida Shinchi, the kabukicho all over the cowherd, the bubble paradise of Hakata Susukino, and the century-old flow of Yoshihara Fukuhara have had a profound impact on the industrialization of Hankook Port Guan.

Especially in the past thirty years of rapid development of the Internet, from the first generation of Iijima Ai, the second generation of Mu Aoi, the third generation of Muba Tano, the fourth generation of Mu Asuka, and so on, under the careful tuning of teachers, textbooks have also changed from pictures to blurry picture quality, to 1080P, and then to today's VR blessing.

Coupled with the cloud Japanese evaluation of various third-stream media, I am afraid that you will all smile and meditate: This kind of country talks to me about sexual concepts? Are you kidding?

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

The conservative Meiji period and the early Showa period

Japan's concept of sex at different times is completely different.

Contrary to what many people think, Japan also had a relatively conservative period, and the time was not short. During the Meiji period, if a woman reached the age suitable for marriage, she would be examined by the other party's parents before marriage( pin ding め), and only after passing the marriage could she get married. In many expeditions, virginity is generally a necessary condition. In the Meiji period, girls' schools were designed to cultivate good wives and mothers, and to prohibit the interaction between men and women, emphasizing purity.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

Before World War II, most women worked in the fields or in shops. There is basically no need to have much contact with men other than husbands on a daily basis. So sexiness, or sexual charisma, becomes the original sin in society. In the 1950s, during Japan's rapid economic growth, more and more young women became the wives of big business owners, and as noblewomen, they needed to know how to dress and socialize. However, they can't find an object to imitate around them. I couldn't even find it in magazines, after all, even the best female star was not sexy at that time. In the eyes of Japanese men, only Western women can be sexy.

In 1956, when the Weekly Yomiuri initiated the question "What do you think of chastity," 80 percent of the people answered that "it should be guarded" (守るべき).

The famous female writer Hanako Muraoka said:

"Giving the flesh to the other person is a huge gamble for women, and once it is given out, it is very likely that they will be abandoned, so having sex easily is definitely a big problem."

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

Full emancipation after the bubble economy

He knows the etiquette in a hurry, and he thinks of lust and lust. After entering the Showa 30 years, the Japanese economy entered a period of spiraling ups and downs, and the wealth of the whole society was extremely inflated.

A college student who is about to graduate can hold 3 offers at the same time, and these three companies will take the initiative to entertain candidates in order to compete for talents, including but not limited to business entertainment, and directly give business fees.

Yes, you read that right. Before entering the company, companies will take the initiative to stuff money in order to compete for talents. In contrast to today's Japanese social animals crowded on the subway in the morning rush hour, the old people who have walked through that era will sigh and say: Showa.

And the housewives hold the financial power of the family, Hermès, Chanel, LV all kinds of luxury goods as if they do not want money to move to the family in batches. When material needs expand dramatically, so do psychological and physiological needs. Women's magazine articles about sex began to increase dramatically, such as what to do if husbands can't meet their wives' sexual needs, and whether physical infidelity after marriage is not cheating, which has entered mainstream magazines.

By 1968, the morning show on television had a "sex column," and sex had reached the "official stage" in Japan.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

Someone once said that a country's economic index is directly proportional to male consumption. And the originator of Asian male color consumption is undoubtedly a beautiful teenager: Takuya Kimura, a man who has swept an era.

In 1995, Kanebo invited Takuya Kimura to shoot an advertisement for her new lipstick. After this advertisement was broadcast, kimura's sexy eyes and provocative actions caused a huge response in society. Within two months of the commercial becoming popular, sales of the lipstick reached 3 million.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

With the take-off of the economy, many women no longer suppress their desires, no longer as passive objects, but as a subject to sexual life and even sexual consumption.

Here is a small Tip: Japan's cowboy shop basically arose in this time period, and this is the era of killing Matt, non-mainstream popularity, watching the video after the 90s and even some of the post-80s should have an impression of it, no impression can go to the QQ space to turn over their own or friends' black history. This is also one of the reasons why many cowherds still maintain a non-mainstream style, without him, the main consumer customer is still the wave of rich girls of the year, and now the rich too.

Interestingly, when feminism was rapidly inflating the desire to consume, the internal camp of women began to split. Some women began to shout about equal rights for men and women, women's politics, and women can also have the right to enjoy sex. What's more, the cowherd shop should be affordable, and women can consume customs and trades in the same way as men.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

But on the other hand, in 1989, at its peak, a magazine with absolute influence in Japan, published a special issue: "Can't Miss!" The Handbook for Being a Good Woman".

At this time, Japanese women not only consume goods, but also materialize themselves into goods, and try to become a "good product", of course, there must be a "good product" processing process.

Some women's rights, look like feminism, but what they do is patriarchal. What does feminism look like in the United States? Society is unfair to women and strives to improve it. What about feminism in Japan? Society is unfair to women, so you owe me. That's thousands of years of oppression of women!!

——————! add! money! It's very moist.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

Tokyo is a hot and frigid moment

The Dark Empire S1, MOODYZ, AND IP clubs are still teaching men around the world, Hida's cuisine is still comforting hungry wanderers, Yoshihara's bubble bath is still washing away the wind and dust for tired people, and Tokyo is still very hot!

But on the other hand, the BBC documentary Sexless in Japan, which aired in July 2017, mentioned that 43% of Young Japanese people between the ages of 18 and 34 have never had sexual experience and 64% have no partner. One interviewee said bluntly: "Don't talk to me about sex, I'm Japanese."

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

On the one hand, Tokyo is very hot, and on the other hand, there is a large rise of sexual frigidity, otaku, and low birthrate. It seems difficult to say what the concept of sex is in Japan today. Someone once said that trying to explain a complicated life in one sentence is undoubtedly ridiculous.

Some people have virgin plots, some people don't. There are first kisses for first love in school, but there are also many people who have been slightly shy and have not talked about love for many years. I don't know women over the age of 30 who haven't yet experienced it, but there are many girls with zero experience who are under 30 years old and under 25 years old.

The same is true of the idea of one country, one nation, one culture. If we just say that Japan's sexual concept today is more open than we think? yes. At the same time, it is more conservative than we think. It is more indulgent than we think, and more repressive than we think.

Where is this not the case? Don't let Ming say, but there are also many edge ball apps, time management masters that pop up from time to time, thousands of people PDF records... And so on, and so on in Japan, what can happen in Japan is also happening in Japan.

You Xian Grotto, Legend of the Goddess, Lost Building, Pleasant Love Array, Spring Lantern Mystery History, Gu Yu Yan, Qinglou Dream, Joyful Enemy, Zhu Lin Ye History, Curtain Flower Shadow, Tasting Flower Treasure Book. The crystallization of the wisdom of the great predecessors in this regard has never allowed people to focus on the former pair.

Finally, with regard to the concept of sex, I agree with Teacher Li Yinhe's three principles of sex: privacy, voluntariness, and adulthood.

Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

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I write travelogues, and they say promote perverse values.

I write history, and they say I borrow the past to satirize the present.

I commented on current events, and they said my ass wasn't right.

Then I wrote about my life, and they said that I was full of rumors.

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Tokyo is hot and frigid – what is the Japanese concept of sex?

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