Lead:
After the death of her wife, Aunt Hu's life has changed a lot, no one hurts her anymore, no one takes care of her, not even a person to talk, she does not miss her wife for a day, every day with the lone lamp, long nights are sleepless, three years later everything has changed.
My surname is Hu, I am 58 years old this year, and the death of my wife is a heavy blow to me
I have lived with my wife for 30 years, it can be said that it is a bitter couple, we have been noisy and noisy for a lifetime, but no one can do without anyone, our feelings are very deep.
He was three years older than me, and we both had only one child, and he was also very filial, but after leaving home to work, it was like a bird flying away and rarely came back.
At that time, I had just retired, busy all my life, thinking of enjoying life, traveling around the world, seeing my old classmates who had not been in contact for decades, but the good days had just passed a year, and a medical certificate from my wife broke everything.
My wife suffered from lung cancer, due to long-term smoking and drinking, damage to the health of my wife, I decided to save my wife at any cost, send my wife to the most famous cancer hospital in the province for treatment, my wife also actively cooperated, after surgery, chemotherapy, targeted therapy and other methods, my wife's condition finally stabilized, at home recuperation for rehabilitation treatment.
My wife's condition is getting better and better, I thought he could recover his health, who knows three years later, the cancer metastasized again, fully recurred, back to heaven is powerless, my wife left me, never to come back, toss and turn to go to people and money.
The death of my wife was a heavy blow to me, in the past he was at home, big and small things were his ideas, he was also very concerned about taking care of me, never did anything sorry for me, although we often quarreled and gambled, but, the husband and wife did not have an overnight vendetta, and so on the next day forgot everything, who did not count, a thought of a lifetime with his wife, grief, night can not sleep.
I went to my daughter's place to relax, helped her see the child, met my old classmates, and introduced me to the object
If it weren't for my daughter being with me, I would have almost collapsed and didn't want to live, and my daughter told me to go to her side, live with her, and see the children by the way.
I went to my daughter's side, it was in Shantou, the family invited a small nanny, I did not have much to do, is to tease the grandson, go outside to play, later, I took the initiative to propose, I look at the child, the little nanny resigned, you can also reduce the expenditure, the daughter agreed.
In this way, every day with the little grandson, teasing him to coax him, I also slowly freed myself from sadness, once, the child had a fever, the son-in-law was not at home, on a business trip in the field, the daughter could not come back from the meeting, I hurriedly took a taxi, sent the child to the city hospital, in the hospital, actually met my old classmate, she also took the grandson to see a doctor.
In this way, I got in touch with her, I lived in the neighborhood opposite me, it was okay, I often went to her house to play, she also came to my house to sit, our relationship was getting better and better, we met at night to dance square dance, I was no longer strangers there, the old classmate learned that my wife died alone, introduced her colleague friend Lao Wu to me, I did not think of marrying him.
Old Wu pursued me, and I promised to marry him, but I didn't expect to get an unexpected surprise
After knowing Lao Wu, we added WeChat to each other, he chatted with me every day, greeted me, cared about me, and I learned that his wife had died for 5 years and was also living alone.
We were in agreement in many ways, we were on the same page, and we became good friends who talked about everything, and he pursued me passionately, asking me to promise him to marry him, he said to give me the best, he said that after meeting me, he changed his view of celibacy.
Willing to accompany me, the two spent the rest of their lives together, and he even handed me long paper love letters about his past and present, and also dissected himself, talking about his strengths and weaknesses, and his privacy without reservation.
I felt that he really liked me and loved me, and I also changed my opinion and promised to look around with him, who wanted him, and he gave me a lot of surprises.
He said that when he got married, the house he would renovate, marry me home as a bride, and take me on a tour of the country, and he would take care of me and give me the best.
He said I was the best woman he had ever met, he couldn't give up on me, he would definitely give me happiness, and after half a year of dating and careful consideration, and asking for the opinions of both children, I finally agreed to his request and married him.
He also fulfilled his promise, gave me a grand wedding, filmed a video to play in the circle of friends, classmates and friends congratulated us both, wishing us a white head and old age.
After I married him, I relaxed a lot, housework he took the initiative to do, and the real estate certificate was in my hands, the salary card was also handed to me, he only had one requirement, accompanied him to spend the rest of his life, did not expect to marry him got so many surprises, I felt very happy, but also felt very relieved, but also realized the wish of the former wife, he told me before he died: "Find a man who likes you, marry him."
epilogue:
Who says old people don't have happiness? Although many people have prejudices against the second marriage of the elderly, it is undeniable that many elderly people still find happiness in their old age, and hope that there are more lost elderly people like Aunt Hu who can find their other half and have a happy old age.
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