I recounted a true experience of myself, married for twenty years, and my wife discovered my secret

This story happened to me and my wife, who have been married for twenty years. At first we had a good relationship, but, as time passed day by day. My wife and I were constantly arguing. The two of us usually didn't understand me, and I didn't understand her, so just yesterday we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.

Here's how not long ago I had a big fight with my wife! As for the reasons here I will not elaborate. We drove to the Civil Affairs Bureau early in the morning before yesterday, and at eight o'clock in the morning, the Civil Affairs Bureau just opened its doors, and my wife and I walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau, and we did not hesitate to go through the divorce procedures without hesitation. The moment I got my divorce papers, I didn't say anything, just got my head down and went back to the car and sat down. My wife sat on a roadblock on the side of the road. Without saying a word to each other, I was quietly smoking a cigarette in the car. After a minute or two, I pulled out my phone and sent a message to my wife.

I said that we have been together for so many years, and to this point today, I did not expect it. My wife replied to me. Yeah, I didn't think we'd get to where we are today. Now we are liberated from each other, we are also free, in the future you meet a person you love, remember to take a little more time to accompany her, don't be like me like the cold and hot, you only leave me alone at home every day, I don't even have a person to talk to every day, after you start a new life, don't snub her. I replied that after so many years, I have been working desperately outside for this family, working overtime desperately, so that you and your children can live a better life, what I did not expect was that I actually ignored your feelings. My wife replied that we won't talk about this, let's finally eat a casual meal, just go eat your favorite fish head. I replied that I have eaten fish heads for so many years, every time my family eats fish, I eat fish heads, and now we are divorced, this time let me eat fish meat, can you eat fish heads? My wife replied in surprise, "Aren't you the one who usually loves fish heads the most?" Every time we eat fish, you say that you are rushing to eat the head of the fish, why didn't you eat it this time? Let me eat?. I replied, alas, speaking of this, anyway, now that we are all divorced, there is nothing we can't say, before our family was not rich, do you remember how long it took our family to eat fish at that time? I thought there was so little meat for fish heads, and every time I wanted to leave the fish for you to eat, so I said I liked to eat fish heads. However, over time, you have taken my kindness to you as a habit. My wife replied that in fact, my favorite food is the fish head, I like to eat the fish head, but every time I watch you and I rush to eat the fish head, I think you like to eat the fish head so much that I want you to eat it. Hearing my wife say this, I immediately felt a pang of sadness in my heart. So I walked up to my wife and said, it seems that the two of us have been for work and children for so many years, ignoring each other's feelings, and our feelings will slowly fade. The wife said yes, these years we have indeed ignored each other's feelings, the heart is complaining and dissatisfaction, but can not see each other's advantages, can not see each other's efforts, forget how we came from the hard days before, in fact, I still love you in my heart. I didn't expect to come to this point.

I was silent for a while and said to my wife, Okay, let's not talk about this, this time I will let you eat the fish head, I will eat the fish. When I said this, my wife hugged me tightly at once, and at this moment I also hugged her tightly, and the two of us hugged each other tightly.

In fact, I think the best love is not how much you give each other, but the mutual understanding and mutual support between two people. No matter how much you give him, you don't understand his heart, you don't understand him, you don't really understand him. The same can not be exchanged for his sincerity. What is a couple? Husband and wife are like a pair of chopsticks to taste the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy in life, coarse tea and light rice. Husbands and wives are like two doors, one on the left and one on the right. Guarding a home together will not be warm in one home. Husbands and wives just quarrel and will not remember revenge, and anger will not really turn their faces. You tolerate me, I tolerate you. The real life is not so romantic, only chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea. In our lives, couples can communicate a little more, complain less, and understand each other! Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife last! Do you agree with me? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section