When I first watched the TV series "Thirty Only", I only felt that there was a forest of green tea, and a wave of green tea operations made people hate it and itch their teeth.
But when I looked at it again, I suddenly realized that even if there was no Lin Youyou, there would definitely be Zhang Youyou and Wang Youyou.
In other words, although the green tea forest has been hated, the "helmsman" who really caused the failure of this marriage is still Gu Jia, and she must bear 80% or more responsibility for this failed marriage.
1, seemingly perfect Gu Jia, lost at the beginning!
At first glance, "Thirty Only" was simply "perfect" by Gu Jia, living into the most perfect look in the hearts of countless women, without a single flaw.
He took care of his own baby at home, took care of his son and husband, and the things in the company were even more familiar. Walking between career and family, skillful is like a cattle solution.
There is even a new word "Gu Xue" derived, describing the study of Gu Jia's practice, language art, green technology, etc., in all aspects, Gu Jia is a high match.
Even when "Thirty Only" was popular, #顾佳 the greenery in the world was once on Weibo's hot search, making countless people shoot the case, and women should be so domineering.
Just by relying on an orange to judge the green tea around the husband, and then, without being soft, he immediately tore it, did not tear it in public, but retaliated with a tooth for a tooth, so that the other party retreated from the difficulty, and netizens directly called out to do a beautiful job.
However, when I watched "Thirty Only", I suddenly realized that it was also this move, which doomed Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan's marriage from the beginning not to last long.
There is never a shortage of warblers and swallows around a bright man, even if it is a human green vessel, there are times when they are not present. The key to solving the other party's infidelity is to make the other party wake up, not to fight on your own.
2, Xu Huanshan's derailment is also expected!
This bridge section is actually paving the way for the emergence of Lin Youyou, even if Gu Jia rarely goes to the company, but the company is very close to her, it is also controllable, it can be said that it is her main battlefield, compared to the fledgling girl, she has an absolute advantage.
Therefore, after the employees sent an orange, Gu Jia quickly attacked and decisively strangled the factors affecting their love in the cradle, but Lin had something she did not expect and could not stop.
Lin Youyou was met by Xu Huanshan when he was on a business trip, without Gu Jia's obstruction, Xu Huanshan had no resistance to the temptation of the outside, they only met for the first time, Lin Youyou brazenly licked Xu Huanshan's ice cream.
And Xu Huanshan's smile instantly interpreted the essence of the "scumbag", in the conversation with Lin Youyou, he repeatedly mentioned that his wife would not let him eat this, did not let him eat that.
So much so that in Lin Youyou's eyes, Gu Jia would regulate and control everything about Xu Huanshan, and at this time, Lin Youyou actually had some real sympathy for Xu Huanshan.
In her eyes, Xu Huanshan was not happy, but he had more wealth than his peers, but he couldn't even decide what he could eat, and he had to obey his wife's arrangement.
It is also Gu Jia's "package" that lays hidden dangers for their lives, even if Gu Jia does not let Xu Huanshan finish eating because of Xu Huanshan's physical reasons, although Gu Jia accompanies him hungry when Xu Huanshan does not eat.
But after a person has been bound for too long, what he wants is to break free, and as to whether he is healthy or not, whether he is healthy or not is good or not, at this time he has been completely covered up by the desire to break free.
Xu Huanshan was like this, and she and Lin Youyou began to eat dinner when they were together. Gu Jia's past companionship was not as good as Lin Youyou's sudden appearance for a few days.
Suddenly remembered a passage that Fu Seoul once said, marriage is two people agreed to go to a distant place together, the scenery along the way is very good, you in order not to let him see the scenery, you will pull up all the windows, this is not a good marriage, a good marriage is that you are prepared in your heart, he has the right to get off at any time, but he has not left.
In just a few words, the true meaning of marriage is exhausted, she is "tied up with five flowers" can not get off the car can not prove that he loves you, he looked at the scenery all the way and was reluctant to get off the car can prove that he loves you.
Obviously, Gu Jia has been playing the role of "Five Flowers and Big Tie", so it is no wonder that Xu Huanshan will get off the bus quickly in a place without Gu Jia's supervision.
It seems outrageous, but in fact there are rules to follow.
3, loyalty is a kind of self-discipline, not you manage it
In the vast sea of people, we met, no step earlier, not one step later, but happy to tie the knot.
In fact, in the end, marriage is just a choice, the most valuable thing is not that we have chosen each other in many choices, but no matter how long it takes, we will still choose each other in many choices.
Never interfere too much with the other person's living habits, even if it is really for his own good, it must be appropriate, once the interference is too much, it will only be counterproductive.
Secondly, marriage is a choice, loyalty is also a choice, it is impossible to control by management, only the fit of the soul can make each other feel sorry for each other.