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In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

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In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

At the beginning of July, the unit notified the physical examination, but did not go to the hospital in time. Immediately after the epidemic came, participating in the prevention and control inspection was only one aspect, and during that time, it was impossible to go to the hospital.

After the epidemic, I completely blame myself for grinding. Sometimes, I am really ready to go, but either this thing is that thing, or I get up in the morning and do not pay attention to drinking a cup of warm boiled water, which will affect the indicators and have not been done.

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

01

Last week, the office announced that the deadline for medical examinations would be at the end of the month. Prepare your ID card and medical appointment sheet last night, get up early in the morning, and don't drink warm water. After washing, drive early to the hospital.

By then, it was not yet half past seven, but there were already more than a dozen elderly people in front of it. Wait for the door to open, register, and enter the medical examination procedure.

There are more and more people around, feeling that the masks worn are no longer enough, so she asked the guide if she could buy a new one, she said to ask the service desk, see how many people there are consulting, it is also counted.

The hospital has been remodeled and the second floor is dedicated to medical examinations. After completing one, according to the prompts, you must wait at the door of the designated clinic. While waiting, the nurse guide came over, holding a mask in both hands, and said that she had finally found you. I just casually asked, but I didn't expect that she not only remembered it in her heart, but also put it into practice.

There is a project that needs to be blown, and the doctor asks if you can take anti-inflammatory drugs within a month? I said that I had had amoxicillin and ornidazole last week because of a tooth problem. She said responsibly: "In this case, if you want to do this test, the results may not be true, either give up or come back in a month." ”

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

02

There were more and more people in the corridor. I just heard that today is to arrange a physical examination for some retirees of the newspaper group. They live in a very scattered place, and they can only be encountered throughout the year, that is, through physical examinations. No wonder they met each other very cordially. The old man is old, and after a long absence, he will be excited like a child.

Next to the seat, there was an aunt with gray hair, quietly watching the names that kept scrolling on the electronic screen, staring at herself in the first place. At this time, a tall uncle who was also gray-haired and tall stepped forward, excitedly tapped the aunt's shoulder and said, "Little Ginger, you are here too!" "And sat down in the empty space between us.

Greeting with a meeting like that shows how harmonious their relationship is. Seeing that they were sitting very huddled together, I moved to the side. I heard him asking, "How did you get here?" Aunt Jiang said: "He sent it to my family, and every year for the physical examination, he accompanies me." ”

As she greeted, a small old man stood up in the chair next to her, and quickly walked over and asked, "Is it your boss?" "No, it's Xiao Ji, you don't know?" He smiled and shook his head.

Watching him stand in front of him, the old man known as Xiao Ji showed a very unnatural look of helplessness. Soon, Xiao Jiang and his wife went to the next physical examination project.

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

03

In the department of otolaryngology, she is a middle-aged female doctor who wears glasses and looks very Sven. During the inspection, I was very patient. Let me open my mouth and say that the right tonsil is a little large, and tell me to insist on exercising and sweat a little every day.

What does the throat have to do with exercise? Seeing that I had doubts, she explained: "People should strengthen their physique through exercise, and their immunity will be stronger." That way, if you don't catch a cold, the tonsils won't become inflamed. ”

While waiting at the other door, listening to other people chatting, I probably knew that the person who came to the medical examination today was an employee who had retired from the newspaper printing factory and driving class. From the voice and expression of the chat, it can be roughly distinguished who is the driver and which is the printing worker. One of them, the spirit of life, said: "I am still young, only after 70, now do not organize the elderly to go out to travel, we drive the class to build a group, which day about the self-driving tour okay?" ”

So older can still drive? "As long as the physical examination is okay and the mind is clear, what does it matter if you drive?" I am a post-80s, and today I just drove myself. The other old man in front of him couldn't see that he was in his 80s.

