The knees were faintly sore.
Although the classmates behind me didn't say anything, a red cloud floated on my face because I was embarrassed.
Some time ago, I sprained my knee and spun up, hoping not to block everyone.
Suddenly, there was a sound behind me.
"You can't go yet?" Less loaded, I don't know you yet. ”
The words came out of his mouth lightly and were heard by everyone.
The smile on my face vanished, and the friendship of two years of classmates did not expect to become the best excuse for him to misunderstand me.
My friend was still carefully holding me, and she raised her eyes angrily.
The boy strode freely in front of us, his head not turned back, and the red corners of his clothes floated over the wall, doing as he pleased.
The shallow comfort of my friend to me seemed to him in his ears as if it were the triumph of his victory.
I don't know what kind of thought he had when he said that firm word.
Not sure if he came to the conclusion that he knew me by observing my behavior.
All this reverie gripped my throat tightly.
On the way home, I was angry and didn't say a word.
Our shallow perception of others leads to the most vicious harm.
I remember a male classmate in elementary school who always had his head down, his neck tilted forward, and his flesh-colored cracked lips could not hide his yellowed teeth when he smiled.
There is no one to play with him, and if you meet them together, your body will be branded as "accomplice" by the hordes of boys.
Some of us girls don't understand why he is so sloppy and ignorant, and how he can't apply such a simple thing as socializing.
Until one time, I saw a scene that I could not forget.
In homework tutoring class, his mother beat him up because he repeatedly made mistakes.
One by one, he slapped him on the neck and probed forward.
Finally his head was pressed against the desk, and the sob flowed.
I quietly glanced up, and he glanced at me briefly, dodging in his bloodshot eyes, and a little ashamed.
Since then, I've been not afraid to play with him, I've been joking with him.
Because I know, we can't choose things that we are born with, such as birth, such as IQ.
But they irreversibly determine the course of our lives.
But if others are stuck in such stereotypes and label us arbitrarily, this is the biggest unfairness of society.
Do you remember the last time you heard yourself from someone else?
Why are there so many bloggers now calling, don't care about other people's eyes, do whatever you want.
Because we have flaws in this regard.
Other bloggers will tell us about maverick beauty and bravery.
But most of the time, we need more than courage, we need to weigh the pros and cons with reason and think fully.
As the words in the love apartment "Life is a live broadcast." ”
Being mindful of risks does not mean cowering.
One day, our experience allows us to be our own captains.
The kind that can reverse the direction of the wind.