This question can not be generalized, some boys have a little like to the girl's needs, some boys have a need for girls, may be that you have a good relationship, or belong to the type of old good people, not very good at rejecting other people's requests.
Therefore, boys have everything they need about you, whether they like you or not, but also depend on the specific situation.
In the following situations, the boy is responsive to your needs and does not like you:
1. Grow up together, deep friendship.
There is a feeling called "childhood playmate, play together from childhood to adulthood", this deep friendship established from childhood to adulthood, with exclusive memories of the two of you, but this is not love, but a sincere friendship.
So, if the two of you play together from childhood to adulthood, his responsiveness to you does not necessarily mean that he likes you, in his eyes, you may be his best friend, or perhaps you belong to the kind of brother and sister who is not related by blood.
2. Due to his personality, he is a good old man himself.
There is a kind of good person, called "old good man", this type of person, not good at rejecting other people's requests, will be responsive to anyone who is similar to their own relationship.
As for whether he belongs to the good old man who is responsive, you can judge from his attitude towards the requests of relatives and friends around him, if any friend of the opposite sex will be responsive no matter what he asks him to help with, then he belongs to the type of good old man.
3. Your request is nothing more than a show of hands for him.
Another situation is that your request is very simple, and it is easy for him to do, such as: help you get a courier, help you move something, chat with you, accompany you shopping...
Also, when you ask him to buy you something, if he happily buys it for you, and his family is financially well off, then he may not like you.
In the following situations, boys respond to your needs and like you:
1. Responsiveness that does not distinguish between difficulties.
No matter what you do, everyone has their own limits, and for ordinary friendships, if you ask for help beyond his limits, he will most likely politely or directly reject you.
And if a person likes you, even if the help you ask for is beyond his limits, he will involuntarily do his best, or help you find someone who can solve your problem, in short, he will not refuse your request.
This type of person looks more like the old good man, but unlike the good old man, the old good man generally does what he can do with a jump, and this type of person is anything you ask for, he will respond to everything he asks for and does his best.
2. Put down the needs of important work.
This is easy to understand, just let's say that you are a very loving couple, then, for him, you are the most important person in his life, and nothing is as important as your safety.
Therefore, if a guy likes you, even when he is very busy, even if he is doing a very important thing, he will stop and listen carefully to the things you encounter, if your things are really anxious, he will immediately help you do things first, if your things are not particularly urgent, he will speed up his important and urgent work, and then immediately help you to do things.
3. What you can do, he will also respond to.
There is also a situation where he knows very well what you ask him to do, and you can easily do it yourself, but he will still help you do it, and he may just like you.
Because many people like to express themselves in front of the people they like, for him, you let him do things, is to give him a chance to express himself in front of you, he will not let go of this opportunity, so, knowing that you can do it, he will help you to do it.
Changyan Changyu:
If a guy is responsive to your needs, does he like you? It depends on how responsive he is to you and how you spend your days together.
If his response to your needs is not difficult, then he may just like you, if you are playing together from childhood to adulthood, or you usually get along very well, or you are a girlfriend, brothers get along with each other, then he may not like you.
Of course, we also have a popular consensus, that is, "people who like you, when they look at you, their eyes are sparkling.".
Finally, if something like "He or she responds to your needs, does he or she like you?" "The question proves that you have fallen in love with him or her, at this time, you may as well put aside your gender distinction and go to confess to him."
After all, do you really like it, only after the confession to know, any speculation before the confession is just speculation, and why let yourself fall into doubt?
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