A person next to him said that he also saw a video of the newspaper shooting a promotional video, and one of the readers was the old man, and they were all praising it. He said modestly: "It's nothing, they need it, everyone else is busy, I'm an old man, I have nothing to do at home, it doesn't matter if I go and participate." ”

He thought he was a driver when he was young, but he shook his head and said, "I only learned to drive after retirement, and I have been driving for more than 20 years." ”

This is the first time I have heard of it, and it is really impressive. He said that he must have insisted on exercising in order to have such a good body. "I never exercise, and when I retire, I don't deliberately demand of myself, and I don't set any goals. Now that the grandchildren are older, there is nothing to do at home, eat when you want, sleep when you want, and be free. "It shows that he has a very pleasant life."

Hearing the doctor shouting his name, he immediately jumped up from his chair and walked quickly toward the examination room, less than a meter and a half tall, with a relaxed and flexible gait. Can't help but ask others, what did he do in the past, is he really in his 80s? "Can this still be fake? When he was in his post, he worked hard and complained, and retired from the position of director of the newspaper printing plant..."

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

04

In internal medicine, it is a doctor who was familiar with the examination before. He was a little handsome man who had been doing administrative work in the hospital office, and he didn't expect to sit there, although they were all wearing masks, but they recognized each other at a glance.

He smiled and said, "You're finally here." "After the normalization of epidemic prevention and control, I called him and asked which day I could have a physical examination, recently, Ichat contacted which day to facilitate, several times he replied that he arranged a unit physical examination, and there were many people.

In the aisle, an eye examination is performed. Only this project does not need to be queued. A nurse sat there leisurely with a long pole in her hand, and when she saw someone coming, she gestured with the long pole and sat down with her back to the eye chart. After the test, looking at the numbers on the table, my left and right eyes are 4.9.

I remember that in the past, the vision of both eyes was 1.5, and now the eyes are obviously old, and I don't know what the relationship between these two numbers is. She chuckled and whispered, "Look at your watch yourself." "I saw that next to 4.9 on the eye chart, there was also 0.8 in small font. It shows that the vision is much worse, usually still pay attention to, not too difficult for the eyes.

There is a test in which the doctor gives the inhale, hold the breath again, and then receive the compressions. Hear "How come there's so much gas in your stomach?" After asking this question, I also felt very confused, why is my stomach bulging? It should be that the appetite is too good, resulting in too much fat, remind yourself that you really have to control your mouth and open your legs.

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

05

According to the guidelines, do CT. Only this project is on the first floor, and after going down, there are also several elderly people sitting at the door. Between examinations, the doctor opened the door, took my medical examination form, and said: "There are a few people in front, please wait at the door." ”

It was past 10:30, my stomach was hungry early, and I could go to breakfast after doing CT. He didn't sit down and kept standing in the doorway. Listen to the old man in the chair say: "This project is very fast, go in and shoot a film and you can come out." "But it turned out that the old man had finished checking and leaving, and the chair had been changed again, and it had not yet been my turn."

Opening the door and consulting the doctor, he said, "It's not here yet, wait a minute." "Since the doctor said it, he must listen."

After a while, the doctor opened the door and called out a name, shouting one after another, the volume continued to increase, and no one answered. The old man who was chatting in the chair replied, "He?" CT has been done for a long time. When we came down, we saw him go upstairs with the list! ”

The doctor did not believe it, shouted a few more times, still did not agree, looked at both sides, did not see anyone, and began to take the mobile phone to make a hurry to call. Listening to the sound, it is to make the people upstairs quickly find this person.

The old man in the chair was talking: "He must have taken away someone else's checklist." Yesterday here also made a mistake, two people's inspection, there will be different results, how can you do this work? ”

I will believe it. After a while, an old man took the list down, and looked at it, and in the upper right corner, it was my picture. Inside the CT room, there is also a room. A girl sat there and turned back to me and said, "You must have been yelling at the doctor just now that you didn't hear me." ”

Listening to what she said, I didn't think much of it. During that time, I stood in the doorway waiting. Even if who was not there at that time, you can shout the next one, and you can't check it if you don't have a table! Moreover, the physical examination of the two units is not the same. No wonder an old man had appeared earlier who had gone in, checking two or three times as long as the others.

