There is a very obvious feeling of seeing the divine eagle hero, Guo Jing and his wife prefer Guo Fu, and for the second daughter Guo Xiang, although they also love, but the degree is far less than Guo Fu.
Perhaps Guo Fu is a case of educational failure, so the two are particularly strict with Guo Xiang and do not want her to repeat the mistakes of her sister. But in the end, it is still related to Guo Jing Huang Rong's mentality.
And the mentality of the two is all hidden in the names of Guo Fu and Guo Xiang.
Guo Fu's fu character, at first glance, is the girl's name. The background of Guo Fu's birth is that Guo Jing Huang Rong just married, happy and happy on Peach Blossom Island, living a fairy-like life, without distraction. At this time, Guo Jing can be said to be completely immersed in the sweet life.
To be sure, Guo Fu's name was Guo Jing's. Guo Fu's Fu, Huang Rong's Rong, just happens to be Hibiscus. Although Huang Rong was a mother, she was not very old at the time, and like her daughter, she was also enjoying Guo Jing's pampering. It can be said that in Guo Jing's eyes, this mother and daughter duo is a pair of sister flowers.
It can be said that the years or even more than ten years after Guo Fu's birth were the most stress-free and happiest time in Guo Jing's life. At this time, he is a simple father, or a simple husband, and what he has to do is to love his daughter and wife.
But Guo Xiang was completely different.
At that time, Guo Jing Huang Rong re-emerged from the jianghu and shouldered the heavy responsibility of defending Xiangyang. Obviously, at this time, Guo Jing Huang Rong could not be as calm as before. They began to be preoccupied and began to think about more, more ambitious things. At this time, the small self has long given way to the big me. Guo Jing has long since changed from an ordinary father and husband to Guo Daxia, who the people rely on, Guo Juxia. He could not simply pay for his daughter and his family, because at this time, he had to serve the country and the people.
Huang Rong, as the woman behind Guo Jing, was completely assimilated by Guo Jing's values.
Guo Xiang's Xiang character actually has a very strong wartime color, and this name is very neutral when it sounds. Because we are too familiar with the story of the god statue and the person Guo Xiang, we preconceived that this is a girl's name. In fact, the name Guo Xiang, objectively speaking, even if it is installed on a boy, there is no sense of violation.
The word Xiang means that the child was born in the midst of war. The harsh birth background has actually doomed her to be impossible to get 100% of the energy and love of her parents like her sister.
In fact, Guo Xiang is fine, and Guo Shaoyu is even more obvious. The name even carries a strong sense of mission. It was as if he was born ready to fight and was not entitled to the benefits of a child being loved.
Facts have also proved that although Guo Jing Huang Rong loves Guo Xiang, their energy is limited, and it is impossible to put all their thoughts on this little daughter. Guo Xiang was taken captive twice, and Guo Jing did not look for him once. Of course, as the main defender of the city, he could not leave without permission, but doesn't this confirm what we said? His energy, the part he could give to his daughter, was really limited. Even if Guo Xiang was tied to a wooden stake by the Golden Wheel Guoshi, Guo Jing had to focus on the overall situation, preferring to sacrifice his daughter and take care of the overall situation.
In fact, in the final analysis, this is the difference between the juvenile mentality and the middle-aged mentality. Young and newly married, have not yet felt the pressure of life, can easily enjoy the happiness of the world; but in middle age, the pressure from all directions will make people breathless. Ordinary people are still like this, let alone those who play an important role in society?
Fu character, light fluttering; Xiang character, heavy. That's the weight of mindset.