Text/Coriander
As the saying goes: reach out and don't hit the smiling face. The meaning of this is that when you face a person with a smile on your face, you can't beat her with your hands.
So, a smile is a "weapon" that can change a lot of things. In history, there have been cases of "red face and smile war", and there are also red face beauties who "look back at a smile and a hundred beautiful students, and the six palaces are pink and colorless". And here, it is a series of reactions due to "laughter".
I once read a book called "The Woman Who Loves to Laugh Is Not Too Lucky", which talks about how women can use their smiles to get more of what she wants.
Smile, is there really such a big charm? yes. A woman who always smiles, she must be a kind and intelligent person, and a kind person, people always like.
Zhu Xiaojuan (pseudonym) is a gentle woman, a standard post-90s woman. She has a pretty face and big smiling eyes. After graduating from college, Zhu Xiaojuan was pulled by her cousin to help look at the clothing store. My cousin's clothing store is quite large, and it is a chain of brands, so there are many people who need it.
At that time, Zhu Xiaojuan thought of helping her cousin do it for a while, and then find a job she liked. Every day, Zhu Xiaojuan laughed and talked in the store, so that the customers who came to the store were infected by her. Xiao Juan smiled, and her eyes were raised upwards, making people feel that she was smiling from the heart, which was very sincere.
It is precisely because of this that Zhu Xiaojuan's business is doing very well, and many customers who come to the store like to let her serve. In addition, Xiaojuan studied design in college, although she is not a clothing major, she is still more sensitive to fashion. Therefore, the combination she suggests for her guests is also deeply appreciated by customers.
But in this way, the other employees in the store were not happy, and although Zhu Xiaojuan was the cousin of the boss, they decided to join forces to rectify her.
One day, Zhu Xiaojuan sold a piece of clothing, took it to the cashier to help the guest pay for it, and then packed the bag and sent the guest out of the store. Unexpectedly, just over two hours later, the guest came back to her angrily, saying that the clothes she had just bought were good, and how to get home and become a torn dress.
Zhu Xiaojuan opened her clothes and looked at it, and sure enough, she broke a hole. But this dress was obviously good just now! Zhu Xiaojuan looked up at her colleague Wu Tong (pseudonym) at the cash register, and she was looking at herself with happiness.
Zhu Xiaojuan quickly understood what was going on. She smiled apologetically at the guest, and then sincerely said that there was no suitable size in the store for this dress, so she herself was willing to compensate the customer for twice the price of the clothes.
The guests were embarrassed, because from the time she returned to the store, Zhu Xiaojuan has been accompanying herself with a smiley face, and she has not argued for herself for half a sentence, and now she has taken the initiative to lose twice the money, so the guests feel embarrassed to be embarrassed by Xiaojuan.
However, just now I clearly remembered that the clothes were fine. The guest secretly pulled Xiao Juan aside and asked, "Little girl, have you offended your colleagues?" Someone deliberately wants to tidy you up? ”
Zhu Xiaojuan still smiled like that: "No, it may be that I am careless!" I'm so sorry to make you run again! ”
The guest sighed, said nothing more, took the money and left. Zhu Xiaojuan silently put away her clothes, put them in her bag, and then continued to greet guests with smiling faces. Although she spent almost half a month's salary to compensate for the dress, she still felt that she should do that.
The colleague at the cash register lowered his head in embarrassment. This matter was the same as in the past, Zhu Xiaojuan did not mention half a sentence. Colleagues all know this, and later the cousin also knows, ask her what's going on, Zhu Xiaojuan just smiled, said it's okay, it's her own carelessness.
Unexpectedly, not long after, the customer who got the torn clothes came to the store again, and she also brought a friend. Similarly, they designated Zhu Xiaojuan to serve. When Zhu Xiaojuan dressed them, the female guest who came to the store for the first time asked Xiaojuan if she would like to go to work at her company.
It turned out that the guest was the manager of a company and was looking for a reliable secretary. After listening to my friend say Xiao Juan's story, I came to see it. Unexpectedly, as soon as I saw Xiaojuan, I was attracted by her sweet smile. In addition, she heard that Xiaojuan was also a college student, so she said that she needed such a secretary.
Zhu Xiaojuan is naturally willing, and she also hopes that she can have a better development. My cousin was not embarrassed to keep her again, after all, being able to have more experience was also a good thing for Xiao Juan.
Therefore, Zhu Xiaojuan left the store and went to work in her new post. Soon, she used her sincerity, her smile, and of course, her ability to do her new job well and get along well with her colleagues.
Therefore, a smile is a "soft weapon", which can not only resolve grievances, but also bring good luck to yourself. Facing others with a smiling face can often play a multiplier role with half the effort.
Just like Xiao Juan, because of that dress, if she used strong words to defend herself, it would only make the guests more angry. On the contrary, she just greets her with a smile from beginning to end, and uses the loss of her own interests to satisfy the frustration of the guests, so as to exchange the guests' understanding and even embarrassment. It seems that Xiaojuan is losing money, but in fact, she is earning, because she has won the job opportunity in the back with her own behavior.
So, keep smiling, keep kind, life will often have unexpected gains!