Fortunately, the instrument patiently examined me, and the doctor came over and said, "Okay, you're fine." The happiest thing to hear this sentence, the anxiety and sorrow brought about by waiting in front of me disappeared in an instant.

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

06

There is also a surgical project that has not been checked, look at the screen, ranked on the 28th, and eat in the canteen first. The waiter wanted to check the physical examination list, she brushed the code, while inexplicably said: "This list has been brushed, you have eaten before, right?" ”

Thinking that there was no breakfast to eat, fortunately, the waiter himself "fluttered" a smile, and immediately explained: "Remember, it doesn't matter, I will give you it, do you want meat or vegetable buns?" When the man came to eat just now, I wondered why people didn't match their age. At that time, the two of them were together, and they knew that this watch was not him, but they still asked to eat it first. ”

I said I was too hungry to have meat and vegetable bags. She still smiled and said, "It doesn't matter, you can eat whatever you want." ”

Eat well, go to the door of the surgical office, the screen, and just happen to scroll to my name. Entering the door, the doctor ordered two squat movements, let the back to him, patted on the shoulder, neck, back, etc., said nothing, the end of the physical examination.

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

07

Driving downstairs, I found that there were more and more spots on the front windshield, and I couldn't wipe it with my hands, let alone let the wiper scratch. The vehicle was parked under a holly tree and looked up, with a magpie's nest built on it.

Going out, showing to pay 10 yuan for parking, stopped for three or four hours, the cost is not expensive. While scanning the code, he said to himself that the time of this physical examination was really too long. He said, "What about the physical examination?" At the end, as long as you say drive, they will give a parking ticket. "The cars have all driven to the door, and it is impossible to go back and get them." Then scan the code, but the security master said it kindly, remotely controlling the pole in front of him and lifting it...

The front windshield of a vehicle, like a window at home, is also like a human eye, if it is too blurry to see clearly, it is definitely not OK. So he took his mobile phone and called a former comrade-in-arms, who opened a car wash nearby.

The phone rang and no one answered. After a while, I received a message tone: "A meeting is underway." "When he enlisted, he worked as a clerk in the recruit company, and I was an instructor. Because of his cleverness, he later learned to drive and became a driver for the leader. After leaving the army, he started his own business, relied on diligence and steadfastness, and did a good job.

I have been calling him Xiao Liu, in fact, he is not a few years younger than me. My cars, all parked in the garage, can't be washed once or twice a year. If you go to him, you will say hello in advance. He replied to his message: "Come and get the car right away." ”

The car went to the door of the car wash shop, and saw that many vehicles inside were waiting to be repaired, and the workers were busy. As she was about to leave, Xiao Liu's wife looked over to this side and rolled down the window. She saw me and ran over and asked what she was going to do with the car? I pointed to the windshield, and she immediately let it go inside.

The car is parked in the car wash. Got out of the car to chat with Xiao Liu's old father-in-law and asked him where he was going for the meeting. At this time, Xiao Liu came out of the lounge with a smile on his face with his rice bowl. I asked the meeting was over? He said inexplicably that there was no meeting.

I opened my phone and saw a message: "Hello, is our car blocked, I am not on a business trip this week, please tell me the situation, thank you!" "I was driving just now, and I didn't see the message back. At this time, it felt wrong. Xiao Liu said: "That was the number many years ago, and it has long been useless." ”

Today, I really met everything! Life is the same, there is always bitterness and happiness, when encountering troubles, even if you get up early but catch the late set, you don't have to be too hot. In fact, I blame myself for not complying with the prescribed medical examination time. In view of the mistakes of others, we should forgive more and not blame. Around the corner, there may be something happy waiting.

(October 30, 2021)

In view of the faults of others, we should forgive more and not blame

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